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Male Submissive, 24

Male Submissive, 43, cincinnati, Ohio

Male Submissive, 31, Orange, California

I have been busy and took some time away from everything and every one hoping to figure out what it is that I really want in life and relationships. I am still on that discovery path but doing better than I was. There are people in line all wanting to know what I am going to do and all want me with them. Everyone including yourself have positive and negative attributes which is why I am still talking with you. But I have learned in myself that deciding who is nearly impossible. But a choice does need to be made and made soon. I have set a date for me to either say hello and be with someone or say good by to all of it. This includes the current master that I have been with for a while now. I am hoping this will happen before the new year. I am currently out of town. I took time off of work and been doing some traveling. I am not seeing anyone else or anything like that. I just packed a bag and went to the airport and got on a plane and left.

I have been off this site for a few weeks and found that some here have either missed me or figured I was not interested or moved on and sent some nice good luck letters and other not so nice letters. I took time off for a vacation and like many of you I am not on this site 24/7 and actually try to have a life outside of collar space. While I was on vacation I did travel out of town to visit a poly family that consist of both masters and slaves, all men. I have been interested in being part of a poly family and been contacted by a few poly homes seeking me as a slave. This one family were one of the first people to contact me when I first got an account and I became very good friends with one of the slaves. I spent a few days with this family, but will not becoming a member of this family as I am not a good fit to the other members of it. it was a mutual feeling and we parted as friends and will remain so, but I will not be a member of there family. Spending time away and also with this poly family gave me time to do some sole searching about what I really want. I am still talking with my current master but nothing has been firmed up so I am still looking. For those of you that have blown me off because you have been waiting a few days for a reply obviously are not serious or someone that I would give myself to.

So here is the Dom part of me and sadly this site brings this out in people so I doubt I am the first. If you are upset and have been waiting for a long time to hear from me this maybe the reason. No profile No Pictures (guys we all have dicks, I do not need to see yours to know you got one) Age (sadly I had to set a limit on age) if your old enough to be my grandfather or ready for the nursing home, I do not wish to be your slave. but the limit was at 60.

I am finding that writing here is being read a lot and making a difference so I will keep doing so. But this one is going to be kept short. Sending me one email saying I want you and then expecting me on my knees at your front door the next day to be your slave will NEVER HAPPEN! Sending me several emails saying hi, hi, great body, hi and then get upset if all I say is hit back or do not respond back in a timely manner is not telling me anything that your interested in me and your true colors come out when I say I am not interested based on your HI one word messages to me and then you get upset and say I am not a true slave or a fake or something else. Just get a life and save the time and not write me. That one word HI is filling up my inbox and I have read 100's of them With all of this said I need to add this: Yes I am still looking but my current life and situation is changing for the good  but until the changes are to the level that I want and would expect from all of the real men on this site I will continue to look and if my life here does get serious I will let the world know that I am no longer looking. But that day is not today.

Just some thoughts I have about things and figured I would say them here. Limits: Subs and slaves have limits. I have always believed that someone that is owned is a pet and as such pets do not have personal limits other than the limits set by the owner. But as a slave my limits are no drugs, no animals, no death games, no blood and no under legal age people. Hair: As for hair, I have no body hair as the picture shows. I have had laser hair removal done and other than what's on my head the rest of me is very smooth. I do expect to wear a collar for the rest of my life and realize that being locked in chastity is a fact of life as well. Markings: Not sure why this matters but back to the slave and pet thing and this is just a belief I have always had. slaves get ownership markings that are temporary, tattoos and piercings pets get ownership marks that cannot be removed such as a brands or cutting. The owner obviously can do what they wish in marking there property and I do like tats and piercings, but I currently have none. The reason for this is that I have always felt they are things that should be done by my owner. if I went out and got a tattoo and the owner did not like it, then they have to look at it al the time, so best not to have any and when I get them they are of a design and placement that is pleasing to the owner.

