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As a couple we are looking for an intelligent, loving friendship intertwined with a deep D/s relationship.

We are poly, poly experienced. Master has over 20 years experience in the lifestyle. I have close to 6 years. We are wholly devoted to each other as we seek to add to our poly family.

We would like a sister-slave and a slave boy.

The slave boy would be completely for my use and have no sexual interaction with Master other than basic saftey issues as I learn the physical aspects of play. I do, however, understand and am versed in the psychological aspects.

The sister-slave may or may not be included for my use. This depends on sexuality, personal dynamics and over all needs.

As you can see, we are not setting anything in stone. We are attempting to open the door to the possibilties. We have our needs and our potential slaves needs in mind.

The main concerns however are the poly aspect and the slave boys ability to deal with a new and owned dominant.

There is much, much more to be added and plenty to talk about as we explore. Honesty, communicaton and passion will get us there.

So, good luck to us all. May we find what we desire, wrapped in the package of sincere, caring and devoted D/s. ~lily
1/21/2009 4:16:32 PM
  You know, I've been in the lifestyle for some time now, a mix of on-line and real time. Added together we are looking at about 8 years total with close to 5 in real time.

  I bring this up because it amazes me that things have not really changed since I removed my self from most on-line interaction. I do have places I go that are fulfulling. I have some great on-line friends and adore them. Even so, not all waters are deep.

    Here, within hours of setting up my profile, I received a canned letter. Twice. I thought it amusing so I repsonded to the second one. I might have been too sarcastic, but you know how it feels to get a canned letter?

    I'm sure many of you do. He responded to me not really understanding what I meant in my initial response. I don't blame him for that. It was a sarcastic note. (Master thought it was funny.) Anyway, I explained to the said dominant that it's bad enough getting a letter meant for the masses, but to recieve it twice makes is worse. Not only are you just tossing out hooks for any ol' cunt to bite, you didn't even take note of them. (Not to mention my profile says I'm owned and not looking.)

    Of course, mr. dominant is pissy about it. I get that, too. Most people don't like to be rejected and then be told they were  a dolt to boot. 

    Though, I didn't call him names, just pointed out the lack of sincerity his contact had.

    You know, I know there is a lot of pussy to be had around here. I know the allure of slave cunt. I know that there are plenty newcomers who will hop at the chance to serve ANYBODY. I know what sub fever feels like. I know what wanting a slave of your very own feels like.

    What I have never done though is treat my partners as if they were as interchangable as my socks. I never approach a slave or dominant without having thought about it, without having read that person's profile, without considering that person as unique to my life.

    Master and I will someday look to expand our  household. When we do, we will be looking for relationships with depth, relationships that are meant to last and enrich all involved. Sure, we like to play. Sure I wouldn't mind taking a sweet cunny home for the evening, but even then she will know the terms. She will understand our intentions.

    Well, a rant for a fist entry. Not great, but I can deal.  ( I guess, so can you.) ;)

A note to said dom: Take my advice, really. You will get more pussy that way.