Maradium


MarAdentro Male Switch, 32, Schorndorf	maradona75 Male Submissive, 31, athens	maradeur Male Dominant, 27, San Diego, California

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	About Maradium First things first -- I AM MARRIED. We never sleep together. Have not done so in years. She has no need for sex, and is disgjusted at the idea of kinky sex in any shape or form, in so much as it deviates from missionary. Therefore, I'm essentially celibate. Haven't had sex in years. But, even so, I'm not looking for SEX. Far from it. I'm looking for an exciting BDSM play partner! To be even more clear, she knows all about what I'm saying here. She doesn't want to know, but, she already knows far more than she wants to know. I'm not the type to lie and hide this. Read my words, meet me, talk to her, and see if that's not the case. To be explicitly clear, I have tried many times to work things out, to no avail. Circumstances prevent a divorce. I feel I am left with two options; this or a version of celibacy that only allows for masturbation in private. I choose the former. If that bothers you, hit your back button right now. If not, and you can respect my need for discretion and no-strings-attached, we'll get along great. (No-strings does not equate to one-night-stand nor to the lack of a meaningful relationship.) In the first couple years of marriage my wife simply gave up on vanilla, and was never ever kinky. Even a blow job is too much for her, and forget cunnilingus. She was appalled about about my affinity for kinky things. The problem is I need it! Just because she has no sex drive doesn't mean mine stops working. I still crave all that nasty, dirty, naughty stuff. . . I need a woman to give me her body to use as my personal plaything! So if you're still reading, fantastic. Thank you for not being a judgmental ass who thinks I should talk-it-out more. Believe me I've tried several times to communicate my unhappiness, which has been shrugged off. There are two more issues I want to address up front: Discretion and No-Strings-Attached! It should go without saying, but any communication or meeting must stay between us. I also want to be clear that I will not be leaving my wife. I have given it thought, but circumstances keep me from doing so. If you understand and respect these two very important concepts, we'll get along great. ABOUT ME: What can be said in a profile that would make you swoon instantly? Not much, if anything. I'll try, but if you want to get to know me, you'll have to write. Don't be shy, just click the link up there and say a few things. It doesn't have to be a novel. . . just a few sentences explaining what about my post intrigued you. I promise I won't bite. . . that comes later! WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR: An ongoing daytime relationship where we can both live out our sexual fantasies! I can't have you over to my place, so you must be able to host. I'm a bit of a soft Top so I like to control the pleasure. You should be willing to submit your body as my plaything. Let me stress here that if you are inexperienced, that's OK. I have experience with new and veteran submissives. We will go at your pace (granted I'll be pushing). You should be into, or at least curious about, most of the following activities. In no particular order: • Lingerie, both traditional and latex -- It's not necessarily an activity, but I'm all about presentation! Though I prefer latex, the stuff from Fredricks is equally exciting. Stockings, garters, corsets, catsuits. . . anything to display your body's sexuality. And don't forget the heels. • Hoods & blindfolds -- A tight fitting latex hood with just a mouth cutout is fucking hot! You don't always need to see what's going on. • Gags -- Ball gags for keeping you quiet, ring gags for shoving my cock down your throat. Can't control your gag reflex? We'll work on that. • Bondage -- Not just a pair of fuzzy handcuffs. . . I want you bound in positions that display and expose your body, are often awkward and uncomfortable, and force you to endure sexual torture, forced orgasms, and (use your imagination.) • Anal play -- Toys, stretching, enemas. . . there's a reason you have multiple holes. • Pussy play -- Pegs, whips, spreading your lips, stuffing with large toys. Basically assume that two, if not all three, of your holes will have something in them most of the time. • Breast bondage & torture -- Wrap them tightly, then clamp them, pinch them, pull them, slap them. • Crying -- I wouldn't expect to see it in the beginning, but I've always wanted to work someone up to the point of crying. Something to think about for down the road. • Collars -- The symbol that you have given your body to me to do what I want with. • Deepthroating/Facefucking -- I grab hold of your head and bounce it up and down on my cock. Let me give a brief example of an ideal scenario on a given meeting day: I knock on your door and you answer wearing a very short mini skirt, thigh-high stockings with a garter and heels, and an open-cup bra. I step inside and see several toys I have requested waiting on the nearby table. . . an anal plug, small bottle of lube, ring gag, nipple clamps, and your collar. You greet me with a kiss and hand me the collar, which I place around your neck. I instruct you insert the anal plug in your ass. You turn around and bend over, your mini skirt riding up as you spread your ass and rub some lube on. I can also see your smoothly shaved pussy, glistening in anticipation. You press the tip of the plug to your ass and slowly slide it in, then stand up and face me again. I apply the clamps to your aroused nipples before asking you to open your mouth and put on the gag. I lead you by the nipple clamps to the bedroom. You are instructed to spread your legs wide and place your hands on top of your head. I reach in my bag and pull out a few weights and a small flogger. The weights get clipped to the chain on your nipple clamps, tugging down on your breasts. Taking position right in front of you, I gently swing the flogger up between your legs. It contacts your wet pussy with a dull smack and your thighs twitch inward. You wince as you maintain your composure. Well I don't want to give too much away, but that, along with the pictures, should give you a solid idea what I'm looking for. As you have probably figured out I'm looking for a submissive or a 'sex-slave', someone who is willing to accept a lot of forms of sexual torture and pleasure simply because she wants to please me. Don't worry, I reward well for taking it like a good-girl! I should add that being bi or bi-curious will be a major plus and greatly rewarded when the time comes. (Thinking long term I would like to bring another submissive in at some point, well after our relationship is established) Also, if you are pregnant and interested, major bonus points! I've always wanted to dominate a pregnant woman. A few final points. . . While I am definitely much more dominant, in my early days of BDSM, I was a switch, and once in a while I get the itch to be the one taken advantage of. If you're interested in reversing roles once in a while, bonus points for you. If not, it's certainly not a deal-breaker by any means. I'm not opposed to engaging with a couple, provided the male is not participating at all. I don't have experience with, but I'm open to being the other guy in a scenario where he could only listen from the other room, maybe watch. Lastly, while I may enjoy watching you squirm uncomfortably and I like to try new things, I do have hard limits. I will never agree to, nor ask you to do; watersports, needles or anything else that would produce blood, autoerotic asphyxiation (light choking is ok, certainly nothing that completely cuts off the airway), or anything that would leave a mark longer than 24-48 hours (a good tit slapping may leave a bruise or small mark, but anything beyond that doesn't interest me.) If you've read this far, hopefully I've got your hooked! evil grin But I'm going to start our sexual journey by asking you to do something. When/if you reply, please put "998" somewhere in the subject line That way I know you've read the whole thing and aren't just some scammer trying to get my email address. Thanks for taking the time to read this very long post (it got a little out of control), and good luck in your own search.

