| 1-26-14 How do you change a fetish list when you are a Switch and like it both ways! Oh Well
Looking for a female Masochist or someone that wants to have their pain level built up over time.
I have heard it in the past to pick a side being a switch sometimes that is hard to do. I am thinking that my submissive side is all but faded away but still hoping for the right connection with a Mistress.
So i am seeking a submissive with the right connection . I had a submissive four years in the past so looking for the right girl that is wanting to enjoy the lifestyle with. I am seeking a relationship. I am not just looking to for a bottom play partner.
For me communication is everything along with connection. I am looking for a partner that whats to meet on a regular basis. Hopefully once a week so we can get to know one another to enjoy the journey.
I need a submissive that wants to have a voice I hate sitting in silence without any communication. To many things are lost when there is no communication going on. Over time the connection will be lost when people don't talk.
I love using my floggers on a willing submissive/bottom. I am a Top been in the lifestyle for 15 years. Always learning new and exciting things to add to my dynamics. Being a switch sometimes is like a double edged sword the need of a Mistress also the need for a Submissive.
You scored 72% giving and 69% receiving on oral.
You scored 67% giving and 90% receiving on anal.
You scored 62% giving and 71% receiving on bondage.
You scored 52% giving and 57% receiving on humiliation.
You scored 72% giving and 71% receiving on pain.
You scored 52% dominance and 53% submission.
You scored 54% voyeurism and 44% exhibitionism.
into: bare bottom flogging (everything to do with it), forced orgasms, orgasm denial, orgasm control, (everything to do with it), "a large cup of coffee fetish"(everything to do with it), "be quiet, and just lick my ass" (everything to do with it),"good morning" and "good night" texts (everything to do with it), "i didn't say like it. i said do it." (everything to do with it), "just keep flogging, just keep flogging..." (everything to do with it), "skirts with no panties" (everything to do with it), "the look" that tells you in no uncertain terms that you have crossed the line and earned a spanking (everything to do with it), "yes, mistress!!" (giving),"you belong to me" whispered in my ear (everything to do with it), "you, me, your mouth, any questions?" (everything to do with it), # # bare bottom spanking # bare handed spanking (giving), *being honest with play partners* (everything to do with it), 69 (everything to do with it), a decent person who will treat me well (everything to do with it), a gentle touch after a rough spanking. (everything to do with it), a life of passion, intensity and focus.(giving), a man who sees a strong woman as an asset (everything to do with it), pegging (receiving), please mistress, may i cum? (receiving), pleasing my mistress (giving), power exchange (giving), prostate massage (receiving), pussy licking that makes you crave me (giving), pussy spanking(giving), pussy worship (giving), soft nibbles while i eat your pussy (giving), your feet on my cock while i eat your pussy (everything to do with it).spanking him as i fuck his ass w/my strap-on,slowly sucking and licking the tip of my dick (receiving), snuggling, spread eagled while i eat your pussy (giving), spreader bars (everything to do with it), mistresses with strap-ons