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Female Submissive, 26, Groton, Connecticut
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Male Switch, 30, Cincinnati, Ohio
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Male Switch, 25, London
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About lostintoca
I am very much an Alpha male to the outside world, but apparently I have a somewhat submissive side in the bedroom. I'm ok with that. How submissive? I'm not sure. I haven't been taken very far down that particular rabbit hole. I think, more than anything, that I just want to be real. No games. No drama. I'm open to a lot of stuff. It would probably be easier to just list the things that are absolutely not going to happen, but I don't want my profile to be about the negatives. So I'll go with the positive.
Probably my biggest kink, and this isn't generally associated with D/s, is the scent of a woman. Not all women, just some. Just their natural smell. It plays into this thing where I can become, and I'm stealing a phrase from another profile that I read on here, but I can become strung out on a woman. I can genuinely, profoundly crave the way her skin feels. The way she tastes. The way that kissing or licking different parts of her tastes and smells different, but they are all connected. It fascinates me. When I am with someone and connected in that way I just crave them. And those cravings probably make me submissive. I love to have those cravings used against me. To a point. I think where it breaks down for me is when it stops being sensual and becomes more material. When my need for someone becomes a currency then it all shuts down pretty quickly. Some of the things people ask for on here are ridiculous. I want a lover. I'm not going to be your wallet. Or your footstool. Or your whipping boy. Don't get me wrong, I'm perfectly fine with hair pulling, slapping, punching, scratching etc that comes from an aggressive, passionate woman. But there is a huge difference between that and being beaten or spanked, outside of the passion, just for sport or entertainment. If that's what you need then I hope you find it. Everyone should find what they need. I'm just not that guy.
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