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Will think of good stuff to put here later, for now let me say that I'm educated, well traveled, and one of the worst spellers on the planet (I went to school in the age of spell checkers so I guess it's a skill I never picked up).
I've been a fan of bdsm for a few years, but I've never done more then play, I'm looking for something a little more serious.
Pic available on request. Sorry, I'm just not comfortable putting photos of myself up on the internet. I am serious when I say you can request a photo if you like (All I ask is that you have one in return). BDSM is a hobby of mine, not a lifestyle and I'd like it to stay that way...
that being said, I'm looking for a partner with similar ideas/feelings on the subject. Although I like to dominate in the bedroom, in public I would prefer someone a bit more my equal. Someone with an education, conversation skills, hobbies, and I like outside of their relationship with me. I'm not looking to control someone 24/7, nor do I need a pet. I'm a busy guy and a woman who knows how to run her own life (yet submits in the bedroom) is a lot more interesting to me then a woman who just submits ALL the time.
I'm also interested in making some local friends. I wouldn't mind meeting people who just want to explore the bay area scene.
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got my first piece of hate mail today. Apparently this particular woman did not care for me saving her profile (instead of first asking for her permission). She also claimed that I my young age there is no way I could ever begin to consider myself a dom.
I realize that this classifies as a misunderstanding between myself and some nut job on the internet, but I feel it addresses some important issues.
first issue, if I save your profile, please take it as a compliment. I enjoyed your profile, and am considering messaging you. However, I like to think out my messages a little, and hence saved it for later, rather then banging out a quick message.
second issue, yes I am young. Originally, my profile said I was 23 (which I think was my age when I first found this site), I forgot to update this. My bad. I don't really see my youth as a problem. Sure it sucks for any ladies looking for some elaborate fantasy that requires a bit of experience and seasoning, but for them...there are other men. I am on this website on a purely casual basis. I enjoy BDSM and this website is a place where I can freely explore this interest with minimal awkwardness. I feel REALLY awkward at S&M clubs, and quite frankly, I don't think they need any more single guys walking around them.
So please let me specify: If you are interested in having a conversation about BDSM please message me. If you are female, live in the bay area, and are interested in meeting in person, so much the better. If you just want a kinky pen pal, I'm game for that too.
If you are easily offended, looking for something very specific, or something about me just rubs you the wrong way, you are free to ignore any attempt I have made to contact you. You can even block my profile all together!
Also, I apologize for not having a photo up. A lot of people use the internets and I don't care to post my image. If you want to know what I look like, just ask for photo, although it would be nice if you also tried to have a conversation with me.
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| Age: 23 |
| Lubbock,
Texas |
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