About me:
I am a submissive at heart, I love to please. In a relationship I need to be a part of the decision making process, communication is of the utmost importance to me. I am kind and understanding, I am open-minded, even when I do not agree with something I will try to understand the reasoning behind why (I expect reciprocation in this area). I am very good at putting myself in someone else’s shoes so to speak. In my life I do not search for the world to comply with my ideals, I only seek to understand why things are as they are. I am very interested in what drives or compels people. I feel this makes for a fuller and more serene life.

I can have a Dominate side. What compels me to be Dominate? A couple of things, when a Dom or Master is not a Master of Him or Herself, I will naturally, almost without knowing I am doing it, take over and step into the role of a Dominate. A person cannot be in control of another person without first having control over their own lives, or their person. This can be disastrous to a relationship. Unfortunately, this is the type of relationship I just got out of, and it was very lonely. (I did have such high hopes). I am a very strong person and in control of my life so in order for someone to be Dominate to me, they need to also be a strong person and in control of their own life. I can also be Dominate in the bedroom if allowed. :o)

I am not physically heavy into lifestyle, although I do like a good spanking, blindfold, and being tied to a chain in the ceiling. :o) from time to time. Good sex can be found almost anywhere, anytime. I am more into the mental aspect of the lifestyle. Someone to get inside my mind and know what I need and desire, someone that can build my trust and respect in them, someone that can make me feel safe and secure and to know that no matter what I do, say, or feel I will not be thrown away, but will instead be counseled or taught with a kind heart. A person that has the mental ability to make me want to submit to them and give my whole self to them.

I like to experience new things, and see new things. I want to travel abroad, as all of my traveling so far has been within the states. (There were plans to go to Taiwan this summer, and Australia the following year) but that is no longer in the works. I enjoy camping, tubing, making love in unusual places, looking at the stars in the sky, sunsets over the ocean, sunrises in San Francisco, laughter, holding hands, walking, horseback riding, amusement parks, movies, hiking, dining, theater, reading, range shooting (not hunting), swimming, BBQ’s, spending time with friends, spontaneity.

I am not looking to get into a live in or sexual relationship just yet. (Well maybe with the right woman).

I am only looking for friends with like interests at this time.

If you do drugs or are a heavy drinker, then do not stop here keep moving.