Hello,
I am on this site to find a local Man (Dom? Daddy? Perhaps a fellow submissive woman?) to help me learn about, express and nourish my submissive personality. I've come to understand this is more of a "hook up" site, but I've been having trouble finding what I need elsewhere. Perhaps what I need first is a Mentor. I am a submissive, masochistic babygirl. I don't have a "little", I'm not into ageplay, diapers or baby talk. My definition of a babygirl is a woman/girl who needs guidance, structure, a firm hand, attention and affection. I can also be a brat ;) I'm looking for a DaddyDom. Dominant first. But also Daddy.
I am married and have a family. No matter what, they come first. My husband and I have a polyamorous relationship and he knows that I am seeking and what I am looking for.
I won't be anyone's secret. If you are married or in a relationship and your wife/significant other doesn't know what you are doing on here, please don't contact me.
I most likely won't be posting any pictures of myself on here. If it comes to a point where I talk with someone and we both wish to meet in person, I have pictures available to share if necessary. (no naked ones)
What I need...
I need to serve.
I need to grow.
I need structure.
I need rules.
I need guidance.
I need attention.
I need to feel safe.
I need to feel scared sometimes.
I need physical pain.
I need aftercare. (cuddly and sexy)
I need understanding and patience. (as I am relatively new to this)
I need spiritual nourishment.
I need consistency.
I need a real life relationship, not an online one.
I need someone local to me. (no long distance)
I need regular time with my Dominant.
I need to know He'll watch out for me and protect me.
I need to know He'll punish me when needed.
I need to know He will respect my hard limits but help me push through soft limits.
I need to know He will not act out of anger, but love and respect.
I need Someone who will respect my family and understand they must come first.
I will not submit to someone I haven't met or feel submissive towards. If you insist on rules and 'Dom-ly' titles online that you haven't earned, you will not get them from me. I need face to face meetings (in a safe public place) before I could know if there was the right chemistry and attraction.
I suppose that's it for now. If my needs and yours mesh at all, please drop me a note. But please not a 'one liner'. If you have something of substance, something intelligent to say or ask, your message will be much better received :)
I've told you what I want, what do *you* want?
More to come...
Respectfully,
Lily
