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Ouch Master.......Happy Anniversary! Hurt sooooo good... |
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MERRY CHRISTMAS.....BLESSED BE..... A good Master takes care of his slave completely on all levels all the time. And I am thankful that I have a wonderful Master who has been my everything for the last 5 1/2 years. That is the best gift I could ever ask for....;)) |
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Great time with Master.....the knee injury makes it challenging at times. Sent some homemade venison potpies home with him.....yummy.... |
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Wow it's been 5 yrs. with Master! :)))) |
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Supporting my Master during a family illness is very important to me. Luv ya Master... |
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Mean People....just not that endearing of a quality. I don't even have the energy to deal with them.. I will walk away. Hurtful... shows alot of disrespect.
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The past few weeks have been devoted to the domestic wench work. I am a professional by day and as soon as I hit the door at home I turn into the domestic wench....So I just finished making homemade tomato sauce... I mean several bushels of roma tomatoes processed and canned. Anyone like zucchini bread? Master is on his way and the beer is cold....smile |
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Had a great time with Master at the Ren Festival this past weekend. Very relaxing and alot of freaks like me there... although I do look very innocent and normal... who knew a lil freak was inside??? LOL |
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Are there any Pagans out there willing to talk to me about their religion??? I was raised in a Freemasonry Home. |
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Busy summer. Just wanted to thank my Master for taking good care of me and my girls and my 2 dogs. It is a big job but he always finds a way...I wish we had some privacy for some playtime, Maybe soon,,,,,begging.. |
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I think I need a safe word for when I am at my emotional limits...not physical but emotional limit. Do any other subs do this?? Master thinks "SORE BUTT" would be a good one.... I don't agree....LOL It seems I get into trouble when I am pushed past my limits. I get disrespectful and question things asked of me or I don't hop right to it. So any input from the D/s community would be helpful. Send me your opinion... thanks, kt |
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OK>>>>> if a Dom has a huge laundry lists of requirements that sends up a red flag that he is not very good. WHY? well the basics have to be there I agree. However, no one is perfect and if you seek that... it is going to be a never ending search. As a Dominant can you take the basics you desire and train and mold your sub to serve you? Now that is the difference between a Dominant and a Master.  |
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I like to read profiles because it is entertaining.... "I have a dominant personality and want to be sub..." HMMMM well ... Well try a weekend bottom position for play Don't be dissappointed if the slave training doesn't work out. You can't fight nature people. You can't be something you aren't. You can be trained but this doesn't change your basic personality. Training only refines and enhances what God gave you. |
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Waiting for Master so I can wait ON Master.....3 LONG WEEKS.... may I emphasize LONG.... |
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A Great Weekend with MY Master and my family. Well actually Master is part of my familly. Everything has worked out very well on that level. Time for bed... tired after cooking all day yesterday...I was the Kitchen Wench. I hope Master was pleased with all his goodies!! Thanks for the beautiful Easter Lily!!!!! He knows he has me totally!!!!! |
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Master and I are in opposites on most levels. What makes our relationship work is that we both care, are honest, believe in family, have good work ethics and most importantly accept and respect one another as we are....the imperfections included. Master is a realist. I am an idealist. Our basic values about life are the same which is a nice foundation. We like getting to the same things but go opposite routes. He looks at situations from a different vantage point. He appreciates my complete devotion to him. I am true blue. We have been through alot together these last 4 years... and I wouldn't have done it with any other MAN. ;)))) |
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I am in love with the person, My Master. He truly takes care of me in all ways and has a wicked sense of humor. I have seen his love, experienced his disappointment in me, suffered his wrath and punishment, and shared alot of special time with him, seen his happiness when I serve him well and anticipate his needs and wants. Thank-you Master!!! |
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WOW it has been awhile ....I have been busy with family obligations. Master is presently in Africa climbing Killimanjaro. OHHH there goes my blood pressure... worry... Our 4 year anniversary is approaching. I cannot imagine life without serving him. I am very content with him. I hope he is just as happy with me.Sometimes I believe in the impossible and somehow it comes true. So my motto is..."Achieving starts with believing..." ;)))) |
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I remember in 4th grade... rushing home from school going into the dark basement, keeping the lights off, sitting on the floor and turning on "Dark Shadows." I hate horror or slashem up flicks BUT..... vampire shows have always had me.. All vampire shows since have bored and disappointed me....until TRUE BLOOD.... score a homerun!! I am not in vampirism but boy does this show have it all. I did have a Dom once who would what I call " work my neck over." It was the only thing that could get me dripping pronto and just take me away.. it must be all those nerve endings in my neck...LOL |
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All the chicks are back in the nest. And this is one HAPPY woman. THanks Master for standing by me during the happy, sad, good and ugly. I beat the odds and I honestly believe KARMA RULES. Happy inside and out now. TIME to get back to somr good ole D/s baby! |
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Taking care of personal business that is urgent but will be back in a few weeks. Master is super supportive as always...:)))) |
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I really can only function in a D/s type of relationship. I feel grounded, secure and happy when I have a Master and I am serving him. Otherwise I get frustrated and out of my comfort zone. I left the vanilla man world about 9 years ago...actually I ran and never looked back...LOL |
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Waiting on and waiting for Master.... that's what I do. smile |
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I love Master very much but he forgets that he isn't 20 years old!! IF he were, we would be having sex 10 times a day and I know he could withstand a hike up Killamangero!! BE REAL MASTER>>> someone give him a dose of reality.... please. I am not going to give up the best thing I ever had for a premature heartattack. IF he goes... he should be on me! |
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Vacation..... time off of work!!!! Just relaxing at home for a week with my Master. Catching up on all the things I usually don't have time for.
