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Male Dominant, 41, Lakewood, Washington
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Male Dominant, 48, Manchester, Connecticut
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About InTheHayStack
Greetings collarme, and thanks for stopping by for a look at my profile. I've done my share of reading on here and it seems like a reoccurring theme that nobody reads these things. Whats up with that? Anyway, about me. I've some experience in bdsm, and frankly speaking want more. I view all of this as a journey so to speak. It's part of me. Not all of me.
In the vanilla world, I'm quite the dominant type A person. I'm, outgoing, active, enjoyable. I like to laugh, participate in sports, and enjoy the outdoors. I work hard and play hard. And truth be told, I like the vanilla world. I'm not one of these sit around on the couch mushroom types. Might be silly to list here but I really enjoy playing the guitar and photography. I jokingly call my guitar my Mistress because I get to shush up for a few, and listen to her strings sing to me.
In the bdsm world, I'm submissive. I know people have heard it before but that doesn't make me your submissive. In person, I'd probably eat most of the people on here for lunch. I can be intense. Under it all, there is a need to find, "total acceptance". A mind space that finds solace if you will, with female lead authority. I think that takes time to develop. Takes time to learn, and find that acceptance. I'm not going to get into any laundry list of doing this or that sexual activity. It's just trivial. I'm not interested in meaningless relationships. With the right partner, most if not all of my boundaries would be diminished in the intimate sense. I think the most important aspect of all this is the mutual exchange of energy. It is so key, and seems like its over looked here on CM.
About relationships: People have asked me... do I want a long term?, short term, something in between. I can't really say, because the type of person I seek really is like looking for a needle in the haystack. I'm open to even just friendship and seeing where things go from there. Most of all, I want to enrich my own-self on the personal level with something that is "Authentic" and "Genuine". Are you that person? Are you willing/wanting to lead someone that is sure of his own powerful self in public?
With that said, I'll extend my hand into the unknowing collar me world and see what / whom it connects me with. I've pictures. I don't really feel comfortable putting them up here but would be happy to trade.
I am Aries! Hope this gives at least a little bit of insight as to who I am. Feel free to ask anything.
Cheers!
-Inthehaystack
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