LordNasir

Please read my whole profile before just sending a note. You might save us both some time. Thanks!

You must live in New York!

Educated, strong willed independent man in my regular vanilla life. I enjoy being Dominant behind closed doors, and enjoy a wide variety of SSC play with the right partner. So don't even bother going down this path if you can't handle the submissive part of this equation.

I enjoy D/s and S&M in equal measures, and enjoy a woman who also enjoys all 3 aspects of BDSM.

For you newbies thats B&D, D/s and S&M

Would like to find someone New York based for a BDSM relationship that is neither full-time nor NSA, but a serious "play partner" dynamic.

I am a better fit with women who are close to my age, who understand how to let a BDSM scene unfold (not too slow and not too fast). If the concept of endorphin rush is completely unfamiliar to you, then do not contact me. If the concept of keeping pain in the right zone (not too much, but not too little) is also unfamiliar to you, then do not contact me.

You should understand that the pleasure from BDSM is not actually a distinct pleasure from that of sex alone. Just being well versed in sex alone is not going to be enough. Those of you who are wired for BDSM know exactly what I mean.

It is nice if you are someone who understands how activity outside the bedroom can, and usually does, make for excellent foreplay.

I am a Dominant man with a lifetime of experience, seeking a submissive for play. I look for someone who connects with me intellectually, and who will enjoy doing many different things together, both in and out of the bedroom.

I am strict and demanding, but caring, and provide my submissive with structure and support to be her best.

My Ideal Person:
I look for someone who is intelligent and enjoys life, who will laugh with me, and who is comfortable in her own skin, clear about her role in a D/s relationship. Height, weight and looks are not as important as what is inside.

Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you...

Subs.... I have posted real photos of me on this site and I expect the same if you contact me. No one wants to talk to a fake pic. Not a good way to start.