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| I am looking for a deeply submissive woman or man who has always been appreciative of dominant women. She/ he has to have her own equipment or aquire some soon for play. My pic is on my profile so do provide one when responding to me. My desire to be served and obeyed in all aspects of a relationship. I'm not a lez, I am bi and so I'm not looking for for a master as the only who is gonna be dominate in this relationship is me. I think female led relationships are the natural order; though I often find I'm alone in my thinking among modern women. It's just nice to know there are women out there - like me - who prefer to take the lead with a woman. Here's something I'd like to do: Without fanfare, go to a public place - probably a cafe - professionally dressed, sublimely groomed and sit by myself watching you wearing an unobtrusive slender black collar around your neck. I doubt much will come of this minor experiment but if a someone asks why are you wearing a collar; share who are and who owns you, what u believe and the style of F/F or F/M relationship I'm hopeful of finding. We'll see.
I demand total obedience and utmost respect. You will come when I beckon, depart when you are dismissed. I am not interested in your wants, desires, feelings, thoughts and so on. It is not yours that matter, it is mine. I am only interested in those who will hear my command, reply immediately "Yes Mistress" and perform/submit to my needs and desires. No comments, no backtalk, no suggestions. Think long and hard about whether you truly posesess the internal discipline to serve in this manner to only me. When I give you a command, any hesitation or disobedience on your part will be immediately punished -- hard slap to the face, swift blow from my crop, devastating kick to your balls, whatever I feel like. Any second occasion will result in dismissal.
If I find you attractive I may on occasion choose to bend you over or have you serve orally on your knees, but I don't ever want to hear you bring that up, ever, not even in your message to me. If you think there might ever be an orgasm lurking in your future, think again. In fact, if the spirit moves me, you should be able to be sent on your way in a chastity cage and no guarantee when it might come off, unless i take it off for my pleasure and only mine, so you had best not be involved with anyone else behind my back. Reply with pics when ontacting this ad and please send me contact info as i am not into back and forth emails. I also would like to know what experiences that you may have and toys or equipment you do come with.
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The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?
| B&D - Bondage and Discipline, A little of each. |
How do you identify?
How big of a role does BDSM play in your life?
| I'm new to BDSM had a few slave but here to find a new one. |
How many years of experience do you have?
How many years of experience would you like your partner to have?
What factors are most important to you when looking for a partner?
| Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Honesty and trustworthiness, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Personality and how we get along outside of play, A little of each |
Would you be interested in scenes/play with multiple partners?
| The more the merrier!, I'm also a swinger. Only with another couple that my partner and I know well., I wouldn't be opposed to bringing in a third to participate., I'm okay with a shared room with other couples, no swapping., I've never tried multiple partners, but I'm open for discussion. |
Do you believe in using safe words/signals?
| Yes, they are crucial to BDSM play. |
Do you believe in using contracts to have a written agreement (non-legally binding) that states what both partners are committed to doing during play or a scene?
| It depends on what my instincts tell me about a partner or situation. |
Where do you stand on being under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol during play?
| Being drunk is not a good idea, but some drugs enhance the experience. |
What fetish and/or BDSM props have you used or do you wish to bring into play?
| Sextoys (vibrators, dildos, etc.), Leather cuffs, Blindfolds, Food, Leather, Rubber, Latex, Panties/Lingerie/Nylons, Electric toys |
What type of scene activities are you active in or would you be interested in exploring?
| Bondage, Body worship, Piercing, Depilation/Shaving, Hair pulling |
What type of roles have you played or would you be interested in exploring?
| Cop/Prisoner, Doctor/Patient, Master/slave, Nurse/patient, Married Spouse/maid, houseboy is a + |
Have you ever videotaped or taken pictures during a sexual encounter or scene?
| I've taken and been in a few naughty photos. |
Have you ever had cybersex?
| No way, I only want it in person. |
What toys do you enjoy using for insertion/penetration?
| Dildos/Vibrators, Anal/Climax beads, Ben Wa balls, Clit stimulators, Strap-ons, Fruits/veggies |
What food items have you used in play?
| Whipped cream, Good 'ol ice, Cucumbers, Bananas, Breath mints |
How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?
| There is nothing better than oral |
What are your thoughts on anal play?
| I enjoy anal play, but not always. |
What's your take on fisting?
| It would really depend on the level of trust between my partner and I. |
What other channels have you used to find out more about BDSM?
| The Internet, Porn Movies |
Are you involved with the BDSM Community in your area?
What's your take on BDSM/dungeon parties (private home or public club)?
| I can't find any in my area. |
Where do you buy your props and toys?
What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?
| Fetish, Lesbian/Women only, Anal sex, Busty women D/p |
How do you enjoy your porn?
| I watch porn with my partner. It gets us revved up for a scene. | |
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