As my full profile explicitly states these are my hard limits. It would serve you well to honor them.

1. I do no online role-playing games, I have no interest in wasting my time.There is absolutely no way you will be allowed to serve me remotely.I prefer to torture you in person.

2. I have utterly no interest in any D/s relationship with anyone not within 25 miles of the Seattle, Washington Metro area. If you contact me stating your desire to serve, you will be immediately blocked. I keep my promises and my threats.

3.  I NEVER accept a sub who is married or in a relationship without direct face to face contsct with your partner(s.) . And yes, I DO have the means to investigate you, don't try me!

4. NO toilet,  or diaper slaves will ever be accepted.

5. If you add me to your favorites list without prior communication and permission from me, you will be immediately blocked. Yes, I know the site allows you to add me without my prior permission, but I find it creepy.

Got it?

Sheeeeeeeeee's BACK!!!! Guess what?!?! After 5 months of no internet access at home, I am now up and running...I imagine late nights poring over CM profiles will ensue....

A message to my "potential" subs  and(you know who you are);

For most of you we have been in communication for at least 6 months. I have met a half-dozen of you, and am in communication with at least 6 more. For those of you that have been in long term communication but  that have yet to meet me, I have one question;" What is taking you so long??????"

I grow impatient, my needs increase.... and after an adequate amount of  spending time  in the "vanilla context," I am ready to play. Several of you continue to communicate, but seem to drag your feet about an actual face-a-face meeting. What gives???? Are you actually married, partnered, or terrified of actually pursuing what has been a mere fantasy???? Please do not waste my time. If you are more interested in mere flirtation and sexual dialogue than real play, please go away. For those of you who are hesitant, my patience wanes.

I'm wishing all of you a joyful holiday weekend. I will probably not be online this weekend--as I do not have internet access at my apt.--and usually utilize the public library in my neighborhood, which will be closed until Monday.

Hoping none of you get coal in your stocking, but have thoroughly enjoyed some wicked naughtiness this year.

MS

Dear Elves....

Re the corsets....this shop is an inspiration...

I've been nice and naughty..e.g. , naughty in the nicest way... Santy Sub...if you come to drop off some presents, I may reward you and turn you over my knee.... 

MS

Good afternoon,

I thought I should send a follow-up to my previous entry, which clearly expressed my frustration with some of the  CM males who have contacted me. My "feathers were ruffled."  I am in a much better mindset today.

I have recieved many kind emails from men on this site, who offered me understanding and  encouragement to continue my quest for a sub or subs. They stated they respected my perspective and told me I should maintain my standards. Most of them were not living in close proximity to me, so we will not meet, but they still took the time to respond. Bless them!!

On another note....While I am not a Findomme, I have been writing my Christmas list to Santa.... for I have been a very naughty, nasty and playful  haute femme domme this year, and hope he rewards me for it. When my most recent relationship ended several months ago, I left all the toys we had shared behind. I do not wish to have their presence remind me of what is over and done... for they have no place in my future. (Nor would it be "safe" to play with some of them with others.)

 So..... if any of you want to play "Santa's elf," ... I would love to have a gift card from www.babeland.com

. It is a local top-quality adult toy store, and I can't think of a better way to "buy local".... they sell the vibe of my dreams--which is certainly wayyyy out of my budget. I would also love to get a new corset, or two, or a new set of stilleto boots...(but have yet to determine where to purchase them.. I do know there is a local woman who makes corsets....) Of course some toys may be safely shared....(Hint Hint) and for those of you not wishing to be a naughty elf, but still a giving one.... I think I might make a wishlist and post it on Amazon, as they even sell the text books I need for nursing school...

Now I need to close, and see what kind of Naughty Domme Lyrics I can compose to the tune of the incomperable Eartha Kitt's version of "Santa Baby".... If I am inspired, of course I will post it here for you. ;)

Happy Holidays....

MS

 PREFACE: This "bitch and moan" epistle does not apply to all males who contact me on CM. But those of you who have, you may recognize yourself. There are a few others who  have been absolutely wonderful in our communications, but we have yet to meet. I have not given any description of  "the good guys here.

 But some of you may have your consciences pricked if you read your modus operandi in print. I do not hate men, in fact it is quite the opposite, subs or no... but I have every expectation of being treated as a lady, a woman of substance--both in the vanilla world and the kink one.

 Those of you who DO find yourselves here, take note, I certainly am "keeping score" while I decide who may ultimately be worth my time to train as my sub.There are far more sub men on CM than female dommes. I have had many an offer, and I will not settle for less than my stated parameters.

 I can go from charming to bitch in 20 seconds or less when the occasion warrants it, but unless "the Bitch-Goddess is part of our agreed upon play, I prefer to retain the former, especially in the vanilla realm.