Taking care of my new puppy.... Half golden retriever/half lab adopted from the pound. She is a sweetheart! |
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I am collared... and very happy with my Master for 3 1/2 years. I haven't been here much... WHY?????? because I am busy taking care of him... serving him and enjoying every minute of the short summer. Doms..please be respectful and do not try and start anything with me. Have some fucking common sense.... If I am a worthy sub... trustworthy and loyal... I won't be talking to you or anyone else!!!  |
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I am mostly organic and now making the move toward 100% Organic. I am committed to living a very healthy lifestyle and reaping the benefits now and later.....  |
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FInally Master and I will have some alone time this weekend... I cannot wait! Should I be bad to get what I want????????? |
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 There are some places I just don't go. Lines I don't cross and temptations that I just realize are like biting the apple in the garden of eden.... Most people I find are always looking for the easy golden ticket and to them life is greener on the other side. Lessons I have learned.... Be happy with what you have... live today to the fullest and stop spending so much time coveting what everyone else has. And remember... your text messages could end up on the front page of the newspaper...wink
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I never had a collar of consideration. It reminded to much of a vanilla engagement and didn't seem to really mean much when you get down to it. Just a thought.... |
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If you hate women and have no use for them beyond sex, then hire a prostitute. If you are too cheap to do that then even sex isn't really valuable to you. IF you have to go back to earlier days and bragg about all the women you have fucked and dumped... then your life presently is pretty emty. Find a hobby or take an antidepressant. But why waste your time here??? Seems pointless. |
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Master made me a wonderful Mother's Day Breakfast yesterday. Under neath that rough tough man lies a heart of gold! OHHH sshhhhh don't tell anyone. |
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Craving surrender and relinquishement of it all to him....Miss you Master XXOO |
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What happened to Spring??? 32 degrees last night just doesn't cut it!!! |
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Submissives who are collared depend on their Dominant for many things and trust them on a very deep level. When a Dominant is careless with his submissive and her feelings it can crush trust that took a very long time to build. Because D/s relationships are very intense and on some levels fragile. |
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Service becomes the things you do for another without being told and somethimes without even consciously thinking about it..... or is that just good training?? |
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OK.... DO not take a picture of yourself in a granny housedress... it is NASTY.... I couldn't believe I saw that one. Even if the Dom is blind, he still senses IT is a GRANNY dress. LOL |
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I hope I am his "forever" moment in time instead of just "A" moment in time..... think on that one. |
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Thank-you Master for always being there for me and taking such good care of me on all levels.
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I am in a personal situation that requires me to be Dominant. So Master is trying his hardest to redirect my submissiveness to a more dominant approach for this situation. It really doesn't feel natural or normal and goes against my comfort zone. Actually I am not doing very well in my DOM101 course. And I doubt I can ever be a switch. I am confident and successful in my job and react well in stressful situations. But nontheless I still am not Dominant in my career world. People can learn some dominant behaviors but you cannot change someone's personality or overall demeanor, their frame of mind or the paradigm they operate from. GO SUBS!! |
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Familytime...tryingtimes...longing for Mastertime and slavetime.....where is the Springtime? Sillygirl today |
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I love sex and I would never do well in a poly situation... I mean if he has multiple slaves then someone goes without. (and that wouldn't be me....LOL) just a random thought |
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It is so easy to have fun and be Master/slave when things are just going along with a few daily bumps in the road. What really shows the love is when you run across life's potholes. Well in the last year I have run across life's grand canyon and he is steady and strong. No matter what.. he seems to still be there, taking care of "US." hmmmmm |
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Sometimes it is elements unnamed, uncategorized, difficult to pinpoint but the entire atmosphere of caring that deepens your love for your Master. My Master made me laugh this weekend and it was the best medicine for his girl. Sometimes he is soooo funny and I can't believe what spills out of his mouth spontaneously. He can be a bad boy but such a Great Man. |
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TIP: IF you have an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours.... WAIT... call 911 after 3 hours and 59 minutes>>>>>>LMAO |
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There is never enough time with my Master. It goes by soooo quickly. We are bonded on levels I had always hoped we would be. He is very supportive and takes excellent care of me. THANKS MASTER!!! |
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I pampered my Master this weekend! I hope he enjoyed it...(hope your stump is feeling better..LOL) And he knows how to treat me FINE! Nice weekend and ohhh so sorry that his arm is sore! I will try to improve on the memory next time. (that was just crazy!)  |
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Roses are red, violets are blue, I love to be spanked and flogged and fucked up the ass too!!!
