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Female Submissive, 48, Seymour, Georgia
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Female Submissive, 26, Anytown USA, Ohio
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About LittleRedFlame
Please note, I am not interested in online or long distance relationships and I am not willing to relocate from Istanbul. Nor will I submit to anyone just because they send me a short and rude message on here insinuating that I should be willing to submit to them.
A Bit About Me
I'm a Scottish woman living in Istanbul. I've been living in Turkey since August 2010 and moved to Istanbul in August 2014. I'm what you would call a BBW - I'm fat. I don't like the term BBW because it denotes "other" or "different". I prefer to just think of myself as an attractive woman who has fat, rather than be fetishized or feel different because my body doesn't match what society deems beautiful. Inside this body is a loving, kind, caring, empathic and highly intelligent woman, who is very adventurous, kinky, open minded and when I submit I truly devote myself to that person. I also have amazing oral skills which I have developed through the years ;) Oh and my boobs are awesome to play with and tie with rope.
I'm a natural submissive and my preferred dynamic is submissive or slave within the D/s spectrum, depending on the person I'm involved with and the limits we negotiate.
I'm primarily a pleasure sub who also enjoys mental domination, service, obedience and protocols as well as being a masochist. I'm not into extreme pain or needles etc but I love impact play. I also love bondage. I'm also a bit of a switch, in that I am capable of submitting to one man and also capable of topping or playing with another person at the same time. I am a sadist and have some dominant tendencies. Those who say I can't be a true slave or submissive because I have these facets to my personality simply don't understand the flexibility that I have. My submission is usually given to one specific person who inspires me to my knees and in other aspects of my life I'm a dominant, assertive woman - so I am interested in exploring the many facets of my personality.
I'm looking for a long term relationship with a dominant man who has the right combination of natural dominance, who understands what it means to own someone like me, who sees me as a treasured possession and partner, mixing vanilla life together with a power exchange.
I'm not interested in extreme humiliation or being treated as a worthless creature. Seduce my mind and the rest will follow.
I'm happiest when I'm submitting to a man who makes me feel safe and secure, who gets into my mind and sets me free through my submission.
Married men and those who cheat on their wives and vanilla girlfriends need not contact me as I wish to find someone who is single and is ready for a committed, mostly monogamous relationship - and I am looking for someone who is balanced, calm, trustworthy, loyal, honest and creative, who is looking to build a life with me and enjoy the vanilla things as well as the kinky things.
My Kinky History
I've been interested in BDSM since before I could even put a name to it. I used to play kidnapping games with my barbie dolls and they would always be made to become slaves. I was told about bondage when I was 12 and I duly explored my body by binding myself with old tights. I was the one in the playground telling fantastical stories, about being kidnapped and tied up and being made to be a slave, to my enthralled friends.
Once I got on to the internet I gradually found out more and more about this weird and wonderful lifestyle. I started to experiment and develop and found that I enjoy nothing more than submitting to someone completely in a sexual sense.
I was married for 10 years and in that time we explored and experimented but my ex husband, although a natural dom, wasn't into it as much as me.
So after my divorce (we didn't split because of that by the way) I decided to explore some more. I became involved in the local fetish clubs in Scotland and enjoyed meeting new people and being able to talk about things we had in common. I played with a few Doms and had some interesting experiences.
Then I moved to Turkey and didn't even realise that people were into this kind of thing here, what with sexuality being such a taboo... So there followed a series of one night stands and threesomes and a very dissatisfying relationship with a Turk who wanted to marry me but only if I lost all my weight (I know, I can't believe I stayed with him either).
Now I've discovered that there are people like me in Turkey, yaaay! Happy skippy dance :)
I took the test.. Quelle surprise, it says I'm submissive ;)
Submissive
100%
Experimental
86%
Masochist
82%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur
79%
Bondage
71%
Switch
54%
Sadist
36%
Vanilla
21%
Dominant
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