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livvy252003 -  Switch Couple, Wilmington North Carolina | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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Hey out there in CM world...Back again, as a couple actively seeking a female in the Wilmington area for fun and games..He is Dominant...I am a true switch, submissive to him but a possible Domme to you. PLEASE be SANE, SAFE and over 18!!! WE would like to play at least 2-3 times a month. Your living in the Wilmington area is not a huge deal as long as you are able to provide your own transportation. We will host and provide food, shelter and drinks (if you drink). We are drug and disease free, you should be too. If you are not into pain, humiliation, insertions, girls, and bondage...we are definitely not the couple for you. If the first couple of meetings go well, this could potentially become a very regular thing! Hope to hear from you soon....

Its been a long while since I updated here. Almost a year or better, lol...I have met and made a new friend here! She is wonderful! I can't wait to have lunch with her. The kids and I are great. Here of late people have contacted me wanting to know about my weight loss, since January I have lost 40 pounds. That is a significant amount of weight, and I feel very accomplished. I am also now engaged, to the guy I met in January. We are to be married in October of 2009 on the 31. That's about all for now, hope all is well for all my friends here!?
Now that none of us are sick, yay. I actually got more than my 5 lbs, just by carefully watching what I eat and drink. I completely cut out soda's and the like. I have a slimfast or v8 for breakfast, an apple or grapes for lunch if anything and then a normal dinner with carefully controlled portions. And lots and lots of water. So, I am more than a little proud of myself. I am super proud of my little boy this week. He stayed clean and dry all weekend long. Very Very Proud. That has been the biggest struggle and was conquered with discipline and praise. So, I am also proud of myself for doing that for him.? I have become a most effective parent in the last couple of months. Very nice. Nothing new to report here. I am slowly starting to respond to emails and such? so bear with me, I am getting to everyone. Thanks for all the warm thoughts for my little girl, and myself. I am about ready to jump back in the game. As a submissive.? So here I am...
Greetings from the Planet Mom...her fever came down, but she is puking now. Guess I can't win, lol. I am feeling better and started a new diet today..wish me luck, all I want is 5 pounds and 3 inches, can someone make that happen?? Anywhore, I just wanted to check in and let everyone know what was up with my little one and myself. If you emailed me and got an email back, well you know who you are and what you are to me. Feel special, it means your important...
Hi, just throwing this out there. Should there not be a modicum of respect when a Master contacts a sub or vice versa...I mean really, no one likes a one line email. Especially a one line email without a picture. I have asked before and I will ask again, if you are taking the time to contact me, be you a Master, Dom, sub , slave..whatever, INCLUDE A PICTURE OR YOU WILL GET NO RESPONSE.
Now that I have said that, I will just say really quickly that I am sick, as well as my little girl with fevers ect...She is the sicker of us with the higher fever 104 degrees..so, I will answer emails when the weekend is over, some people are actually getting responses from me now, because its important and they have been friends with? me while, or I know them in RL.
Ironically enough, this entry is just a few days shy of my last one..It has been a very busy month for me and I have spent some time in the hospital.....I am currently going to take some time for just me!!! I am however still interested in making new friends and chatting with like minds...If you are looking at me, please know that while I may relocate at some point, my life, my heart lies in North Carolina..I am a true southern belle and will always be so..you can take the girl out of the country, but not the country out of the girl!!! Blessed be...
Guess it is time for a little update here. It has been rather busy in the household of O these past couple of weeks, with the Holidays coming, fairs, school stuff with the kids, and a very full schedule of singing I havent really had time to update or take pictures or anything...Bleh. Now I am sick (head cold), and that is really screwing with my vocal cords at the moment and my tone!!! It will pass much like everything else. I have gotten many emails regarding my profile and the fact that some cant read it..(not my problem) Its really simple people, right click and highlight ( my 7 year old can do this).? Now, as for the submissives that keep emailing me, I enjoy? your emails, I really really do. But please, send? your picture if there is not one on your profile, because if you don't, I will not respond!!!!! And now, for all you wonderful Dom's...thank you for all the attention. I appreciate it. I would love to have a Dom, but I am very very particular and have no intentions of leaving home any time soon, and would like to take my time getting to know you. I am currently speaking with someone, and we seem to have very similar interests..so we shall have to see where this leads. A couple of things I will not do upon initial contact..I will not call you Sir, or Daddy. I will not kneel before you, and I will not and be very sure you get this send nude pictures of myself. That is something that is reserved for someone of the utmost importance!!! Thank you all and have a great day!!!
Yay..Halloween is almost here!!! I cant wait, its my favorite holiday..And the Sox won the World Series in a Sweep..could life get any better i ask?? Of course it could!!!! And i feel pretty sure that it will. I have had a great weekend, and really enjoyed myself visiting friends. I have a had a rather constructive night as well, doing laundry and the like...Im feeling quite accomplished. Thanks for all the emails, i am responding to them as i get them, and if i havent responded as of yet, dont panic, i am probably trying to construct a thoughtful, coherent sentence!!!
Hi, sorry it has been a bit, I have been out of town for the last couple of days, and I am also busy playing mommy this weekend. I assure you that while i am looking at your emails, i have not taken the time to respond to them as i need to gather my thoughts, and this is very tough to do with small children shrieking in the house..As of tomorrow at 1 they will all go home and i can sit and construct some sort of replies to all of you!!! Thank you so much for the time you have put into your emails, I look forward to responding to each and every one of you!!
Hi all..Just popping in to say hi!! Its been a busy busy weekend, lots of home improvement chores, its looking good around here. I have a little shopping to do, for decorating purposes, but other than that, its very very laid back today. Fall weather has set in and im wicked excited about halloween and taking my little ones trick or treating, and of course going to Indiana to visit friends and check out Jareds band. Also coming up in the future, im hoping to go out to Las Vegas for a week or so. Still looking for subs for my friend, so please do not hesitate to introduce yourself and get to know me. Thanks, also, please be sure to send a picture if there is not one attached to you profile. Have a great day!!!!
Gosh..its quiet around here today, lol. Guess everyone is sleeping. Oh well, let me rant for a minute, can i just say that thigh high pantyhose are the devil..what ever happend to the cute just above the knee jobs with stilettos..And school girl skirts?? Oh well, i guess im still just a little girl at heart, sometimes i feel like im playing dress up in adult clothes...ugh!!! More to come!!!