I was answering a letter and some of the questions are things I have been asked a lot Why I am seeking to move and exactly what am I seeking. and how did I get into this life. The main reason for leaving here is because of my family. I have been gay my entire life, yes been with girls now and then so I guess I am bi but lean hard to men. My family does not get it. I really do not care if they do or don't but they should accept that I do. I do not see them much but when I do often times the first question asked is if I am still gay and when will I grow out of it. That last time I was with any of them was last Xmas. We do a family gift exchange and I had my younger brother this year. I got to the front door but did not get inside. I was stopped at the door and the first two questions asked were did I get him a gay gift and am I still into guys or have I grown out of it.  I have a sister that is also not accepted and she lives in another state she has not been home for many years, she never runs the risk of walking into any family on accident while at the store and no one knows anything about her life , except for me and she lives a great life. So with all that said that is why I am looking to leave, so finding a master that is not here is a big plus, but I also want that person to be someone that I want to be with for life. Other than that, I cannot put my finger on exactly what I want in a future owner. It is just that spark that clicks with me. Yes I want someone that is very serious and open. I do not want a bedroom master. What I mean by that is someone that is scared to be seen with me in public and tell anyone and everyone that I belong to him, in vanilla public and kink. It was several years ago when I was younger, My sister and I were playing. We dressed up for Halloween and went out. When we got out of the house she needed to complete her/ our costumes. She was going as a witch and I was her slave servant. I was actually dressed in a monkey outfit from the wizard of Oz and she put a collar and leash on me. I loved it and when we got up to the doors and people saw us she would say she was a witch and I was her servant. One of the doors we hit the lady said that my sisters outfit was great and having a slave on a leash was a great. So then she started telling everyone that I was her slave on a leash and then she said pet. After that night we got a lot closer and she would tie me up and do other things. But we had to do it all in private, but when alone or out with some of her friends I was known as her slave brother. So that was basically how I got into this life. I was little but being with my sister and her friends and being open to them and serving them in little ways was great. It also got me into a lot of cool things that were girl only because the girls all knew me and trusted me. So my slave life started with girls and my sister. To this day even as adults she still refers to me as her slave. Yes she is a dominant. I met a man who was older than me and he was my first. I have not always been in the shape that I am in now, but he got me into working out and fitness. He has passed away and is dearly missed or I would still be with him. But being with men I am more myself and it is who I am. What I am seeking in a future owner is someone that is established in there life and career. Someone that is older than me, (maybe 10 years, but not set in stone). Someone that has the means to keep a slave. I get that I may need to work outside the home, but I am not seeking a master that is just looking for someone they can prostitute out to anyone with money. I also do not want a master that just sits around, eats and gets fat having the slave do everything. For this kind of life to be forever there has to be a connection on all levels, sports, interests etc. Yes I am seeking a slave life but not seeking to be locked away in a cage for life and pulled out for sex or sold for it and then tossed back into the cage. if I wanted that kind of life I could easily brake the law and get tossed into jail, it would be a hell of a lot easier than being on this web site trying to find someone.  I know that a slave life is about chains, cages and firm restrictions but it is also a lifetime together or service. The only way to serve for life is to serve someone that you want to be with. If a slave is forced to be with someone than that slave will always been looking for the door and waiting for the opportunity that the owner is relaxed or forgets to lock it and then the slave is running. So finding someone that we connect on all levels is very important and a must. letters to me that say just stop looking and come to me now. Do not get much look on my part. Those that have no profile or a little one liner do not get much look on my part either. letters that I reply to and then get a little okay or some stupid response get very little or nothing back from me. So if your doing these things and cannot understand why I am not interested in you, these are some hints as to why. I also have to wonder about the guys that contact me and want me but then ask me what my name is.My profile has my name in it, if you have no clue what my name is than all you are interested in me is my picture.

Yes I am still looking but to my amazement I have been narrowing down the list to a select few serious and future owner. But no one is a stand out yet.

The weather has been great and I am working hard and also playing hard. Been helping a master and some friends do some construction project, building a fence and deck. I am not great at carpentry, but enjoy it and having others that do know a lot about it i am a fast learner and it has been fun. But not all of you have appreciated my absence from this site. I have not forgotten anyone an for the stack of mail i have, none of you have forgotten about me either. In all honesty it has been refreshing to take a break from here. There are so many great men that all have great profiles and interest in me that the act of actually narrowing down the search i am finding nearly impossible. I am not sure how i will do it. For the few that i have told about my currently master and living situation/life. That is actually improving. The reactions I am getting from the master i have been with is getting better ever since he found out i was looking to leave. For everyone reading this I am still seriously looking to leave. I feel that if it takes the threat of leaving someone for that person to change, the change that he will need to make but be serious and complete for me to stop looking and if i find someone else before my current master changes than i will leave him. Some of you have been great in helping me learn more about myself and exactly what it is i am seeking. There are some of you that feel that making the choice to go to someone is very easy and should be done fast and without thought. That to me is fantasy thinking and not reality. Yes i am looking but i am not going to rush into anything or to anyone. It will take a few months maybe even a year before a move is made. If that does not work for you, sorry and sorry to say this, but the list of men interested in me is huge.

