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As a subslave i get that this is not about me.This humble slave is hoping to find someone that clicks on both vanilla and fetish level, as i have not (yet)found a relationship that ignores either of these aspects completely (however i will give it a go if offered). i expect any relationship born of this site to be non-sexual at first, as a seemingly large amount of Dommes have made reference to the number of males looking for a good time only. Believe me i am always looking for a good time, but experience has proven that it does not have to include sex. It can if that is what You desire, but this is not about my wants or needs other than to make You happy. This lifestyle is just about the mental aspect as much as the physical.i am intelligent, charismatic, kind, funny, trustworthy, relatively well read, and absolutely adore talking (and listening) about anything and everything. And that is a statement i will stand by. By nature i am very inquisitive and interested in learning as much as i can about anything stimulating.i am looking for real time, as chatting is not something that is conducive to my time or yours it is like a strip club, all show, no go. i will gladly use it to get to know You if that is what You desire, but at some time i hope that we can talk via the phone or meet.Chemistry and trust are extremely important more so than how well You wield a flogger or the level of experience You bring to the table.Because i have been with people who have topped from the bottom let me lay out some of my preferences, i promise not to say any more unless asked (and lets face it, who wants to ask a slave?). i enjoy Femdom, loss of control, pain (both physical and mental), bondage,shibari,TPE, role play, forced feminization, and servitude. i am definitely curious about personality and body modification. i would like to emphasise that this is not what is expected, it is what i enjoy the most. i am very open to new and different experiences letting You control both the tempo and the curriculum.Allow me to serve and make You proud.

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6/28/2009 2:33:34 PM
The first Charlotte TNG group will be having their first meeting this Tuesday.  Please feel free to email me if interested.
-groovecat

6/19/2009 8:15:57 PM
I am helping to start up a new group in the Charlotte area for experienced, new, or curious kinksters who would like to meet others involved or interested in the lifestyle that are in the same age range.

Charlotte TNG (The Next Generation) is for 18-35 year olds and open to all regardless of color, sex, or orientation. 

No pressure, no judgement, just a way to actually take the first steps to seeing what is out there.

Please message me here or find our group on FL with any questions.

6/19/2009 8:15:05 PM

To all those who I may have confused I must apologize.  Even though my profile is written as if I am still single, however I have been in a wonderful relationship with a Dominant woman for the last 6 months or so.  Sorry about the confusion, it is just that the profile took so long to write and re-write there is some nostalgia regarding it.  :)

Friends are not only welcome but encouraged, especially if you are curious on how to get involved with the lifestyle.

Cheers,
groovecat


12/25/2008 9:24:21 PM
As my involvement and knowledge about the BDSM community changes, it has finally dawned on me that my profile could use some changes and to better reflect who I am and what I seek.  However it took me so long to actually get this last one to where it is now, I find myself slightly hesitant to deviate from something that has come to be near and dear to my heart.  But erring on the cautious side, look for something new within the next few days (weeks, months?).

Good profiles that show a person's true self are not written, they are crafted.

11/26/2008 10:14:32 AM
First off, Happy Thanksgiving everyone.  I hope that bellies are filled with turkeys and all cravings for cranberries are filled.

With that said, this last weekend was a  eventful one filled with interesting people, wonderfully hot play, a new foray into sounds, and an incredibly hot scene that only really began once a nipple was pouring blood.  Great stuff.  :D  But the best thing experienced was all of the incredibly nice ;) and interesting people that I met. 

In my brief foray into public events and socials I have been humbled by the openness and inviting nature of everyone I have met.  Thank you all for being so accepting and friendly.  As someone who is new to the public arena of BDSM and D/s, the welcoming nature  of everyone is something that does nothing but encourage my desires to learn and experience more and to continue to create and develop friendships.

Thank You All.

11/1/2008 11:26:35 AM
Life lesson 8322:
If your friends insist that the Absenth they have is real, believe them.

10/31/2008 9:04:04 AM
Reading today's paper I came across two quotes in a story about how the small town of Maiden is attempting to make Halloween into a town-wide festival, the "creepiest place in the country".  Kudos to them!
But the first quote is from a preacher who holds a rival fall festival at the local church to "shed light during this dark day".  And I quote, "Halloween is to Satanist what Christmas is to Christians."  W-w-w-wha?  This sounds like some of the statements that I have blogged about the election and my continuing acceptance that a lot of people are sheep wanting to be lead by the snazziest lines or most base fear tactic instead of asking the simple question of how does it effect them.  Yeash!
The second quote is more up my alley, and is from a woman whose house is the unofficial centerpiece of the Halloween extravaganza.  She spent over $250 on candy alone (and I thought my $100 was extreme) and has hired a professional lighting crew to help with getting their house ready.  When asked about how and why she does this every year she replied, "Every year we try to top ourselves.  Reactions tend to be mixed.  You've got the ones who line up to see it (the haunted house) and ones who get aggravated , because we scare a little kid so bad.  But it is Halloween you know?  If some little kid doesn't go away crying, we just haven't done it right."  HA!  There is the Halloween spirit, the one that makes this one of my favorite holidays.  Crying kids=good times and good laughs.  ;)

Happy Halloween you guys, and although my night is filled with parties and giving away candy, for some reason I feel like the real treat won't be here until later.  :D

9/27/2008 9:40:44 AM
Grrr...A small rant about my current situation if I may....