HAPPY VD DAY MASTER!!!! |
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OK... now what it wrong with this sentence? Straight dominant who has a male submissive who likes to service him orally? IF you have a male submissive giving you blow jobs... COME OUT OF THE CLOSET !!!! It amazes me the depth of denial that some people experience these days.... even on this site. By the time you get to this site.... you should know who you are sexually. yikes!!! |
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Master and I will celebrate our 3 year anniversary soon!! Thank-you Master for all you do for me and collaring me! I love serving you and I am what I am today because of your guidance, mentoring, advice and ALOT of patience!  |
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Missing Master....been busy at home but still have that "missing him feeling." I love the weekends but when we aren't together it just drudges by......boo hoo |
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My desire to serve and please my Master has really increased these last 6 months.... it is hard to believe our 3 year anniversary is approaching!!! It just keeps getting better.... I love my TIVO MASTER!!! |
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BRRRRRR>>>>>My fireplace has a roaring fire going and I am not moving my butt one inch from this room! Should have stayed in Key West! |
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Thank-you to the hacking lady on the airplane who generously spread her germs into the recirculating ventilation system. I am bringing a mask to wear next time with a damn hepa filter on it!! Yack... cough.... yack... cough.. time for my antibiotics! |
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Why do I listen to my Master? I trust his advice and counsel to make the best decisions for me. And if I don't, he will whip my ass! lol Master knows I have a sassy side. IT is actually not a disrepectful part of my personality. It is my independent side that is just a part of me. It will probaly never go away but now is tamed. Master helped me through a difficult time this past weekend and helped me do something unpleasant. I am sad about my loss. Life is about change and acceptance of those changes. One door has been shut forever but I see another in front of me... will it open? |
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Dear Master.... I loved that lapdance from that cutie!!! "IF EVERYONE CARED" by Nickleback says it all today. This cold sucks and I hope I feel better by the weekend. Thank-you Master for getting my collared repaired. |
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An incredible week alone with my Master. FUN FUN and more relaxing FUN! From the cute sub/slave.... |
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I am off to Key West with my Master for a vacation. A great way to start out 2008! We found a lifestyle leather shop there to have my leather collar repaired. I guess you could say SUNSHINE SLAVE BOOTCAMP! He's gonna break me I think...LOL |
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Wonderful Christmas Holiday week with Master and my family. OHHH and Master Santa was very good to me! I was informed that as of January 1st I am entering "Slave Bootcamp." HELP ME>>>>>LOL A slave he wants and only He can make the slave he desires.. smile |
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 Dear Santa Master, ohhhh I have been a good little girl this year (most of the time) and .... ohhh let me sit on your lap so I can talk to you. THere.. there... let me get comfortable and find the right spot. PERFECT.. Ohhh now your face is getting rosy Santa Master. Are you hot? Ohh let me help you get that heavy Santa Master Suit off... off it goes. NOW what was I saying? Oh yes... I have been such a good little girl this year... well I have WANTED to be the best little girl this year. Do intentions count??? My aren't you a wiggly Santa Master. he he Are you listening Santa Master? But... I am not finished Santa Master but it seems we are on the floor now. Do you want to hear my Christmas list? OHH I guess not...... MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL THE SANTA MASTERS OUT THERE!!!! |
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Refecting back on 2007... I am content with all I have. When I can trust someone so completely as I do my Master, I have alot of contentment. Lessons Learned: Family is not necessary defined by blood or legal marital bonds. This year my biggest realization was that Master is my family in every way. It doesn't matter where he is....if there is any problem or even good news... who do I call first without hesitation... Master. I believe we are closer than I ever thought possible. I know he will take care of me as he has proved that time and time again. Family....the reason for the season....Blessed Holiday to ALL |
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I am not hard to handle just alot to handle...LOL Right Massa??? |
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Submission is a mindset. When I wake up in the morning, I have three questions. What can I do to serve my Master or please him in some way? What can I do today to enhance a healthy lifestyle physically, emotionally, and financially? What can I do to help someone else who truly needs it? At the end of the day, I review this... some days I do well and some days I do not. I am not perfect. But my heart is loving and giving. |
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Does Financial Domme=someone who takes your money until you are broke? There should be a separate website for this. Who invented that category anyway?? |
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 Please stop this torturous Michigan weather. I know we have alot more of it to go. HELP! OHHH wait only 3 more weeks until I am in Key West. What a relief.... and a sure way to keep my sanity!   |
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 Well it's time to admit I was disrespectful in word this weekend. Of course Master I will accept my punishment. I apologize again.     |
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HAPPY HOLIDAYS to all. I wish for all a peaceful and healthy 2008! And to all that are looking for that wonderful "match", may you find your one towards happiness.
MERRY CHRISTMAS! |
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Master is has been an honor to serve you and wear your collar. I have given myself over to you completely. At times I am totally vulnerable. Your honesty is brutal at times but necessary. I know you want me to be the best person I can be. Your protection of me is one of the things I cherish. I would not be fulfilled without being able to serve you and take care of your needs. We have come so far.... farther than I could have imagined myself going. It is worth every second. Thank-you for your support and guidance. You are my everything! Merry Christmas and may 2008 be even better! Your submissive???slave??? lilserver |
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I am always amazed at the depth my Master cares for me... he takes care of things on ALL levels. I would say a " holistic Master". hmmm ...is that new terminolgy?? Remember you heard it here first. Still under the weather today. |
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Sick today with Bilateral ear infection. I have never claimed to be a journalist or even close as my talents lie elsewhere. This is just an outlet. I mean... who can a sub run to during the day to talk about their Master or the lifestyle issues that arise? I certainly cannot vent to my vanilla coworkers or friends...LOL This is just the best conduit at the moment for expression. |
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Let me say.... submissive doesn't equate to agreeing to everything posted by others. If you are a dominant who wants a mindless slut there are those out there... just not me. And for those inexperienced or insecure Dominants... that's exactly what they seek... some sub who knows nothing. As long as my Master approves... I need no other approval. AND I WILL REPEAT MYSELF>>>> GO BUCKS!!!!!!!!!!! #1 |
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A Master asks in his profile if the sub wants to be "collared for a night." That is just ridiculous... it makes about as much sense as saying... hey ya wanna be married for the night? Still shaking my head ...... More later |
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I have been there a long time ago....and I am ready to go back there... for a visit to subspace>> What gets me there is lying on the bed tied to it and about an hour of very rhythmic flogging... with nice crescendos of pain......PLEASE !!! |
