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Male Dominant, 44, Eugene, Oregon
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Female Submissive, 18, Montreal
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About Litchus059
Watching over my friend PLAAYTHING.
I have regrown my beard, so I will look like the photo from my DL that I have added. It was taken a couple of months ago, so it is very accurate. I can go with, or without a beard, but I have worn one my whole adult life, so I am growing it back out.
I am growing tired of the game players and phony women on this site, and others. I spoke with a very honest woman last night; we did not click, but it was a very honest exchange, and that is what I seek. If you cannot be honest, in both your statements about yourself, or your photos, do not waste my time. If you are honest, I will be happy to discuss any future opportunities with you.
I am not seeking a woman who needs to be beaten or tied up 24 hours a day. I want a real lifestyle, on a 24/7 basis, as the "Head of Household", with a sub/slave who wishes to serve on an obedient wife/daughter basis. I am seeking a 50's lifestyle, with a sub/slave who is looking to serve her Dom as a 50's "wife", or as a "daughter". I am not a violent Dom, or one who prefers whips, blades, etc., I am a man who takes the time to learn my sub, to teach her in a way that she can mold to in a long lasting submission to me. I do not seek someone whom I must whip, or beat into submission, I am looking for a long term submissive, or household slave, one who wants to serve me in our home, yet live a life of companionship and homelife. I will use corrective spanking, and if necessary, cropping, but I prefer to punish with my mind, and know how to make my point in a mental way. I want a woman that will feel free to talk with me, to explain her feelings and emotions, when I ask her to. I want to build a bond, a strength from the heart, and the mind, one that will build a long-lasting foundation for a solid relationship.
Are you willing to follow a psychic Master? I do have some psychic ability, and I can tell when I am being lied to, when I have someone in my presence.
These are the things that are important to me, in the life:
1. I am an old-school Dom/Master who is seeking a 50s kind of lifestyle with the right sub. I feel that it is necessary to live within the Trilogy of the life, to involve all three parts; the heart, the mind, and the body. I know how to punish harshly, without ever raising a hand.
2. Vanilla life is important in this kind of lifestyle, and it allows for a sharing of the mind and the heart, and it is necessary to spend time together in public situations to laugh and love as a normal couple. I am not one for limiting my life to just one aspect of it, I want to enjoy the warmth of the same body next to me, every morning, because of her love for me, and I will show her love, on my part, to maintain that devotion. But, I will always be in control, and if I use a single word, or give the look that will be recognized by my sub/slave, she will know that she is to immediately return under my control, regardless of where we are. I am not one for causing uncomfortable situations with family, or non-life individuals, so you would never have to worry about being embarrassed in front of family, or others, but you will seve me when, where, and how I want it, when I call you back to my control.
3. As with a 50s lifestyle, I will provide a nice home with all of the normal comforts, and I will take care of your daily needs. I have a secure, comfortable income, which will provide security. Your family would be welcome to visit at any time, and they would see a "normal" vanilla relationship and would never know about our private lives. I will expect that you keep the home clean and neat, that when requested, you will bathe me, and care for my bodily needs with an eagerness and submission that will show me, on a daily basis, that you serve me willingly. We will sit down and lay out a contract before any life together begins, and I will listen to your input as to what your limits are, and how you understand things are to be. Be clear; once you give me something, it belongs to me, and it is mine to use as I see fit, as long as I am aware of your bounderies, and your safe word.
4. Collars, branding, and possible marriage is something that has to be shown to me to be important to you. You will not receive any of the three until I see that you are serious enough, through your servitude to me, to continue on and never fail at serving me as a loyal and submissive part of my life. The collar will come first, but only when I see your deep need to wear it through your actions to me. It will be earned, and will not come cheap. Any sub who is collared because she simply wants it does not know the true value of wearing her Master's collar. And it is the same with branding, the tattoo of ownership, as it has to be the driving force of the sub to earn it, to work to prove to her Master that she is loyal and submissive enough to wear it. But, it is a detail of the relationship that will be used, only if both of us agree to it. And, if that loyalty and submission is strong enough to build and keep a family-style life, then marriage would be seriously considered. Everything in the life has to be earned, nothing will be given without good reason.