??? ??? Attention Please

So can i just say that i am astounded by the amount of people that do not read around here. Wow. I guess they think that because i am not really searching for a sub, that i need a Dom, uh NO. If i want a Dom, i can have one, right here in my home town. Besides, what is a Dom without love, patience, understanding..ohhhh wait, those Dom's dont exsist here (well they do, but they have subs already) Okay, here we go, one more time people...I have several subs under consideration, I am looking for subs for Master ( no not mine, but a very good friend and mentor of sorts). I am bisexual, I have a girlfriend, so yes while i am looking for the male half of my heart , please understand that, i wont just run off and leave her. So, now. Are we all clear??
If so..Lets Begin!!!
Hello again friends. I am here today, just for a little update. While i am no longer seeking a slave for myself(as quite a few of you are talking to me right now) I am however seeking, female slaves, TS Slaves for a very close personal friend of mine. Please submit your letter of introduction as well as any experience you may have to my inbox, i will look at each of you and then if i find you to be suitable for Master..i will forward that information. We ask that you be D/D Free, clean, and Discreet.....Thank you and have a great day!!! Also, for the subs/slaves that i am chatting with, this journal does not apply to you, please continue to chat with me, and we shall go from there.
Hi again lovely folks..So let me just say that when you least expect a nice real person to come out this site..there they come flapping thier wings with sincere compliments and honesty, and also with a great want to get to know you kind of attitude..(take hints dumbasses) Thanks again to a very special person for restoring my faith in this site..I am looking forward to getting to know you much better!!!?
Just a brief update for all you lovely people here on CollarMe..i still do not have a sub..just a couple of wanna be's. Thats okay for the time..still looking for perfection in a boi? Hi there again to my many friends that have been wondering where i was..off learning new things and perfecting old skills..I can now say i am quite schooled in the art of face sitting, and golden showers. I would assume this because i get paid by subs for it!!! So if you would like to have me help you with either of these matters, please drop me a line!! Thanks...
Seems like there is an abundance of new faces here to see and be seen...As i have stated before, im really just looking for friends in the lifestyle. I have a girlfriend who is on CM as well, she is a Pro Domme..no, she does not Domme me. We are very comfortable with what we have together. There is a lot of give and take, as with most relationships..There seems to more Dom men than usaul that have interest in putting me in those cute little boxes and shoving me under the bed to be taken out at thier leisure. No thank you.? A real woman would not allow herself to be put in a box, but instead ask to be treated with respect, and dignity. A real woman could not fit neatly into any box, as we are complex creatures with many curves and peaks.? If you are a sub or a slave, consider these things. And if you? are emailing me, please remember to attach a pic or you will get no reply. You will be deleted promptly without a second thought in the matter. As i noted in my previous Journal entry, I do offer my worn panties to those subs who would wish to have them for 25.00 plus shipping costs. Thank you and have a great weekend.?
Just wanted to let everyone know that im back and just poking around checking out the new faces. How is everyone doing and whats new around here. Just looking for friends and subs at the moment, maybe a dominant, as i see some of you are still quite intrested..Cant wait to talk to you all again. Oh...I have a new business venture. If any of you loyal subs are so apt as to want to purchase a pair of my worn panties you may do so by contacting me with your information. You will recieve the panties and a picture of me from behind in them for the small fee of 25.00 I look forward to hearing from you...have a great day!!!