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I was reading on one of the message boards trying to learn or just be aware of others in the lifestyle. I am not Gorean but it was an interesting read. I understand the whole goal of the Gorean slave is to be pleasing to her Master. As just a plain ol' submissive from the "other" side, my goal is to serve my Master. I believe that in itself is pleasing to him. I guess I don't understand the whole big distrinction with the Gors. As far as being a slave...I always see that as a goal...and in many ways he has that control over me now. I really live for his approval...and I want to serve him. Time will tell..... |
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A nice week with Master.... great food ( prepared by me of course) and just time for US to be together. Thank-you Master for all you do for me!! |
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THe online Master professes to be experienced with a livein slave.... and he wants another to augment his household. He will keep you as long as you please him. HMMM Sometimes I do not please my Master but I know I am owned and he will deal with my behaviour. I will not be discarded easily because we had a bad day. That is NOT committment. IF any augmentation is going to take place in my Master's home... I hope it is breast implants for me.....LMAO |
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"Discretion" really means.... the person is married or supposedly committed to someone who doesn't know they are seeking another. It really means "deception" but not wanting to advertise oneself as a liar. |
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I am at a point of feeling completely safe with my Master. He seems to push my limits ever so slightly all the time... it is subtle and he probally thinks I am not aware.... I AM. Amazing how being with the right person can slowly melt those limits. And believe me.. it took a long long time for me to come to this level of trust and comfort. |
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I think the term "slave" is WAY overused on this site: oral slave, financial slave, domestic slave, fuck slave, anal slave and the list goes on. Somehow I think people try to present a situation in a more palatable or pleasing way. Remember years ago when the word "engineer" was added to any job to make it sound more appealing. I mean a waste engineer is still a trashman... plain and simple. I do not believe that by the meer fact that you preform a certain "act" that you should be categorized as a slave. Just food for thought today. Enjoy the beautiful afternoon. |
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Submissive is not equal to stupid and doesn't mean "take advantage or prey" on someone. Unfortunately many subs learn this the hard way. Get a mentor or something to help you learn safe, sane and consensual BDSM practices. |
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My Master is a my best friend, my confidant, the shoulder I seek to cry on, the one who makes me laugh, the one I miss, the one I crave, the one I respect and adore, the one who gives me pleasure and pain, the one who I can be myself with, the one with that charming smile that melts my heart. HE IS THE BEST MASTER!!!! |
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There are so many different levels of BDSM for a Master/sub/slave to explore. This weekend we finally traveled to the rough sex side...and let's keep going Master. Next time I might resist to add a little spice...wink... |
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Busy this weekend with my Master. |
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Well I am not happy. WHen another submissive.... solange has assumed WAY too much and has blocked me. I take offense. I try to stay neutral and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. SHE NEVER gave me the opportunity to discuss anything. In fact I had no idea her screen name was her. I emailed her not knowing....and her action of blocking me when I have done nothing is just plain irritating and now maybe Tom was right all along.... or why would she block me???? hmmm |
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Crossing that line from submissive to slave is precarious. Especially when you are very comfortable in the "sub" role. On one hand you want to please your Master and be what he wants and on the other hand you may be afraid of disappointing him if you are not "slavely" enough... hmmm is that even a word? |
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TRICK OR TREAT??? Enjoy....... |
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Master and I have a very very strong bond. I would do anything for him. That is how much I want to please him. I respect him totally. He takes such good care of his property. |
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So if you have the spreader bar on how can you wiggle a little bit to avoid those wrap around strokes with the flogger???? OHHHH you say it is impossible Master... yikes! |
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I just read a profile and the submissive has limits... no giving oral sex and no anal!!!!! OK JUST GO BACK TO THE VANILLA WORLD girlfriend!! POOF..... run.... |
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Being submissive is a mindset. I would never "take" a collar. I was offered my Master's collar after he felt I had earned it during 1 1/2 yrs of service. NOTE that is NOT 1 1/2 hours, days, weeks or months...YEARS. That is why I value it so much. I want him to know... I am in it for longterm. When you respect someone... you wait. Although I must admit I was getting a little antsy after the one year mark. Patience is not my foremost quality. |
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He told me to lube my ass up... so I did. Then after I had eased my ass onto his member and things were done.... he smiles and says he said nothing about anal just to lube my ass up. NOW WHAT WOULD YOU THINK? Why else would you lube up... hmmm |
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A nice weekend with Master. Tender ass and I will say no more...wink...More later. |
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What a gorgeous day it turned out to be...so I won't be on here much. Time to take my dog for a nice long walk. |
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Do Masters get bored with obedience and good girls who follow the rules? I don't get disciplined much... about once a year or so. WHY?? Well, I am not a brat, I don't play head games with Master and my last discipline/punishment was enough pain & humiliation (which I don't like) and remains fresh in my mind. He has a nasty leather strap that he named "MR. HAP".... short for happy. I try to keep my relationship with Mr. Hap very limited! Plus the worst thing is to know I fucked up to the point I have to be disciplined... that in itself is humiliating. I like to serve and I live to please him..... |
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Usually I feel guilty if I hurt someone's feelings because I inherently always want to help others... but not at the expense of being honest I won't do that anymore. SO.... I know there may be one good lawyer out there in BDSM Land and to that ONE out there....I hope you are the exception. I hope you care for your clients and their feelings and really want to help them. I hope you set an example for your profession AS I DO FOR MY PROFESSION. I genuinely care for others.....I don't have to be told who the VIP patients are because it doesn't matter... everyone is treated equally as important. And their income level is NOT a factor. |
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I totally dislike lawyers.... in my experience they are the slime masquerading as professionals lying to your face and cashing those retainers like addicts using cocaine. Well too hard to hold back those feelings... you attorneys know this is true and I know you really don't care. That is my point... you don't care. I also HATE spiders by the way.... not sure how this came into play.. random negative thoughts...LOLOL |
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MASTER IS HOME and this weekend has been perfect. When it is right... it is RIGHT!!!!! |
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The most important thing to me is how Master runs things between us. It is the quality time we have together. How involved one is in "the BDSM community" isn't has significant as how the dominant runs his home. I have lived 24/7 in the past and felt most fulfilled in that role. There were less transitions, more continuity for me as a sub. I believe it helps step the D/s power exchange up to a truer level. IMHO.... |