Those four conditions are important to me, as I know that they will build the basis of a strong, long-lasting LTR with the right sub. As to the physical side of the woman I seek, I want someone who will work to keep herself, and me, in good physical condition, and prefer women who are not excessively overweight. I am 6'3" tall, and weigh between 230 and 235 lbs., and I work to maintain my body at that size, so I want someone who wants to keep herself in, at least, an average size; weight in proportion to height. Bellies can be cute, as long as they are not overly excessive.
I like pets, and have a cat, and do like children, but any responsibility on my part must be discussed.
You must also like motorcycles, or understand that I will ride without you if you don't.
Age is not an important factor, if the right woman is truly submissive. But one in her late 40s, up, would probably be the most comfortable for me. If you are younger, and feel that this is the kind of lifestyle you seek, then contact me and we will discuss it.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask, I will answer all honestly. |
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I recently saw the movie "2012", the story of the "end of days" as written into the Mayan Calendar. Many people know little about the Calendar, but it chronicles a period from the past, long before the time of Jesus on the Earth, and it is very accurate in predicting periods of the future. Granted, it is always read by people who translate it in the way they read it but, when they translate future events, those events seem to happen as predicted.
That said; I think that it would be a good idea for every one of us to look at the prediction of the "End of Times" happening on December 12th, 2012 as being accurate. As to the movie, it is a rendition that follows the actions of the physcial plane as stated by one of the researchers who has predicted other events that came out exactly as predicted. Does that mean that our planet will wipe out every human being? No; it could simply mean that our way of life might make a serious change, one that could lead to more peaceful world, after some serious strife.
Then, why should we look at it as the "End of Times"? Very simple; as a combat vet, I have taken every day of my life, since the War, as my possible last day, and it made me live in a manner that allowed me to explore this country and share times with people who were good influences on me, and those who taught me that I need to be careful of whom I call "friend". And it has made my life interesting, and I have a life that I am pleased with, even with the troubles I have endured. So it would be a good idea if all of us look at the future as though we only have three years left, to find the happiness and love that will fill those three years with good memories and warm hearts! Don't waste another day looking for "perfection", as it is not out there; look for the one that you can be comfortable with, the one that will allow you the love and emotion you are seeking, as you may only have a short time left to enjoy it! And do enjoy it; don't sit around and complain for the rest of your life; live it! Then, if the whole idea of the "Mayan Calendar" is not what it is proposed to be, you will have three solid years of happiness and shared love, and you will be able to move on into the rest of your life with a strong relationship, and the partner you need!
Take a strong word of advice from one who knows exactly how short our lives can be, as I have seen my friends die in a split second; don't waste your life trying to find exactly what you are looking for, and miss all of the happiness that you could have had, if you hadn't been so picky! Open your heart and follow it's lead in finding someone who has imperfections, just as you do, and find the emotion you seek, and the heart that can fill yours with passion and love! |
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I recently saw the movie "2012", the story of the "end of days" as written into the Mayan Calendar. Many people know little about the Calendar, but it chronicles a period from the past, long before the time of Jesus on the Earth, and it is very accurate in predicting periods of the future. Granted, it is always read by people who translate it in the way they read it but, when they translate future events, those events seem to happen as predicted.
That said; I think that it would be a good idea for every one of us to look at the prediction of the "End of Times" happening on December 12th, 2012 as being accurate. As to the movie, it is a rendition that follows the actions of the physcial plane as stated by one of the researchers who has predicted other events that came out exactly as predicted. Does that mean that our planet will wipe out every human being? No; it could simply mean that our way of life might make a serious change, one that could lead to more peaceful world, after some serious strife.