Hello everyone...my naughty sub finally found his way back. Imagine that. My foot has healed very nicely, and i am back to having two cute feet instead of just one..Yay!!!! I am going to make one little gripe and then i will stop..if you specifically say please email me with pics ..what part of that do people not get. I have provided mine, will you please be so kind to provide yours. Happy New Years to all.

Hello again..i guess i better update my journal once again. Oh it appears that naughty slave of mine is gone again. Who knows what he is doing. Bad... Anywho, bigger update. I will not be going into the Army or any other branch of service now, i fell off the porch and ruined my foot. Now that it is in the healing process, it looks like i have a golf ball or a good size orange growing off the side of my ankle. Im completely disgusted about it, i had such cute feet, and now, i have a cute foot. But in other news i will be starting classes Oct 11, i have roughly two semesters left, and if i double up on my classes, less than that. So..another day in the life of me. Whats new with you?
Hello everyone...nice to see you all again, and thanks for welcoming me back with such open arms!!!! Its appreciated. You'll notice that ive updated my profile, once again. However a couple of things it does not say is that i am no longer looking for a slave. I have one. He is all i can handle at this time and gives me enough grief..if you have kept up with the storyline you will find that the slave is none other than my second Dom who has turned slave, woo hoo revenge is sweet. And he is a complete slave. In every way. We are looking at this in the way that one looks at redemption for something he has done very wrong and as you know he treated my very badly when i was with him in Indiana..now the page turns. I am looking for a Dom still..will the search ever ever end...i hope so. But my Dom must tolerate the fact that i am soon to go into the Army and will leave for boot camp in the next month or sooner. This is my life in a nut shell. Im very excited with the direction my life has taken and cant wait to see what tommorrow brings, for while my heart is broken my spirit is not, and a i know that love conquers all in the end...
I am so sick of Collar Me and a great majority of the people on it...My life is too short to waste on mindless games and empty headed thoughts or having my feelings hurt by people who just dont give a damn about anyone but themselves. Im tired of the game..im out of here. Dont email, dont invite me to cht and for gods sake all you losers that keep randomly IM'ing me....because you think its cute to invite yourself..DONT. Have a great life.
Hello all my faithful followers..the time comes when a persons journey in life has to end..and so my time has come. I am presently happy and content having found what i needed. If you would like to chat as friends, please feel free, but at this time, i am currently speaking with someone, that i feel very very positive about so the need for this profile has diminished. I welcome all emails of course but know that i will not be swayed from my current course of action. Slaves you are most welcome to email me..however, i am not intrested currently in you either. Thanks for all your patience, MsLivvy
Hello everyone im back again..and i have to say im rather sick of this game called BDSM. Just when you think you have found the right person..they go and rip your heart out...whats up with that? Arent there anymore, nice sweet, sincere, DOMINANT men anymore? Im looking for someone who is Dominant...but kind, strict but laidback. Give me all of you and i will give you all of me!!!! Its not that hard. And on a second note. Subs or Slaves, quit playing games and be honest. Dont say one thing and do another, its trifling and petty and shows no strength of character. Be a man or a woman, do what you say and mean what you say. NO GAMES PLEASE.
Okay...first of all let me say, i think that i have found the Dom for me. But by accident. So anyone else that may be looking at me, or waiting for me , STOP. Its not going to happen. Im happy where im currently at in my life, and although this person and i are just dating, i know where I stand. I am however still looking for slaves, every girl should own at least one Perfect slave..be it male or female. All i can say for now to anyone who wanted me is I apoligize, and while im not collared or owned, i am ecstatic with this relationship. Its all i can ask for at this point in time. This guy would walk through Hell for me, if he had to. He is happy to take care of me, in the sense that if im sick, he babies me. If im down, he picks me up, and if im hurt, he hugs me and tells me its going to be okay, and helps me see the light at the end of the tunnel. He also happens to think that im beautiful, and fun, and smart, and sexy. And he does all this while still being able to be dominant over me. And i love him for it. Okay love is strong at this point, but i know my heart better than anyone. We can talk about anything, and everything, and we do, often. I get nervous to say some things to him, so i write them down and let him read them. Hes perfect..for me. He pushes me to be a better person, and thats what a Dom is supposed to do. I dont think he realizes that he is Dom, but he says He knows that he belongs with me. We have the perfect relationship. Everyday is a new day with him, and waking up in his arms are incredible. Wow..thats my favorite word to use for him. Hes always honest and kind, and firm, and just what a man should be. Who knew that a dance at a Christmas party could lead to this? I certainly did not, and im so thankful for it.