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Master is stuck in Amsterdam and I am impatiently waiting for him to get a flight out!!!! I cannot take this any longer......!!!! |
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Dominants for the most part take what they want sexually without hesitation. That is why it is important to find a dom that likes the same things sexually that the submissive does. I dated one dom who hated to eat pussy.... any pussy.. ohh he had some other weird "don't do's" also. But to think I would live my life without that.... hmmm well needless to say I am damn happy we are not together today and so is my pussy....LOL |
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Just coasting til Master returns...I wish I could have had more contact with him while he was away. It gave me a chance for some alone time and an opportunity to think about alot of things. The timing of his trip was probally the worst it could have been after the recent death of a loved one. So I just had to deal with things all by myself. |
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When the weather cools down....having the fire going in the fireplace, standing in front of it and hearing the sound and rhythmic beat of the flogger, feeling the bite .... going into subspace ...feeling Master's hands on me and having him take me on the floor in front of the fire.... hmmm ONLY 5 more days until Master returns. |
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IF submission is a gift then is dominance also a gift? Do dominants hold back the gift until the submissive is trusted and worthy? See how this line of logic doesn't work... in my humble opinion submission is not a gift.. being submissive describes me. Period |
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Beautiful day..... Perfect weather... am I in Michigan or is this a dream? Listening to Tina Arena, "Chains" because I miss Master. |
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OK now I am a bit confused. I read a profile and the experienced 20 year old said she had a "Master" but she decides what she does and who she sees. She has the final word. I am wondering what kind of training program she signed up for..and does she get a framed certificate from the School of Online Submission at the end of her 4 week course. Hmmm well I don't think my Master even knows about this school and I doubt he is going to allow me to enroll... darn I was looking for an emty spot on the wall for my genuine certificate of completion deeming me WANNABE SUB of The Year...wink |
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Today I listened to vanilla women bitch, moan and complain about their vanilla men. I was almost peeing my pants laughing because it has been almost 10 years since I left the vanilla personal life forever behind. And I CANNOT imagine being concerned, bothered or focused on any of those things. She said.." my husband thinks I should work and cook for him and I told him if he wants clean clothes, he knows where the damn washer is."... ohhh I guess a blowjob on your knees and then kissing his feet may be too much to ask of her also..LMAO missing kneeling before Master and serving him a nice cold brewskie after I remove his work shoes..... |
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Master is demanding at times but I now see that all he has done has made me not only a better sub but a better person. I am truly appreciative of everything he has given me... but the most important thing he has given me.. the most precious gift is TIME. He always has time for me... time to listen, time to talk, time to play, time to solve problems, time in personal crisis.... time.....It has solidified our bond more than any other factor. Ohh he would say.... time to train... smile |
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I decided I had better get the large jumbo value pack of AA lithium batteries from Sam's Club for my "rabbit." God... this is going to be a long two weeks. Hurry home Master. wink... |
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Well, Master has been gone 4 days and only 13 more to go... I miss talking to him every day. I miss his daily guidance. One of my relatives that I do not particularly like said to my gram .... he seems controlling of her. I asked my gram if Master appeared that way to her. She said no, he was just like my grandpa was years ago. Hmmmm probally why she LOVED my Master...LOL I said to gram... yes he is controlling and I like that..wink. EVERYONE in my family is submissive... men, women, children, dogs...LOL There isn't a dominant gene that has surfaced. Everyone in my Master's family is predominantely Dominant. And I mean VERY DOMINANT. smile |
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When I need a chuckle I can always find a profile on here to give me that......PLEASE subs if you really think you will look at your Master one time and know he is "THE ONE," I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but REAL D/s relationships are WORK>>>> YES, like anything worthwhile in life, it takes work even with 2 people who are a good match on all levels. Calling him "Master" doesn't suddenly turn your life into a fairytale ending. OK....I am ready for bed.... |
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I love the show...THE OFFICE. That is my type of humor. I LOVE: Twizzlers when I am stressed, cooking everything from scratch, golden retrievers ( I have a sweet submissive one), warm Fall days, my career on most days is challenging and fullfilling, white roses and violets, living in the mountains near a lake, horsebackriding, my neck kissed, traveling, a good rhythmic flogging, my Master calling me babydoll..... |
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Lessons Learned years ago: If a Dominant or Submissive "cheats" that is a deal breaker. If you are unhappy with your Dominant and feel it is not working, then go him, kneel and asked to be released. PERIOD. Then go on and pursue whatever. If you want to be respected as a submissive then ACT LIKE IT!! Because even if your dominant may not have acted respectfully toward you... you have to leave RESPECTFULLY. Yes even full of anger and hurt. And believe me... if it is over, this will be his last impression of you. Do you have it in you?? Don't turn back because cheating is a deal breaker. Don't fool yourself into trying to go back... because you will be a fool in the other's eye's... Who has topped who?? |
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What my Master has done for me: He says what is going to do and does what he says..... not sometimes, EVERYTIME. Predictability provides stability. Stability makes me feel safe. I know what he expects and desires. I love to please him. He is responsible in financial obligations,job and in his outside relationships with others. He provides for all my needs and many of my wants without much discussion. He has a wicked sadistic streak at times that endears me. He is strong and a man's man. He can make me laugh and make me cry just as fast. He helps me be the best he believes I can be. Master... I will miss you while you are away on your trip and these are all the reasons why... your devoted subbie |
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IT has been brought to my attention that there are other Dominants from Northern Michigan named ED. I wish to offer my apologies to them for any problems my post may have caused. If you have any questions, email me. By the way... the man (predator) in question pulled his profile off collarme pretty damn fast after reading my post. Again my apologies to the other Eds out there! |
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One of the worst dominants I ever encountered was from Northen Michigan... I will call him ED. He put my health in jeopardy and was not safe, and sane in his BDSM practices. He used this site as a medium to lure single mothers with young teenage daughters to satisfy his incest fantasies. He was clever and manipulative. He was not a dominant just a liar. My advice.... References are not a bad idea. It was the single worst experience by far and I learned alot. That was about 4 years ago...It took alot of searching to find my current Master. Actually it was like finding a needle in a haystack..... BE SAFE OUT THERE |
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TO MY BELOVED MASTER, The respect I hold for you is beyond words. You have taken care of me in every way. Your strength through my family illness has been my foundation. I am proud to serve you.