I am poised to go to the FF here in Charlotte, and have been for the last hour.  Little did I know when I went to get in my car that my roommate's girlfriend would be in our driveway getting her brake pads replaced.  Really??  My car is the furthest one from the road and so I cannot move my car until they are done.  Drive over the grass?  Sure, but unfortunately the monsoons came again over the past few days and so I would either get 1) stuck, or 2) destroy my yard.  Either way it is unacceptable.  I write this with full knowledge that venting is the only way he will not die today......

9/19/2008 4:31:10 PM

Alright.... next weekend is the Fetish Fair and Flea market (hereby referred to the FFF) and I will most certainly be in attendance on Saturday.  Apparently there has been no promotion for this event that has classes, lots of vendors, and a chance to put faces with email names, so I will do my part...

Below is a link that has a good bit of information, please check it out.  Also I would love to hear from anyone else going or thinking of going.  No better time to meet new friends than while shopping.  :)
http://www.fetishfairfleamarket.com/fff-charlotte2.html

9/5/2008 5:32:10 PM
Here comes the rain again.....
Oh god, after getting with the remnants of one hurricane it looks like two more storms are headed this way.  Does anyone have any used scuba gear?  My neighborhood got closed down to all through traffic due to the creeks flooding the streets.  I had to park my car and walk a half mile to the house.   Well actually it was wade, not walk to my house through a marsh that was a neighbor's yard at one time.  This has never happened before, but with the ground already soaked it looks like fun times on the horizon.  Full speed ahead captain!

7/11/2008 3:49:25 PM
Well this entry falls into the bad news/good news category.  I had the unfortunate luck of getting a piece of chicken I cooked stuck in my esophagus the other day (Insert joke here) and had to take myself to the hospital to get it removed.  Of course after working a full day.  Doh!  That was not the smartest move ever made by me.  However, when getting weighed on the scale before surgery, I saw that my weight had dropped to 166.  This comes after weighing my heaviest ever at a whopping (for my frame) 200+ a year or so ago.  Joy and Rapture.  I must say that the grin on my face must have said only half the story, tipped off on that fact when the nurse told me to "settle down and quit dancing".  But I must say, I am very proud of myself, and hope that I can continue to get it off at the same rate (insert other joke here).

7/8/2008 2:46:06 PM
Talk about wacky weather.  As of now, the chances of the power going out for the third day in a row is 50/50 and I am really getting tired of it.  First it feels like we are in the Sahara, now we have moved up into India for our weather patterns.  Rain is not just falling pleasantly, it is coming down in sheets.  If this keeps up I will need to by a boat to get to work.  And to top it all off, when watching the storm from the deck, I saw a gentleman jog by, his frame illuminated by lighting.  Now THAT is masochism that even I cannot compete with.

6/6/2008 4:02:25 PM

I am attempting to add some current pics, and it is taking a while...let us see if they are accepted ;)


2/8/2008 7:21:01 PM
Looking to see if any friendly faces were going to Purgatory tomorrow.  If so i would love to know, always up for meeting new people and haven't been to one of the parties in many, many years.

12/25/2007 6:18:12 AM
Well I have just looked in my stocking and all that is in there is a lump of coal. .......again.  This makes the fourth year in a row.  Mission accomplished!  :)
Although I guess if Santa really hated me he would have given me a Chinese-made toy for me to poison myself. 
Merry Christmas to all and beware of those Thomas the Tank Toys.

k

12/19/2007 6:41:20 AM

When a dominant approaches me, I am definitely not opposed to a well thought out form letter (ie something more than R U ready 2 surv ME")  however there are some questions that continually come up that I can answer right off the bat that might help..so here goes.

Yes, I am single at the moment

Yes, I have my own car

Yes, I did graduate from college, with honors, and have taken Master level courses

No, I do not live with my parents

Yes, I have two roommates, we own our house, and they know I am "kinda kinky" but have no idea how far I go/have gone

Yes, I am willing to drive to meet

Yes, at this time I am relocatable

Yes, these are current pics

Yes, during the holidays life is extremely busy for me, and probably for you, but mine should slow down after Christmas

Yes, I use spell check

I would love to answer any questions you have, just thought that this might be helpful.

Smiles,
k


12/10/2007 4:08:15 AM
So in putting up new pics I inadvertently erased the one that was already up.  Doh!  So hopefully they will all be up in the next day or so.......
We shall see.

10/27/2007 12:56:24 PM
Carnevil tonight!  Whoohoo.

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