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1/14/2010 1:21:54 AM

Being a slave can take on many forms: being a sex slave, being owned, being told what to do, crawling around on hands and knees at a Master or Mistress's feet, being kept on a leash, feeding from a bowl, dressing as a pony and being ridden around, and, of course, being punished when naughty, rewarded when good. All of these scenarios stem from the same desire: the willing and joyful surrender of control. For a slave nothing can be more liberating than this-- to step out of the "real world", relinquish responsibility, worries, everyday pressures, and hand over their life to another. But being a slave or sub is not a one-way exchange. It's not about being helpless, being a victim, being lazy, and expecting someone else to do everything for you; it's the eagerness to serve, to worship another, the willingness and desire to please. Submission is a ritualized role of surrender and devotion to another. And if there's one golden rule that reigns above all others in being a good slave it's this: "THE DESIRE TO SERVE" A good slave should remember all rules set up by his or her owner. he or she will do their best to uphold those rules and keep within the agreed boundaries. Some slaves like to push their owners, challenge Their authority or be naughty; this only works if the Master/MIstress is compliant in such games. If not, the slave is breaking the golden rule by putting their own needs above their Owner's. this one feels a slave should expect expect nothing in return, If a Master/Mistress usually indulges a slave with a particular pleasure at the end of play, and one time chooses not to, this should be of no consequence to the slave. If the slave gets frustrated or annoyed, they're forgetting their sole purpose: to serve. A good slave should be aware of how to please thier Master/Mistress in every way possible. If you discover that your Master or Mistress has a weakness for chocolates, lavish Them with the finest you can find. If They've always wanted to see you dressed as a cheerleader then turn up in the costume one day. While it's important that a slave sticks to rules and does exactly as his or her Owner tells them, surprises like this show that the slave has been listening, is thinking of the Master/Mistress, and is trying to please. Remember, as a slave you're someone else's property and, as such, you should be well maintained. If your Owner prefers a trimmer figure, longer hair, or wishes you didn't smoke, it's your duty to do your very best to fulfill these requirements. Never complain or argue, Nothing will annoy a Master or Mistress more than a whiny slave, complaining, being demanding, or trying to tell their Owner what to do. If, however, one is suffering in a way not conducive to play-their bound legs hurting, for example- he or she should always approach the issue in a tactful, apologetic manner. The slave should never tell their owner how to rectify the problem; that's the Owner's role, not theirs. "Master, I'm sorry to bother you but I think my legs are getting pins and needles", is much better than, "You need to untie me; these restraints are hurting