LordGryphon

If I were a woman, I would most likely be a lesbian. I just love eating a woman's flower.

I also like watching a woman's face as she comes. You ladies make some very interesting expressions.

Lindsey Stirling. I love this little lady's music:

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Submission isn't about pain.

It's about training your mind and body to surrender control to a Dom who wants to meet your needs and protect you.

I come on this site and feel I am in the middle of the "William Tell Overture" (bum, titty, bum, titty, bum, bum, bum). I would much rather see a face than the tits and ass. Like cock-shots, there is nothing special about them, you all have those parts (tits and ass that is). Just the size and shape can vary.

I wonder how many of the "Gorean" people on this site have actually read the novels?

I have someone in mind for this: http://crystaldelights.com/store/crystal-delights/tashas-reignbow-pony-plug-2/

"...what you find quickly is that the world really doesn't care if you win or lose. People may, but the world doesn't. I think the trick is to find a way to live your life how you want to live it. If you do that, success or failure is relative to what happens, not to who you are."

-Jason McCarthy, Founder of GoRuck

Found on http://www.alphamalefts.com/

I have answered my own question from the last entry.

This site filters out the name of competing sites in the Journal entries. So if you are on FL, you HAVE to do tricks to mention it in your Journal Entries. Like doing "F**L*f*"

Stupid....

Why can't people just admit they are also on ? Why do they have to do silly things like spell it backwards, or "star out" letters. Really, if you are going to be there, and tell everyone about it here, then just say it: "I am on ".

I want a girl I can suspend from the ceiling by her wrists, with her feet barely touching the floor. Then I will play with her all night any way I want. Yummm.

In order to know virtue, we must first acquaint ourselves with vice.~ Marquis de Sade

Social order at the expense of liberty is hardly a bargain.~ Marquis de Sade

According to Einstein, I must be insane.

"The definition of insanity is to do the something over and over again and expect a different outcome."
- Albert Einstein

Ladies, if you call yourself "slave", or even "submissive", please read the journal of "sinfulharlot". I think she speaks very eloquently from the slave/sub perspective.

Just search for her in California.

Recently wrote this to someone:

"A slave gives up all her decisions to her Master. A sub still makes decisions, but acquiesces to, and consults with, her Dom. A bottom tells you to stuff yourself outside of the bedroom. A top tells you to stuff yourself inside the bedroom; she is going to ride you how she likes. A Domme/Mistress stuffs you all the time whether you like it or not."

Simplistic I know, but it fits.

Doing an an informal survey:

What items would you say comprises a basic play kit for BDSM? Yes, I am already including cuffs (wrist and ankle), but I want to know your opinion of what else should be in a Dom's play kit.

I think it would be interesting to see what is mentioned.

The stereotype is true: big girls give better blowjobs. They also will do more things with their tongues to make their man happy.

They want to please their man more as opposed to the little self-centered skinny girls who only want to be pillow princesses, or gold-diggers.

If I have offended you: TOO BAD!

If I lay here
If I just lay here
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Forget what we're told
Before we get too old
Show me a garden that's bursting into life

I don't believe I REALLY have to put this here:

I keep getting approached by sub/slave males. Gentlemen: STOP.

I listed only women in my "Actively Seeking" section for a reason; I am only interested in women.

The "Friends Only" really is because I am open to being friends with some women (if that is all they want), but it does not mean any men.

So gentlemen, please stop contacting me. I am NOT interested.

Thank you.

I hate having to say this: For those of you bothered by the use of the word "Lord" in my screen name: Get over yourselves. It is just a frackin' screen name. 

Extract from a recent email I sent someone -

A slave has a choice, until she chooses to give up her choices to her Master. Then she must obey him and ask for his advice in all things in her life (unlike a submissive who can make her own choices without always asking her Dom). Of course this does not include being abused. There is a difference between a Dominant man and an abusive man, though many vanillas don't see that. And a Dominant to a "Daddy's girl" must be even more aware of that difference even while he is spanking her on his lap.

(To those who wish me to be "PC" and mention male slaves - too bad. My journal, my thoughts, my sub/slave gender.)

When I look at some of the "Hates" in profiles, I think "That would be one of the 'envelope' things I would push if she were my sub/slave". 

I saw one slave who only gave you a picture of her left breast in her profile, but she "Hates" Breast Play? Eh? Confusing.

In my view, hard limits are just that, but "Hates" are to me as something that can be changed. Now if it becomes a hard limit, oh well. But as a Dom, I am going to mold my sub/slave into my vision of her, thus I would "push the envelope" with those things she lists as "Hates".

It has occured to me that many people don't really understand what a person really can look like based on a given height & weight. I see lots of "Must be HWP" in many personals posts (not just here) so I thought I would share something I found a long time ago: The "Photographic Height/Weight Chart" (http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.html).

The gentleman who created the page asks people to send in photos of themselves (non-nudes) and he puts them into the chart based on how tall they say they are and what they say they weight in the photo. Gives the viewer a really good visual idea of what someone (male or female) can possibly look like.

Enjoy the chart.

For some reason I am taken aback about the amount of women who feel that all anyone cares about is their tits and asses.

A great many of the photos (speaking about the straight and bi women who are trying to attract men) show NOTHING but the woman's tits or ass. Yes, I know that there are LOTS of male users here who are only interested in that -- and they obviously have not (mentally or emotionally) grown beyond 12 years old. But do women really feel that they need to cater to those of such limited mental age?

A sub and/or slave is more than just tits and ass, no matter how many Doms/Masters only care about those parts. There are many subs/slaves who's profiles I look at and reject even considering beginning a dialog with simply because all they decide to show are their tits or ass.

I figure if they don't think enough of themselves to show more than that, why bother? Besides, most of the time what they write in their profile is not enough to stimulate my interest in them.

And to those who wish to flame me for not showing my face, your comments are as useless, and as wanted, as JPGs to Helen Keller.

About me: I am a "nerd". I like Science-Fiction/Fantasy (and the Horror genre is NOT part of that!). When Dr. Who is on I watch it (thinking of getting the BBC channels on cable just so I could do that). I played Dungeons & Dragons as a teen a young adult. I fenced in college. I love Ren-Faires and Shakespeare. Oh yes I also play video games.

Anything else?

I find it interesting (and disappointing) that most of the local (San Diego area) straight women on this site list themselves as "Submissive" and not "Slave". What are they afraid of? The bisexuals have no problem with that, but the straights seem too scared of their own shadows to explore further. Oh yes, there are some who say in their profiles that they want to be slaves. Well if you are seeing yourself as a "slave" then be one. Quit being a "wannabe".

There is only one straight woman brave enough to list herself as a slave, and she knows who she is.