Then, why should we look at it as the "End of Times"? Very simple; as a combat vet, I have taken every day of my life, since the War, as my possible last day, and it made me live in a manner that allowed me to explore this country and share times with people who were good influences on me, and those who taught me that I need to be careful of whom I call "friend". And it has made my life interesting, and I have a life that I am pleased with, even with the troubles I have endured. So it would be a good idea if all of us look at the future as though we only have three years left, to find the happiness and love that will fill those three years with good memories and warm hearts! Don't waste another day looking for "perfection", as it is not out there; look for the one that you can be comfortable with, the one that will allow you the love and emotion you are seeking, as you may only have a short time left to enjoy it! And do enjoy it; don't sit around and complain for the rest of your life; live it! Then, if the whole idea of the "Mayan Calendar" is not what it is proposed to be, you will have three solid years of happiness and shared love, and you will be able to move on into the rest of your life with a strong relationship, and the partner you need!
Take a strong word of advice from one who knows exactly how short our lives can be, as I have seen my friends die in a split second; don't waste your life trying to find exactly what you are looking for, and miss all of the happiness that you could have had, if you hadn't been so picky! Open your heart and follow it's lead in finding someone who has imperfections, just as you do, and find the emotion you seek, and the heart that can fill yours with passion and love! |
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Things have changed over the years; it seems as though some of the old traditions are not being followed as they used to be. It appears that the closeness of the life has become more, and more, about the individual needs of the parties involved, not the joined interests of the two, together. After talking to, and meeting some of the subs on this site, and listening to their stories concerning their relationships, I have come to believe that the mutual fulfillment of the life has gradually decreased to an entertainment form for those who don't want to take the time to develop a strong relationship.
I was told by several that they felt like they were being pushed by their Dom/Master into taking a collar from Him. It seems that, now, it is in the sub/slave's hands to decide when the time is right to wear a collar and, to me, that is wrong! A collar is the symbol of correct service, of total submission, of a sub who is so willing to please her Dom that she has gone to great lengths to prove to him how important he is to her. A collar is not a symbol of ownership, it is a symbol of submission, of the right kind of submission, and it should only be given by a Master when he can see that his sub has earned it! It is like a medal, the one thing that a sub can wear that will show all those who see it that she is extremely good at what she does! So good, that she received the reward of the collar from her Master, and that he takes great pride in seeing her wear it, so that others can see the great treasure he has in her devotion to him, her submission to his will. The collar, as with the brand, is a mark of achieving a much desired goal!
A true master will wait and watch his sub develop her life, her devotion to him, to feel an inner need to serve him with honor and emotion. He will take the time to ensure that she will continue to serve him, that it is not just a temporary "rush" of feelings, one that will fade away in time. He needs to see her eyes beg for it, he needs to see her actions prove her worth to him, and he needs to hear both her heart, and her mouth, speak of her need to wear his symbol of ownership. And, only when he is sure within himself that she is his, and will never pull back, does he let her wear his collar.
Despite what some think, the collar is always the property of the Master; it is his symbol, his way of marking what loyally belongs to him. And when given, it is given only to be worn, not kept, for as the sub can end a relationship with one word, the Master can end it by removing his collar, and taking it back into his possession. If it is no more than a gift, the need to gain its symbolism has already been achieved, and the drive to get it can wear down and disappear! But, if it is a matter of pride by the sub to be allowed to wear it, then she will continue to maintain that standard of honor through the same level of submission that gained her the award in the first place! No collar should ever be given in a manner that cheapens the value of the collars that were earned, and are still being earned, every day, by subs who know no limit in showing their Masters that they are, and always will be, his servant and loyal sub!
There is great meaning in attaining and keeping a collar for a sub, and only a true Master knows that she must constantly be aware of the deep meaning of his mark of control around her neck. And he must maintain the same standards that she used to earn his collar, to ensure that she never waivers in her service to him, in her efforts to keep that valuable symbol, as her mark of pride, around her neck. |
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