EdwardJon

Male Dominant, 44, clinton twp, Michigan

Male Dominant, 63, Queens, New York

Male Submissive, 50

Love and the lifestyle.... Whats with the guys and girls? who think romance and this style cant mix ? Love can make it stronger when going both ways. It almost seems the word love and this style are taboo when used together by many ( not all an equal amount do have the love element in their relationship ) . Love doesn't have to mean an imbalance of power or status. So long as both parties are honest about their role and mean it with no ulterior motive. While I've noticed men are most likely to have an ulterior motive ( sex , kink ) I've seen women with such ulterior motives as well and that's just sad. What I am trying to get across is the expression of love of done right and with all honesty between both parties can make the bond and relationship stronger ..... and make no mistake anything long term in this lifestyle is a relationship albeit not vanilla its still a relationship , both parties have to trust one another and both must mesh in harmony.... just sad how many people will flee from anything emotional once it enters the equation.

A subs surrender and submission is not weakness nor based on insecurity or even just obligation alone, rather It is indeed based on trust, respect, need, desire. This submission a sub gives is a bond that grows by the number of challenges she overcomes in service, by the expectations that she exceeds and the personal growth that happens in servitude. There is a bond that forms between the dom and the sub, which is based on the Trinity of self: Mind , heart and body. Sadly to many? out there ignore the mind and heart aspect of this dynamic and focus only on the physical body alone , which is to ignore the mental aspects and the emotional ( Mind and heart ). The mental and emotional aspects of a master / slave relationship more closely define true dominance and submission then can the physical alone. A good master aspires to see that the mental and emotional aspects of this dynamic are filled to brimming. The path of dominance and submission is a journey with many many steps to it. Forks and cross points are many along this path. It is a journey that inspires, thrills, enlightens and fulfills, pushes us to new heights. Those who are wise know we are always growing or upon seeing stagnation do something about it, pushing limits and transcending them.

ok people I have to say this after getting more then a few messages here.... No I do not want to transplant anyone here at my location that I just talked to. Doesn't work like that in my world. I want to get to know YOU and you get to know ME to a substantial degree before any such big serious step. Also for those of you willing to do such so quickly Id ask you to reflect upon if that is indeed a wise thing to do. The person your ready to move to or visit may indeed not be what they claim. Myself I want to be as sure as I can be that the slave or possibly the right submissive that I take is indeed the right one for me and to be as sure as I can be that this is what they want and that in as much as I can tell that they are who they say they are. To any doms who may be reading this post.... beware of subs / slaves who have in their profile a deadline date they need to be relocated by as this is usually a bad sign. A very very bad sign in many cases. Not all cases but yes many many cases.

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