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Latine loqui coatus sum et sentio aliquos togatos contra me consiprare! (Not really; I just like saying those phrases. My Latin is actually a bit rusty.)
I seek an intellectually stimulating male dom, preferably between the ages of 32-42(-ish) who is more of a "caring" type, for a relationship with long-term potential. I am very new to D/s dynamics and generally am open to trying new things, particularly if it is pleasing to the other person. Definitely NOT into edge play, blood (or other bodily emissions not commonly associated with sex), things turning black/blue/purple, or online D/s relationships. Ability and willingness to openly and regularly communicate is essential, with clear expectations and boundaries. I am looking for someone who wants to incorporate both "vanilla" and D/s activities into the time spent together (in other words, someone who not only is a beloved Dom, but also can be boyfriend, best friend, and lover ... and perhaps one day a husband, should things progress that far).
I am highly educated (currently ABD) and am quite a nerd with a sometimes overly-analytical mind, though I also enjoy sports. I have found that intellectual compatibility seems to be one of the most (if not the most) crucial elements when it comes to successful relationships for me. Thus, a caring Dom with a Master's or PhD degree would probably be the most suitable.
I am (and have always been) a bit of a tomboy, and my field of study/area of expertise is one which is male-dominated (no pun intended) and, hence, one in which my tomboy-ish nature is not only useful but also to some degree essential for success in the field. Due to the tomboy-ish persona, I am not generally "submissive" nor am I a "typical" female. One result has been a repression of my "feminine"/submissive side (since it tends to be a liability when competing in male-dominated arenas).
I am not seeking a Dom who wishes to change this inherent part of who I am, or for whom this aspect is problematic. What I need is an outlet by which my feminine and submissive characteristics can be elicited and explored (and kept separate from, while creating balance with, my professional side), which I think (and hope) the right D/s relationship can provide.
For several reasons, I am not interested in having biological children even though I do like kids. I am open to considering adoption and/or children from a previous marriage/coupling.
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