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Male Dominant, 40, Nova Scotia
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About LordGrey
I am an FTM Leather Top/Master in LA, California.
I've been in the Leather/BDSM scene RT for over 15 years, first in Seattle and now in LA. I am NOT a cyber-player and I do know what I am doing.
I live this life. It is not a game and I'm not interested in cyberslaves or BS.
I have an excellent sense of humour. I love speculative fiction, well crafted films, good conversation and I dance and ride horses for fun.
I love animals, am partial to cats, but I have no desire to raise children.
I try to be personally responsible, live by honesty and honour. I'm not one to make promises that I know I cannot keep, nor will I say what you want to hear if it is not what I genuinely think or feel.
D/s is not all about sex for me. Sex is nice, I like it, but I can live without it. I cannot be in a relationship with out D/s and SM. I tried that and it does not work. Those elements must be there.
Structure, service and obedience are important to me. I go out of my way for my partner. I expect her to do the same for me. D/s IS a give-and-take. We simply give, and take, different but complimentary things to and from one another within it.
I am not a 'service Top'. I am a sadist. If we play, I will hurt you. And I will do what *I* want to do. You are allowed to enjoy it, but your pleasure is not the reason I do what I do.
I can be a gentleman, a taskmaster, a caring Daddy or a real evil bastard. There are times and circumstances where each of these things is the right thing to be.
I am not abusive and am not quick to anger. I'm actually quite hard to offend and generally have an even temperament. I'm not a candidate for anger management. I can, however, be stubborn and implacable and will not hesitate to discipline or punish when needed.
Punishment is NOT a game! It is a tool of training and not intended to be fun. It's intended to curb or adjust undesirable behavior. PLAY is fun, and I make a clear distinction between play and punishment. If you like the 'punishment game' and tend to act out to get it, we would be a poor match. I will not encourage or reward bad behavior by giving you what you want.
I'm friendly, gregarious and easily approachable. And I can't spell worth beans.
I'm open to friends, and, with the right person(s), definately more. Write and say hello.
Yours in Leather,
Grey
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Update:
I will be relocating to San Francisco at the end of November, if not sooner. |
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