Respectfully, your subbie |
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I believe that most can be trained to serve another's needs and desires. To cater to a person's preferences and wants is not really difficult. Time is the only necessity... time to learn what the Dom wants and requires. What is not so common place is delivery with style and some class. Service is what a dominate demands and expects. However it is the innate submissiveness that cannot be learned that captures his heart. He will be happy with service but satisfied only with a true submissive. |
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I MISS MY MASTER... I NEED MY MASTER.... nothing more to say today! |
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I watched a very inspiring show the other night. It really got me thinking about my goals... things I want to do and have not.....and sometimes you just have to DO IT and try new and challenging things. You can tell this show left an impression. I am not going to go through life aimlessly accepting the leftovers. Being submissive doesn't mean boring.... |
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I will try to accept what Masters offers on a daily basis.... no matter how big or small and to be content with that. 
I will concentrate on what I have to offer HIM.
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Yes my Master felt I needed a slight attitude adjustment.... PLEASE NOTE.... I am completely adjusted Master and look forward to serving you in a few days.... |
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A real Master... is mature enough to see the whole picture. He realizes that in order to have that incredible level of service, he must free her mind of what occupies it...so he becomes the center of her thoughts night and day. He helps her to become her best so she can feel good about herself and have a positive attitude. When the submissive has things in her life in order then she can focus everything towards HIM. I am happy that my Master has devoted so much time in helping me. In the long run..he is going to get a better sub. |
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A whole week with Master was wonderful....Being submissive 24/7 and serving can be hard especially if you are tired or don't feel good. But there is no switch to turn it on and off...it is a state of being all the time. The key is having a reasonable Master who takes in all of the factors and is FAIR in his demands and requests. Thank-you Master for being fair with me. It just goes to show that the lifestyle for us is unconsciously weaved in all that we do |
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It has been awhile since I have been to subspace.... too long... hmmm missing it badly. |
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The greatest gift a Master can give his submissive is a strong foundation of safety and security. My Master protects me and supports me. I know he would never let anyone hurt me in any way. I have never felt so secure with anyone. Thank-you Master for everything these past few months. You have given me 1000 percent! How can I serve you better? |
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Well Master will just take me whenever he pleases. I wasn't even a third of the way awake and he is pushing my thighs open with his legs and holding my arms down. He is pushing himself into the tightness. After the night before I thought I would be sleeping in a bit.... I guess not..my mistake... |
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I am doing something right.... he seems very pleased of late....   |
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TO love your Master seems to go with the nature and intensity of a D/s relationship. The excitement and passion of the scenes everyone journals about. But to respect your Master and show it does more for the relationship than anything. It gives it longevity. Don't get me wrong.. I love the floggings too!! |
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Time is the best teacher.... it gives me the opportunity to try things many ways to see what pleases my Master the most. I suppose I won't worry about the label of sub/slave. I will just keep trying different ways to serve him and please him. I know what he dislikes... he isn't shy about letting me know that. But there is a difference between "ok" and really really pleased.... now that is the goal... to find that distinction.... |
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I walk a fine line sometimes knowing in my heart that I could never be happy outside of a D/s relationship, and that I am submissive but not a slave. I know my Master would be happiest with a slave. IT is a constant turmoil in my soul. |
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Being submissive is difficult at times. During the day, I am a confident professional that makes moment to moment decisions without consultation. Transition into my sub role on some das is rough.I love the fact the Master is in charge of decisions and plans. I happily give up that responsibility. I am most comfortable with our D/s roles. But like it or not, transition is still a part of the day. |
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I am praying that Master gives me a really nice scene very soon.....PLEASE>>>> begging very submissively |
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Damn... I had a great pic that was NOT approved. It was a pic I took in Key West at the Butterfly House.... 2 butterflies making love.. think of all the pics on this site and my butterflies were rejected...What is the world coming to??? I had a bad day anyway.... |
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I do not believe submission is a "GIFT" any more than I believe dominance is a gift. I have a submissive nature or personality. I enjoy serving. I need to be owned. I need to feel some pain as an outlet for stress.The pain aspect is hard to explain in words. I want to please my Master. I do not seek control. I am happy to relinquish that to my Master because he is competent and truly cares about me on all levels. I submit to my Master's guidance. I am content knowing he is always there. I crave him when he is gone. |
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Iam interested in the everyday D/s rituals/protocol you practive in your lifestyle. Please email me and share them. |
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Time with Master is always the BEST time. ~~ YOUR VEGAS WINNER~~I believe Vegas has more concentrated kink per square mile than any other place in the USA! And a great time too! More later...... |
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HAPPY SPRING!.... finally. I am looking forward to a wonderful summer with my Master. Viva Las Vegas.... hoping to find a great BDSM club there to visit while we are there. Kinky thoughts and a happy sub... what more is there? |
