Basically sexually submissive with men who I perceive as dominant.
What works in my case: 1 to 1 sessions with male Doms, playing at BDSM parties, bondage, cuddling with female subs, exploiting male subs.
What doesn't work: poly households, much pain, swinger things.
Apart from Maslow's physiological and safety needs, my pyramid looks like this: 1) my job and financial security, 2) sports and health, 3) travel, 4) friends and private life. I am not desperate to find a partner. It would be nice to live with someone together in the long run, but it is not my ultimate goal.
About my "willing to relocate": only if I'll be able to fulfil all four points above, and only in Europe and North America.
What I can do: dress well if it is worth it, (belly)dance, pose for photos.
What I cannot do: devote my life to serving, endure dull conversations, agree to permanent body modifications.
Below is my old text, I decided not to erase it. See the evolution of a submissive woman.
July 2022.
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OLD VERSION written around 2007.
Looking for a long-term relationship, just like a "normal" family.
For me a Dom/sub union should be beautiful and aesthetic. There is no room for dirty words and unpleasant activities here. It is not restricted by bedroom walls, but it is not fully extended to 24/7. It is a relationship where two people develop physically and emotionally irrespective of the kinds of things they do together, be it a bdsm-action, sport, book reading or fine dining.
I am sure of my value. Submissiveness is a gift which in the right hands will bloom for mutual pleasure. Just like a valuable violin is of no use in the hands of a dilettante, my gift is useless for those seeking "inferior beings".
Skirts, stockings and high heels are not the only things in the world a woman can wear. Transparent chiffon, ancient Greek or Roman tunic, Orient or Middle Eastern apparel are no less luring and seductive. My choice of clothes fits well into a Gorean World, but don't worry, I am not seeking this lifestyle, I am just fascinated by its external decorations. A closer definition of the type of the relationship I picture to myself would be Oriental-Greco-Roman-Gorean, and definitely not a 1950s household. Also, all this Daddy-daughter stuff is not for me.
My greatest passion in life is dance (non-pro). I am into different styles, from oriental to chairdance and I really know how to please with the right body movements. Ideally you are into pair dancing, in this case we could dance together (and yes, you’ll lead :).
If you tame me you’ll get an obedient sub and maybe later a slave (it’s a terminology issue). If you fail, I’ll tear you to small pieces :)
And one more thing. I still do not lose hope to find a Dominant who would like to have a child with me. [Update 2022: it didn't happen].
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Chat requests without preliminary emails are not accepted.
The following messages will not be answered:
- from men displaying their naked bodies and genitals
- offers to join a "slave harem"
- invitations to cyber
- messages containing such vocabulary as "slut", "whore", etc.