Been out of it for a while. Does it come and go for you too? The whole CollarSpace thing, not the kink, for heaven's sake!

Sexual objectification play includes things like speech restriction - you are simply a sex toy, so you have no need to talk or communicate. Another big aspect for me is orgasm denial. The focus is entirely on the Dominant's pleasure, and the submissive is assumed to have no independent needs, desires or wishes of their own. Some people do denial in a teasing way, to increase the submissive's pleasure, but in objectification this is completely irrelevant - the submissive is simply a sexual object and you wouldn't tease her any more than you'd tease a blow up doll.

The object also has no preferences in how they are used, so the submissive will learn to take anal, oral, etc. with pleasure.

To be explicitly clear, I have tried many times to work things out, to no avail. Circumstances prevent a divorce. I feel I am left with two options; this or a version of celibacy that only allows for masturbation in private. I choose the former. If that bothers you, hit your back button right now. If not, and you can respect my need for discretion and no-strings-attached, we'll get along great. (No-strings does not equate to one-night-stand nor to the lack of a meaningful relationship.)

To me, you can't play together without forming a relationship of some sort, which in of itself, is part of the fun of acting out roleplay together.

To me, the difference between a slave and a submissive is up to the two people defining it. To me, a slave has given away more attributes of choice, while a submissive retains all the inherent choices. Both have limits, but, one has fewer choices in what to do to please than the other. Do you concur?

"Submission is not about what the dominant partner does TO the submissive partner. It's about what the submissive does FOR the dominant."

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Maradium

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