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	About LotM Who/What are you? Do the terms HoH and 50's household mean something desirable to you and are you a female? If so, do read on. Tired of having to make decisions? Do you enjoy not having to worry about that but like to just do what you are told? Do you have a masochistic streak? Are you a non-smoker? Or willing to give it up cold-turkey? As my household is a non-smoking one If the answers to the above questions are yes and you are more or less height/weight proportionate (a little extra padding is not a problem but I am definitely not interested in BBW) by all means talk to me to find out if we are compatible. Who/What am I? I am a dominant non-smoking WM with a sadistic streak who is looking for a female botom/slave to enhance his life. You should enjoy BDSM play as it is an integral part of the relationship. If you are working and want to keep your job, that is open for discussion. Also, there are dogs (the 4 legged furry kind) in my household so you should like dogs. (No, bestiality is not something I am into.) As with my dogs, I expect obedience and reward that accordingly. If you are a slave, a contract may be negotiated specifying your hard limits. Which will be respected. If you do not want a contract, there will be no limits other than those I impose to ensure your safety and well being. Note that I am not the 'barking orders and smacking around' type of Dom. I do not believe that should be needed normally. Although there may be a time and place for that. I enjoy seeing my bottom/slave in certain styles of clothing and you will be expected to dress according to that. I'm not into sharing my bottom/slave so expect a monogamous type of relationship. If you are still with me, thank you for your interest and time and have a spanking great day! If you match my criteria, it is a good idea to drop me a message. I am not into this entire cyber relationship thing so expect that if I like what I read, an invitation will be extended for a face to face meeting in short order. As a result of negative past experiences, I do not use Yahoo chat. Notice : Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Back after a hiatus due to a death in the family as a healing/mourning period was needed.

If you sent me a message in the last few months, please resend

So much for getting a flu shot last year. To paraphrase a song: I fought the flu and the flu won. :)

Doc had to throw antibioticS, inhalation therapy and steroids at it to turn the tide. Almost 2 weeks later all that is left is a dry cough. Finally have the motivation to check online again...

Introducing a new addition to my art collection. Submissive girl with cuffed wrists and chained to the floor.By Jean Patoue. Pictures have been added to my profile,

*shaking head* My profile clearly says I have dogs and you must like dogs. So any attempt to top from the bottom and try and get me to give up my dogs will result in There's the door. Don't let it hit you on the arse on the way out. ;)

I've heard subs question time and time again if there are nothing but fakes in here. I'm starting to wonder the same thing.

Again. I have multiple big dogs. Friendly to good people, not so much to bad ones, as they should be. They are definitely not lapdog size and if you can't deal with that, please do not contact me.

To the sub who sent me a message asking about my sculptures. When I responded to your message collarme informed that you have blocked me and my message was not sent. *shaking head*

Please note that when I start the computer it automatically logs me on to the site and refreshes it on a regular basis. Even though it looks like I may have been here a while, I may just have my computer on, but may not be actually sitting at it.

If I don't respond to a message I may not be at the computer or I may be performing a test of your patiience.

I've had several questions on punishing an unruly bottom/slave. I believe the severity of the punishment should fit the severity of the infraction.

One of my favrite methods is to restrain her in whatever position I feel fitting. Followed by the insertion of earplugs, gag and blindfold to deprive her of sensory input.

Now she has time to think over the error of her ways, not knowing if in the next second, the next minute she may feel the kiss of the whip or the slap of a hand to name but a few possibilities. Or if she has been left alone, deprived of the attention or affection of her Top/Master.

A Spanking Good 2012 to A/all!

As it's the season, I'm making a list (and checking it twice) of some definately 'worth to watch' main stream movies about our lifestyle. Any additions Y/you may think worthy are warmly welcomed.

Naughty but very nice movies.

Exit To Eden (Dana Delany as a stunning Mistress Lisa)

The Secretary (Maggie Gyllenhaal blossoms from neurotic to self confident submissive)

Mercy (Ellen Barkin in a definitely different role.)

A Spanking Great Thanksgiving to A/all!

Happy 4th of July Weekend to ALL!

Found a couple of new leather toys. A nice set of underarm binders and a collar/cuff combination. Pictures can be found on my profile.

New job, new place! Time to build that lifestyle room. How to choose what to put in there? A St Andrews cross, spanking bench, suspension setup? Suggestions are welcome.

I've received a number of inquiries about my sculptures. Some more detail on them: The metallic sculpture is a work by the UK artist Tipton. The other two (dark brown ones) are works by the Belgian artist Alain Vachaudez, best known for his fairy sculptures.

I returned to find Florida definitely less of a Sunshine State then when I left i. So much for Global Warming. :-)

I will be out of the country on business. Unfortunately this site is blocked via the companay's network so I doubt I'll have much access (or time for that matter) until I get back. I've left my profile open as it seems many people enjoy the pictures of teh statues.

Words to live by: Some days you are the dog. Other days you are the hydrant. Strive to be the dog most days.

Due to the volume and obvious scam/spam appearance of the vast majority of them, all emails from African countries such as Ghana, Nigeria, Sierra Leone and Liberia will be automatically reported as scammer/spam. So don't waste my time or yours as I have no interest in importing a sub from Africa, nor providing a green card or relocation expenses.

A word of warning: Getting those emails whare the sender immediately asks you to chat on eg yahoo? Be careful when they send you links to click on, as those links may have a hidden payload in the form of a keylogger or trojan/virus that willinfect your computer. Because of this I have a new rule. No IM until a few messages here on Collarme have be exchanged and I can determine your intentions to be honest.

Happy Holidays to all of Collarme Be happy and be safe!

A happy Thanksgiving Day to all of Collarme!

I've added some different views of the sculptures and some of a newly acquired one. A note on this newly acquired one, which is the last set of photo's. I would love to stage that pose that with a live model.

The 2 new pictures on my profile are of two exquisite sculptures by an artist called Alain Vachaudez. They show a glorious female submissive in all her splendor. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do.

I recieved a couple of inquiries about K9 training. Let me clear this up. I love my dogs as what they are, pets, fids (furred kids). Nothing more. The only K9 training I am involved in is AKC based obedience training. (The sit, stay, heel kind) Short and sweet: I am not into bestiality or K9 training. If that is what you look for, please pass me by. If it is not and you like dogs as pets, by all means, drop me a line.

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