No photo required. NOT FOR MONEY. Please no men or TV's or TS's. SWM, 48, never married, no children seeking extremely affectionate SWF, very clean, very healthy, no drugs, no smoking, no STD's for both giving and receiving sensual, affectionate over-the-lap hand spankings with lots of massages within the context of normal intimacy. Must enjoy both giving and receiving sensual spankings and other light sensual kink on a regular, multiple times and/or daily basis. Nothing hard or violent. Hand spankings preferred. Light belt and/or hairbrush Ok but 90% hand a must. Both giving and receiving a must, no exceptions. I enjoy receiving as much as giving and vice-versa. Red bottom OK but not heavy bruising or a great deal of non-sensual pain. Verbal scolding, role play a plus. I am inexperienced so it is OK if you are inexperienced too and we can experiment and enjoy together. Perfection nor "performance" is NOT required nor wanted. Mutual enjoyment and pleasure is a must. Must love to cuddle and be open-minded to other sensual kink such as anal sex, giving and receiving enemas and temperature taking etc. and be monagamous. Please be upbeat and have a positive attitude and outlook and be intuitive. Seeking a monagamous on-going mutually agreeable and pleasurable relationship. Please value what the person has to offer from within rather than what they look like. If you are seeking a GQ-type individual with extremely good looks please read other ads. I am very insecure about my looks 5' 7", 175. Spiritual and/or church-going a plus. Verbal scolding, role-play a plus. Senual, erotic pain only. I have a moderate pain tolerance and not seeking to exceed anything which is not going to be pleasurable. Please be extremely affectionate, kind, considerate and share your feelings, interests and desires as well as enjoy mine. Please be yourself and like and enjoy me for who I am rather than what you want me to be. Real time in person only. No IM frriendships, no email friendships, no phone friendships, no on-line friendships. Seeking a monagamous, long-term spanking relationship.