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I take my collar very seriously.... and when a submissive cherishes her collar, there are just certain things you don't do, or try to get away with. The price would be too much to pay. When a submissive challenges her dominant time and time again....is it a cry for help, a cry for discipline or is she not truly dedicated to her collar and Master? I have been disciplined 2 times in 2 years. Not alot but enough....and the look of disappointment in my Master's eyes was worse than the act of discipline I endured....so I try to behave myself. If I am unsure, I ask myself.. is this something my Master would approve of and be proud of? If he were here.... and a fly on the wall.. what would his reaction be??? |
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Jennifer... where did you go?? Email me or something and let me know you are doing ok... concerned |
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Master thank-you for making me laugh!!! Sometimes laughter is the best thing you can give someone....well... hmmm pretty close to a pussy spanking...LOL
more later.... |
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My Master said something interesting last evening during our nightly talk. He said he thought some of my anxiousness prior to Dec. was the fact that I had not been collared and wanted to be. We laughed because he said... I hardly knew you and collared you..LOL It was almost 2 years!!!! I always wondered why he waited so long. Was he unsure, was I slow to earn it... hmmm Last night I got my answer. He said... time always tell. People put out their best side and best behaviour in the beginning. So true. He knew with time he would have an accurate picture of the total real me. Time and patience and I got my heart's desire. Which brings me to a good point. All of my past bad decisions regarding dominants all happened very fast and obviously too fast. With time the picture is clear and no questions need to be answered. Liars can only lie so long before they forget and slip up. Cheaters keep on cheating even with the best submissive. So be honest about who and what you are. And use the simple element of time as your safety net when finding your dream dom. |
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When I am upset from now on about anything, I will approach you Master, kneel and ask your permission to discuss my feelings. I know this is the proper way to express myself to you and with you.
2 words only.... hot sex....Master you are the best!!!!!!!! I worship that dick of yours!
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I have had an incredibly stressful month... just this slowly but surely stress from a vanilla source that just never lets up... like a damn toothache. Master has been my rock and support. But sometimes there is only one thing that can help me.... Flogging... the only answer. Anyone out there who can recommend a place to purchase a nice flogger... quality is a must... elk hide is what I need after a warmup with the one I have. New toys...alright!! |
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Master says all sex is good sex.... PLEASE.... Do all men believe this??LOL What a man perspective! Sucking my nipples is on my list of good sex by the way. Master may have to catch me next weekend. Let the games begin..... |
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Master has a big job.... ME!! But he said it well. I am an investment. And he knows like an investment, the returns later on will be great. OK and maybe the returns will be up and down but the overall average return will be well worth it over time. I am the best investment you EVER made Master..... wait and see..... |
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It really takes awhile of being together to get that trust level high so that I can just let go... I am finally there with Master. The collar is very sacred to me. It goes beyond anything I ever had in a vanilla relationship/marraige. Life is good...pussy still sore...smile |
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This was a stay at home weekend and serve and scene weekend. Master is in a nice exploration mode now and I am enjoying the "scenic" ride so to speak. The best thing I like is that we have a very balanced relationship... we do alot things together and we are each other's best friend. The more he controls... clearly the more happy he is... but Master..please leave the decorating up to me..LMAO I cannot imagine life without him because he is a part of my soul now. And my pussy lips are hanging down to the floor today after last nights fisting. Just a flight of ideas today... he gives me pain,,, and he gives me pleasure.. or are they the same??? |
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Since my Master has stepped up the D/s protocol in our relationship I have been happier. It is amazing how unsettled I had become as the direction from Master had lapsed a bit. I really need the secure feeling I get from knowing exactly what he wants when he wants and then fulfilling it. I love the way my Master looks out for me constantly making sure all is well in my life. I want to serve him for a very long time.  |
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What a nice weekend being with Master. He just couldn't wait to get in a little mini-session as soon as he arrived. Just his scent gets me going. I promise it will never be boring...LOL Thanks for all your help when disaster strikes... on a regular basis..LOL And now he says I can get serious about exploring my bisexual side. I do have some strong desires.... night night |
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It was such a dichotomy with Master grabbing my head between his strong hands and pulling me to him and kissing my forehead followed by some incredibly painful strapping from "Nasty Strap." That is how I knew the discipline wasn't in anger. But looking into his eyes... it was that look... the I mean business look. IT would have been much easier to be blindfolded. Just some afterthoughts...I think he knew I was at my limit. |
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It is called the rebalancing of the relationship. TPE....I am proud to wear his collar. I know he loves me and takes the time to mold me and guide me. I am happy I am not disciplined often though. I have served Master 2 years. He is not only loving, giving but strong enough to handle me when I am his lilserver and when I am bad. I apologize for how I handled myself... it was embarrassing I won't do it again. You are everything and yes I do respect you completely Master... and that is how a true Master handles things calmly in due time not in a rush of anger. IT is over and we moved on. The rest of the weekend was wonderful. I love you.. |
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He did get me a nice gift that I received that weekend after VD. I threw a tantrum because my whole day was bad... and that was the last thing to set me off. I disrespected him in the way I presented it. After I pleasured him.He had me assume the submission position naked with my cuffs and collar on. And he calls the strap Mr. Hap for happy. Each time the Nasty Strap hit my ass I was sorry.. very sorry. It hurt like hell and I have the marks to prove it. It was humiliating to have him finger me in between. He knew he had me... completely and totally. I was shaking so bad afterwards I barely could stand....
