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Female Submissive, 34, white plains, New York
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Female Submissive, 31, canal winchester, Ohio
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About Lorian
In a few words : I am a french 35-years old dominant, playful but strong-willed, caring but independant, well-balanced enough, with no confidence issues (I don't need you to call me Master to know who I am), and with enough success in vanilla life not to be desperate for women or attention. I'm considering female or (very beautiful only) transgenre submission requests, experienced or not.
One condition : motivation.
Attracted since my infancy to it through books I stumbled upon, I really discovered BDSM some years ago in Ireland (where I lived for 7 years) through the local scene, munches, etc. I am now back living in France where I have undertaken work as a digital agency project director, a position which i have since left to fully become a startup entrepreneur.
I will entertain here courteous, friendly and interesting discussions with people from anywhere around the world, but I am real and not the kind who fantasizes virtually. If I am to meet someone, I expect it, to become real soon enough. This will indeed be done through a physical meeting, and although I travel from time to time, it will most likely be in Paris - or at least in France for the moment - after a very few phone conversations and pictures.
Regarding my areas of interest, I am open to more things than can be displayed here (and I prefer discussing nuances directly, so do ask), some even quite pervert, but very classically, I am drawn to aesthetics, through fetishes such as latex, catsuits, corsets and very high-heels in particular, as well as domination through soft corporal punishments, bondage, nipples and ass-play, objectification, humiliation, restrained rough sex... and in general, anything that can sublime you or make you fall into disgrace (and preferably both at the same time).
Hard pain, or any kind of pain just for marks and suffering, is not in itself a turn on to me. I may sometimes enjoy giving physical punishment, but only because I see it as a tool to transcend mental submission and break barriers or inhibitions.
A subtile mix of sweet fondling and hard exploitation is what i see best : at a second, very hard humiliation, degradation, and sexual abuse, then the next one, firm and gentle domination, affectionate guidance, tenderness and warm caresses, to finally exchange knowing glances and smiles with each other.
And always elevate oneself, learning about, from and with the other, fully together...
But above all, the most important and the essence to all of this is having in front of me someone in whose eyes i can set my gaze into and that will silently answer, should it be on a bed, in a dark cellar, at a party, in a dungeon or at a restaurant.
Without this, there is nothing really...
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Lorian Gray
(The picture of a depraved mind ?)
PS: You can also contact me on Skype searching for Lorian_Gray. Note that I usually block instantly all spam, so if you don't want to be blocked, inform me immediately that you are from Collarme and give your handle there to be verified.
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I describe myself as a dominant, and this is indeed what I am in social life, work, and in play. Not only is it what I am to the core, but it is also what I am used to with my relations since... ever, and what I thrill upon.
This said, I may however, to some extent, be something of a switch as I sometimes fantasize in finding someday, somewhere, someone beautiful, strong and confident enough to wield power over me.
It would undoubtedly be a difficult task and I feel that I never yet came across anyone sagacious, bright and witty enough to break my will ; but as time passes, even if I will certainly always remain dominant in my own personal life, I find myself today in acceptance of balancing roles... with the right person.
So if you feel that you might be this one... take your shot. |
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Right. I have decided to delete all my journal entries. Since 2006, that is 4 years and even more. Time has flown so fast...
So after the petite, innocent and gentle Austrian nurse, the tall, thin and deadly beautiful half-Arabian suicide girl, the voluptuous, loud and untamed Normand cowgirl, as they were all briefly mentionned here through time, as well as a few other smaller tries in between, I have decided to clean the slate.
Not that i am trying to forget or that I regret anything at all. They were important people to me but time just passes. There is simply a new moment to live to its fullest... and maybe with you... |
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