SO HERE IS MY RANT OF THE DAY:

  I have just returned from the proverbial "no-show" first-meeting coffee date. To say I am peeved is an understatement. This so-called gentleman has my cell, but did not call, nor did he send an email. 

 I have been quite explicit in my profile that I do not play with any partnered or married subs. EVER!!! 

 I can only surmise one of four scenarios occurred; 

  1. He had a health crisis--as he has some chronic health issues.

  2. He forgot the time we agreed to meet.

  3. He is actually married/partnered and knows if we were to proceed further  I would discover this. (And I DO have the means to discover this.)

4. He flaked out--is willing to "talk the talk" but not "walk the talk."

 My vote is for #4, possibly combined with #3. 

 This seems to be a pattern with the CM males who have sought to communicate with me. Mind you, with each of these (potential) sub gentlemen it has been THEM who initiated contact!!!!  I think there is a majority of men typing with one hand, replete with braggadacio, and lying about their circumstances. I wish I did not have this impression but, of the  men I have met since joining the site: 

 One is in the military and just called up for active duty overseas--this was after our first/only date--where I had the impression we mutally wished to see each other again. 

 One has recently had surgery--which I do believe is true. We met once, and I had a lovely time. He was a gentleman in every sense of the word. I certainly hope we do meet again. He sent me an email on Thursday expressing an interest in seeing me this weekend. I replied yesterday. I have not heard from him since--and yes, he also has my phone number. 

 One supposedly has been dealing with the new onset of a possibly life threatening condition--and bowed out because he "is just not ready mentally" at this point. If this is indeed true, I am sympathetic, but how do I know this is indeed the case???? (We had not yet met, but it was certainly a request he had made, to which I had agreed.) 

 Another charmer, whom I had not yet met, supposedly is now assisting a dear friend as she copes with the new diagnosis of terminal cancer. Again, as stated above, if this is the case I am indeed sympathetic, but how do I know this is indeed the case???? At least I had not taken the time from my busy schedule to meet. 

 Another gentleman, from Gig Harbor has disappeared into the cyber ether. I'm sad, for he certainly APPEARED to have the qualities I seek in a sub--both in the vanilla world and kink realms. As above, at least I had not taken the time from my busy schedule to meet. 

 A lovely, intelligent and charming gentleman did meet with me twice. However, within days after the initial meeting he accepted a job in Toronto. Our second meeting was a "goodbye visit" of sorts--since I do not EVER engage in long -distance relationships whether or not it is meeting online or flying back and forth, we shall remain friends. I havve told him he is welcome to visit me, but only in the context of a platonic/non-kink relationship. nother issue I have with him is that he obviously lied about his age. I had set my parameters, and at the first meeting it was clear he had discounted them. He did own up to it, but since I was honest about my age, circumstances and weight I am peeved about this.

 Men hold women to such standards with quite the laundry list of qualifiers, and are often irate if the woman is not within their own parameters. This double standard, be it in the kink or vanilla realm, is repugnant to me. It only leaves me open to conjecture about what other thruths are not being disclosed. It is a shame this and his relocation have occurred, for it makes me quite leary and of course disappointed. 

 So what gives???? I am honest about my age, weight, life circumstances, and according to them, I am not hideous in appearance. Each has assured me I am quite lovely and charming. (If I am interested to take the time for just a coffee date, as my time is finite and valuable, I  afford them the courtesy and send a headshot prior.)

 ADDENDA!!! I DID JUST RECEIVE A CALL FROM THE PROSPECTIVE SUB WHO STOOD ME UP THIS MORNING. HE STATES HE WENT TO ANOTHER COFFEE SHOP BY THIS SAME NAME/COMPANY--- THIS AFTER I WAS EXPLICIT IN THE ADDRESS AND TIME. BUT AGAIN, WHO REALLY KNOWS???? I HAVE YET TO DECIDE IF I WILL NOW ALLOW HIM TO RESCHEDULE. 

 So in summary, gentlemen  if you contact me and communicate your  wish to respect, honor and  serve me, it serves you best to honor my explicitly  stated parameters. Otherwise, please do not waste my time, but move on. Thank You.

Are there any obedient Seattle slaves/subs just dying to sweat blood this weekend??????  I just landed a new job as a property manager for an apartment building. The owner wants me to start right away. I am looking for subs/slaves to help me both on Sunday and Monday. The goal is to have as much moved before Nov. 1. However if you are not available this weekend, but still wishing to serve this charming  bitch-goddess.... please go ahead and contact me. My stuff does not have to be out of my current place til Nov. 24th..I am certain there will be many opportunities to serve....followed by many opportunities for obedient subs to play....