Some things I should spell out in black and white.

• NO men over the age of 40, my age to about a 10ish year variation is preferred but this depends on the individual. I want to go out on dates and don't want you to be mistaken as my uncle. Ladies I don't feel like age is as much of an issue. 
• No submissive men, I don't want to talk to your mistress and even thou it may need it I don't want you to clean my room.  
• NO married men, I don't want to be the cookie jar. Now if your married and your wife is into 3somes and there is a connection this is a different matter.
• Friend requests: this isn't myspace, I don't just want to be something you add to your profile. I don't accept them and will usually ignore you if you send one with out prior communication.
• Chat request: make my computer freeze and thus will be denid, nothing personal.