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**Do you want to be FREE with me??**
I am Demanding, Cosmopolitan, Kinky, Handsome, Creative, Dark, Seductive, Sensual, Playful, Powerful and MUCH MORE!
First and foremost, I have an extraordinary amount of self-control. Sometimes I'm so patient that it is infuriating. But it is because of this self-control that I will never hit you out of anger, or at the very least, the ONE time I do, I will apologize and go to great lengths to make sure I never lose my control like that again.
I will put you FIRST. Even if you’re the one serving Me, I make sure that your needs are met. That your mental, physical and emotional health is in good shape. Those rules about taking your meds and working out? They’re not for My benefit. They’re for yours. Making sure you eat well? Another way to make sure you’re healthy. I understand the importance of Aftercare and will move mountains to make sure you get every minute of it that you need.
I know that communication is key to this lifestyle, more so than any other. I know that talking things out, discussing and understanding your views, your limits, your fears and your desires is the very core of how you will serve, how I will teach and how well we will succeed in a relationship together. I may not enjoy going down memory lane of My past, but I will do it willingly and openly to help you understand Me better. I’ll be open about My own fears, desires, fantasies and limits. I will encourage you to talk about anything and everything you desire. I might limit your conversations with others, but I would never ask you to hide things from Me.
I will do My best to understand you, even if that means having to research topics on My own theme, having to learn new skills, or having to go out of My way, I will do it because it means getting to know you better. The better I know you, the better I can talk to you, the easier it will be to understand what makes you tick, why your limits are what they are, how to respond when you’re in a session. I work hard to make sure that I know your mannerisms. It is My job to protect you even from Myself. I take that to heart.
I will push you past your limits, but never break them. I will check in on you during a scene “are you okay? How are you doing? What color are you at?” It might be annoying at times but it’s for your safety. I may even end a scene before you think you’re ready. “No, if we keep going I will break skin, or bruise nerves that won’t heal properly” or “I think you’ve had enough, little one.” You may not enjoy hearing these things but your well being is MY responsibility and you are MY most valued possession.
I will let you walk away. I will fight for you but not to the point of stopping you. I will respect your safeword, and cut you loose if you ask Me to. I will let you walk out of My life forever if you want, even if it nearly kills Me to do so. Because when the day is done and the scene is over, I know that you are the one that is really in control. If the relationship is not consensual at all times, then it is not something I am interested in being a part of. You CHOOSE to submit to Me, and in return, I fill a void that only the Dominant can for a submissive.
I am honest to the deepest part of My being. Honor and duty are important to Me. I pride Myself on always doing the honorable thing, even if it costs Me. I require the same high expectations of you that I do of Myself. I will never lie to you or deceive you or trick you into doing anything. I may tease you, I may joke around with you, but I know where the line is and I stay far away from ever crossing it.
I am humble. I recognize My own flaws and will gladly point them out to you time and time again. “I am not perfect, I am far from it.” is a common saying for Me. “I can’t read minds, I need you to talk to me” is My way of reminding you that I may be good at reading you, but I still need your permission, your confirmation, your trust and honesty as well.
I never stop looking for new things to learn. I look to learn about you, about new skills I can use (be they in the bedroom or outside of it), for new ways to help others. I understand the importance of a well read mind, and need to exercise it. I reach out and volunteers My time, skills or money to those less fortunate than Me. I ask the same of those who serve Me, because I know that the lessons the poor can teach us are more valuable than any dollar could ever hope to be worth. I understands that helping others is what fuels My need for compassion, loyalty, honesty, self control, humility, and communication with others.
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