Okay, so everyone remembers the Jackson Beverage Christmas party..well while i was there i met a certain person, whom i really liked, but couldnt say anything or do anything about it because i was with someone else. Welllll? guess what, turns out we had a mutual friend, woo hoo. How exciting that was, we got together New Years Eve and let me tell you this guy is fantastic, he makes me laugh, smile, my hearts skips a beat when he calls me on the the phone...I really like him. Oh did i mention he can pick me up and throw me around too...thats one of the first reasons i really liked him,that and he is too cute and sexy for words. Even without knowing his personality or anything about him there was something that drew me to him. And oh my god...hes really fantastic. Sex is icing on the cake ive always said that, but when you can find someone that the sex really clicks with that wants to make you happy, thats something to explore and have fun with. That person is someone special. He makes me smile, i look forward to hearing his voice which is something that has not happened since my Dark Angel came into my life...
Hey everyone, fans, admirers, haters..lol. Anyway, it was long long weekend but wow was it fun. I had this huge party to go to Sat nite for Jackson Beverage, lol. Yeah drunk girl with belt. So lots of food, good music, open bar. Whats a girl to do, we ate, we drank, alot. As the nite went on the belt came off, and well now i have a lovely purpley blue ass. I saddled my date and rode him on the dance floor when the DJ played "Save a Horse Ride a Cowboy", gosh, i even outdrank the supervisor, and last i heard he was puking and being carried back to his condo. It was a good weekend. I spent all day Sunday in bed. Eecuperating. And ive got pics of most of it, if not others do..and i will be posting them sometime this week. Until then, Merry Christmas.
Okay..so i got in an arguement with the roomate/fuckbuddy about bleach last nite. Which led to us not speaking for the rest of the nite. BLEACH people , how can be such major fucking thing. But anyway. What it boiled down to is i thought i was right, he thought he was right. He says it will mess up the septic and im like 1/2 cup bleach to 30 gal of wawa is not going to hurt it, how  you gonna keep the towels sanitary. Oh god. And then i couldnt even finish my statement..cause he kept interupting me. God now that does make me mad. Hes not in the lifestyle. And then he told me to "quit bitchin", i so wanted to just spank him with my belt. I mean really . Mouthy little thing. Im glad its Friday, i can go do karaoke and sing my frustrations away. And tommorow, i can go and dance all nite. Ill make up with him tonite, the house is all clean and it will be fine but geez BLEACH.......
Good morning all I am finally at rest in my home town of Wilmington NC and am so content and peacful...now let me regal all you wonderful little submissives out thier with my story and i write this as a reminder for myself as well so that i may never ever jump without looking or  leap without a safety net again. In the past three months, i have encountered 2 of the most dissatisfying experiences on collarme. As you know we can not name names as that is just mean and may hurt feelings. So i will continue. First experience..some of these guys are truely freaking psycho..they are not dominant, they think they are dominant. They really use BDSM as an excuse to abuse women who are submissive and think they deserve it. Listen to me all submissives these men who want to chain you up and whip you for hours and leave scars or open your flesh, or rape you with brooms or greet you On your knees bitch, they arent doms, or alpha males, they are guys that sit around and get kicks or thrills out of abusing submissive men/women or slaves. And just to not be gender biased.. women are just as guilty. Okay moving on..second experience..for all you subs/slaves that are willing to relocate, switches as well be damn sure you know your dom and what the rules are and what exactly your going into. What your main purpose in the home will be. Dont dive blindly into somthing thay may not be right for you and waste valuable time that couldve been well spent making new friends or meeting the right dom/domme. In other words dont say okay, ive known you two weeks, lets roll. It doesnt work that way. You wouldnt marry someone after knowing them two weeks, so why in heavens name would you move in with someone you met on the Internet after that short amount of time. My experience is while i was not harmed physically, i lost something emotionally, a little chunk of my self-esteem. I walked into a situation with a Dom..okay yeah..who was so self absorbed and had so much going on that i more or less got lost in the shuffle and was neglected emotionall, i had every other need and loved where i was, and his kids..but my emotional needs went unnoticed and it definitly caused discontent in the household. So..just a few things to think about and for every one to read and me to remember next time i decide to be flighty. Which i wont...i am much more cautious these days. I love home life and family and want nothing more than to belong and be a part of something, and i have great group of friends right here that support me and love me, pick me up when i fall and I always have someone to come home to because of that. All the little hurts and pains and aches make me Who I Am. Laughter, Love, Tears, Joy, Sorrow, Fear, Hurt, Bruises, Scrapes, and Scars. They are all a part of me. Love me for me and nothing else. Accept all of me with the imperfections or look away,
Not so bitchy today..im going back to NC on wedsday, im so excited and then ill fly out the following monday to Fla..busy busy. So the quote of the day is..."ASK NOT WHAT YOUR MASTER/MISSTRESS CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THEM"....How is everyone today..bored out of my skull here. I could clean,its more fun to watch someone else do it. Dont you think.
OH...and the little Domme is bitchy today..wow. Are there any true submissive females in the North..you know what im saying. They all seem to think the world owes them something. Why cant they be more like Southern women, manners, taste, breeding. But no..they gotta be bitches sorry girls you know who you are and for the rest that arent, im proud of you for knowing your place. I just got back from NC to Indiana..and i wanna go back to NC..these people are driving me crazy around here. Oh by the Merry Fucking Christmas....