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I first of all want to own what I did and how I did it. This past weekend I was disciplined. YES I am human. My Master was not happy about my last entry(understatement). And after I had pushed the limits and crossed them a few times... that was the final straw. So he told me ahead of time that I would be disciplined when I came to him this weekend. And he decided to put me in his version of "SUBCAMP." I hate the words, go upstairs, undress, put your cuffs and collar on and wait for me. And no my Master doesn't neglect me and does ALOT for me. He knew I would call that evening and didn't call me. I had other expectations..... |
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THIS HAS TO BE THE WORST VALENTINE'S DAY I have ever had. It sucked... absolutely not even so-so. Getting low on kleenex. It started from the moment I got out of bed this morning and the decline has been steady.... I finally hit bottom... and bedtime is welcome. Is Friday here yet??????? When your Master doesn't even call you to say happy Valentine's day.... not even an email... hmmmmmm No message is a big message. Should I get a t-shirt that says... it sucks to be me today.... you vote |
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SMACK.... SMACK on the ass.. I am not even awake yet...didn't take me long though... my response... yes, I love you too Master... ohhh and that short leather strap he found in the room I call the "blackhole" is wicked. Ouch.. Ouch... |
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OK another ad caught my eye... a Master says that trust,affection care, or chemistry are not qualities needed in Master/Slave relationship. Really?? hmmm well let's see. I really want to know what quality of slave/sub he attracts. Most good subs know that this lifestyle requires trust... why would you let someone dominate you that you do not trust completely? And yes we subs expect to be cared for in return for our service. Affection.. well we all want to be wanted and to know that he returns affection with affection.And with no chemistry there... it is hard to sustain the physical relationship over time. The first time I talked to my Master 2 years ago he said... you must love me... for this to work. At first I thought he was a bit presumptuous. But how true..And the Master in this ad..I want to know what kind of sub he gets... maybe a ROBOSUB... Honestly you attract what you are... ROBOMASTER... just appreciating every aspect of my D/s relationship at this moment... |
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Well I always wonder when I read things on here... now truly think about this.... an ad that says she is a slavegirl and her and the Master are looking for another sub. Now he is teaching her to have her dominant side come out so she can dominate the new sub. It is a joke right??? Let's talk submissive here. In my professional life I can be assertive.. but not truly dominant. When someone is sub.. it is your personality.. period. It is not something to turn on or off. What a Master does is shape the submissive to serve him in a manner that pleases him. He doesn't make her submissive. SO how does a slave go to being dominant and enjoy it? She may top the other sub I suppose but is that really dominance? Or she may be the main sub of the household seeing that the Master's preferences are met by all. Just thoughts for the day....Master I miss you already... |
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I really do try to follow the rules and please my Master. This is because he takes complete care of me... all the time. I never have to ask for much of anything.. WHY? Because if analyzes each situation that arises and makes a decision. He is completely proactive. This is how he makes me feel secure even if we are apart at times. He is my best friend, my confidant, my protector and that is why he is the Master of my heart. Pretty cheesy huh? but completely truthful! |
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I just returned from a wonderful week with my Master in Key West. I wanted to stay there but he made us get on the plane...darn. He seems to be back in Master mode from vacation mode pretty darn quick. I saw him slapping that wooden rod on his hand this morning.... hmmm |
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Thoughts for the new year... Wow was I surprised after receiving some wonderful gifts from my SirDan when he gave me a COLLAR!!! I would like to hear from dominants and submissives...how long before you collared a submissive?? I am curious. I see alot of adds on here all about offering a collar...I served him faithfully for almost 2 years...of course he did say...."lilsubbie you are already soooo collared and don't even realize it." He is so cool. And YES... I cried when he placed it around my neck. Happpyy New Year to MEEEEE!!!! smiles |
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Thanks to my SirDan who gave me a wonderful evening of scening, spanking and flogging last Friday. He has cranked up the D/s Power exchange a notch now and I am a happy lilserver...... He is always in control and I am happily controlled... smiles.... |
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Thought for the day.... Well no more possibility of Indian Summer here in Michigan... the snow is here. I am not on collarme everyday... why? Because I am spending time with my dominant. Even someone who is single or should I say unattached shouldn't be on the computer too much. They should have a life already... friends, interests, family ect. The person you match with for a D/s relationship needs to bring something to the table. IT is called BALANCE.... if someone has a balanced life... then they are reasonable and realistic. It carries over. Hey I have alot of kinky thoughts almost hourly...LOL but I still have to do the day to day things. I work full time and I am not a shut in on the computer all day. Balance.... bye for now |
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Thought for the day...for the submissives. The match is the most important part. A match is not possible if both are not completely honest with each other. Otherwise you are making judgments about compatability based on half-truths and white lies. So always present yourself in a truthful light.... even the less than wonderful parts about yourself. YOU WILL EVENTUALLY ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE... it is a mirror effect. Always go with your gut instinct. If he is always "explaining"... then he is hiding something. Who cares what it is... just walk away and don't look back. Actions speak louder than words. IF you are a good submissive... then live it. Bragging is an act of insecurity and defeats the purpose. nite nite.... |
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A few thoughts this evening... It is very important for a submissive to feel that her dominant accepts her completely... the good, the bad, the rest. It should be his job to guide her through the rough spots, and never discourage her to express her pain from her past. That is the easy way for him not to deal with it. When she is forced to deny or repress ... it is impossible to work through it and move on. The worst possible thing he could say to her is,,, how many times are you going to bring that up? Well the answer is... until it is resolved or until she honestly believes she is accepted 100%. Are you the kind of dominant who takes care of business with your submissive or do you not want to be bothered? Real D/s requires depth. Otherwise you get the stepford sub....LOL |
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