I have only been on this site for a few days, the letters I have received are still pouring in, but I am seeing letters in response to the ones I sent out on top so I do respond to them faster. The problem with this is that the letters that are maybe a day old could be pages away and getting buried. I have had some very serious letters and they have all been eye opening to me as to the life that I have not been living as a slave. I have  lot of freedom with the master I am with and thought it was a strict one but the more I think and read the more I am realizing I am a sex boy toy with some bdsm mixed in and even though I have a job I am a kept boy. I need to take time to figure out what it is I am really seeking. The one thing that really surprises me in the amount of letters I have from men that have farms and want several slaves to work the farm. I have zero farming experience and realize as a slave on your farm that I will would be trained to work the land. But I am not sure that is the real slave life that I am seeking to live. There are others that want other things of me. The one thing I will not be is your prostitute and I am not seeking a pimp. So stop asking!

I had to laugh as this was bothering me. I just got home from the gym and was talking with one of the girl trainers there and to my surprise she has an account here on CS. So she came home with me and she showed me hers and I showed her mine. No still not into women sexually but as friends only and she is a friend. Anyway the one thing she pointed out was the ads and pictures that keep popping up. On the side of the page I get pictures of women, nude in bondage and stuff, I will open another persons profile and there is a nude girl on the page and it is an advertisement or some contact thing. So as a gay man not into girls sexually I get this nude female picture flashed at me all the time lots of them. So we went onto her site as this was a complaint that she has. She is not into guy sexually, total lesbian and very much the dominant so surprisingly we get a long great. But when we opened her site and looked at profiles of girls there are nude guy pictures being forced on her. every picture down the side of the page are nude guys, she opens a profile of a girl and there is a nude guy. As a gay man I was loving it and she was loving it as a lez female when she looked at my page. Not sure how to change this but the people running this web site have a strange sense of humor.

So another entry right off. I have ben getting a lot of the same questions, what kind of work do I do? Have I ever served as a slave to a master or had a master? How did I get into this and how long have I been a slave? Is my family aware of my desires? I think about 80% of the letters I have read so far have asked these questions and I have responded to all of them in some way. So here it is for everyone else. 1. I have a degree in sports, massage and work as a personal trainer. That is about the only dominant part about me, my fitness and being healthy and helping others get and stay that way. So if you plans for me as your slave is to lock in in a cage and only take me out for sex and have no desire to keep me fit, we will not be meeting and I will not be in your cage. 2. Yes I have served as a slave and I am a slave now. I also have both a master and I guess it is safe to say a mistress, but I do not really view myself as bisexual. If I am tied down tight and the mistress wants to climb on my dick and get fucked than I am into girls. But if I am untied and have a say in it girls are outside with the doors and windows locked tight. The only exceptions to this was when I was hired with another friend of mine to do a bachelorette party where they had hired male dancers. He does it for a living and they wanted two and at the time I needed the money. My master is married to a his wife and she is the mistress. We do have a strong friendship but sexually I am with him almost exclusively, with the exception of the rare bdsm party they take me to and where I end up serving women. They are not able or interested in having a full time live in male slave. if I were female I would already belong to them but I am not. Which is why I am looking. I have actually known them for about 10 years, but not sexually until later.

So I just spent the last 1.5 hours reading mail and answering most. I got through 3 pages starting with the oldest first. When I started I had 4 pages of mail. I now have 7 pages and that is after reading 3 of them. SO I figured most might be responses but looking through the new pages I only saw 2 names that I recognized. I have no clue how I am going to get a handle on this and actually have any kind of feeling that the one I am talking to and get serious with will be the right one. I am not in a hurry and will not rush into this. If you are reading my profile and expect me to drop my life in your lap tomorrow my only advice or comment to that is to close your eyes and keep dreaming.

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