Today i am clarifying in my journal the TEN things that are important to me in life, BDSM, slavery, submission , in a Dom or Domme or both.
1. Trust, the foundation of any relationship
2. Respect
3. Kink(must be, or be willing to learn or try)
4. BDSM(essential, why else would you be here, light or heavy, new to lifestyle or been in it for years)
5. You must be master of yourself before you can master me or anyone else, or i will make a fool of you.
6. No yelling, talk like a grownup or i cannot hear you.
7. Must be able to tame my wild heart
8. Must be willing to be my partner in crime and in life.
9. Understand what a limit is and how to push it and how to respect it.
10. Love comes from pain, pain comes from the exchange of power between two people who truely know that and think that it is beautiful.

 

Its been a long day and nite, but i cant sleep, and im homesick. Im excited though, i get to go home for a few days this weekend. Woo hoo. It would be great if i could make some friends here in Indiana to match my friends in NC , that way i would have someone to go out with on the weekends, especially starting college in January. It would also help with being homesick so much. Been busy with the new business today, and well just plain busy..in general.
I love the way you look at me
I feel the pain you place inside
Lock me up inside ya dirty cage
While I?m alone inside my mind

I like to teach you all the rules
I?d get to see them set in stone
I like it when you chain me to the bed
There ya secrets never shone

[chorus]
I need to feel you
You need to feel me
I can?t control you
You?re not the one for me, no

I can?t control you
You can?t control me
I need to feel you
So why?s it involve

I love the way you rape my skin
I feel the hate you place inside
I need to get your voice out of my head
Cause I?m the guy you?ll never find

I?m faking all of the rules
There?s no expressions on your face
I?m hoping some day you will let me go
Release me from my dirty cage

[chorus]
I need to feel you
You need to feel me
I can?t control you
You?re not the one for me, no

I can?t control you
You can?t control me
I need to feel you
So why?s it involve...you and me..

[repeat 4x]
I love the way you look at me
I love the way you smack my ass
I love the dirty things you do
I have control of you

[chorus]
I need to feel you
You need to feel me
I can?t control you
You?re not the one for me, no

I can?t control you
You can?t control me
I need to feel you
So why?s it involve you and me..

[repeat 4x]
You?re not the one for me, no
Hello everyone, just so you know, Im taken/under consideration by a Dom so , while i appreciate your emails, i will only be responding on a friendship level, with nothing more. Thank  you so much.

So hey everyone, i just got back from Daytona Beach, Fla for Biketoberfest, and it was so much fun. The BDSM undertones were amazing, truely great. I even spanked a girl in public, yeah that was good times. So, how was everyones weekend. Mine was good but im glad to be home. Missed chatting with everyone, hated to get back home though. Maybe ill get to go back soon. Look forward to talking to you soon

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