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lilsassysub

Female Submissive, 18, asheboro, North Carolina
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lilsassysub - Female Submissive, San Diego, CA Virginia | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About lilsassysub

I AM NO LONGER COLLARED BY tnkr1toi It didn't work out with us, unfortunately. But that's life. All info below the line is old news. I am single and to be honest not sure what it is I seek. I thought I knew but aparently I didn't. I guess whatever or who ever it is will find me someday. If you wanna chat let me know. Thanks.
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My Mistress has decided to accept me as her submissive and has collared me. I am no longer seeking a Dom.

I believe I have finally found my soul mate and one I wish to serve forever. She is an excellent female Domme who has a firm yet gentle hand and one who understands my complexity. Her methods are exciting and intriguing to me. I get immence pleasure in serving her in all ways. It pleases me to serve her any way she asks. I look forward to learning so much from her and all she has to teach me.

SO WITH THAT SAID AS OF NOW I AM NO LONGER LOOKING. ALL REQUESTS REVIEWED BY tnkr1toi
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I am a 34 yr old bisexual BBW who was being introduced to this lifestyle by two of the best and I blew it on a hasty decision. I never gave this lifestyle a chance and it's nagged me ever since. I was still very interested in it and wanted to learn all I can. I know what I'd like but one thing I've learned about this lifestyle it isn't what I want it's what my Master/Mistress wants and that's all that matters.

At the time I had preferred a FEMALE DOM and I believe I have found her. She knows of my error and is willing to give me a chance to prove myself a good and loyal submissive.

For this I am forever grateful for allowing me to prove myself to her as a loyal and faithful submissive.

I am still learning therefore if you have some advice for me I'd be very grateful, thank you.

PLEASE REMEMBER:
I am not with anyone at this time and am looking just not sure for what exactly yet.
Well after my ass training 1 session with Sir and getting permission to have minimal ass play I found my new best friend/anal buddy. He is a perfect candadate for anal play, not too long and big around but knows what he's doing. He didn't go deep because I'm not alowed that yet but what he did do was OMG amazing. The best part of the whole thing was that I wasn't nervous while doing it. He made me feel relaxed and that only made me enjoy it more.  I will be asking permission to take it to the next level as soon as I can. Thank you Sir and my new anal fuck buddy.

Ass Training Part 1

?Ok so Sir came over today and we began my ass training because I am...well was scared to death of anal sex only because of what my 1st ex-husband did. (Dry fucked (no-lube) me when I was a young, much smaller, virgin (ass) 18 year old and while I was sleeping at that). He talked to me about it first and then started out slow using a lot of lube and his fingers...one, then two, then three (ya I'm a little ass slut and I love it). He has magic fingers and knows exactly how to do it and talk me through it with me relaxing and breathing. Then he used is big, fat cock, didn't get much in because I'm still learning but it was great, he said I did a good job and with more training I can go further but for now I'm doing great. As far as weather or not I like it or not all I'm going to say is OMG I forgot my name for a brief time. LOL. Thank you Mistress and Sir for this amazing experience, I can't wait till next time.

It is amazing how much people take advantage of someone when all they do is bend over backwards to help someone. My Mistress is the nicest, most generous person I've met in my life. She tollerates so much and yet gets so very little in return from those that need to give it to her the most. I don't mean sexual things either, I mean help paying their way or with job duties around the house or with her paper routes. Some help her more than others but yet she still struggles with the decision to help or throw them out on their ass. As much as she has done for certain people you would think that they wouldn't bitch or complain so much for a free meal ticket but wonders never cease to amaze me. So why don't I say anything to particular parties well for the simple fact that I don't want to disrespect my Mistress or her home even though it is my home too, only because she allows it to be such. All I have to say is something better change soon or they are in for a rude awakening.  
This was details about what happened in my previous experience with a Dom, it was in my profile but I just transferred it to here instead.

I was doing real good under my last Master and his Alpha Queen's wing but when I made that fatal error I blew it, I fell back to my old habits and need help desperately. I didn't follow the rules, I contacted a male without permission, met him without him being pre-approved, became intimate and then moved in with him after separating from my husband. Then after it was all done I contacted my previous Master and told him what I had done. Needless to say I was dismissed. I deserved it though and I think I would of rather taken?a severe beating over hearing the disappointment in his voice and hurting them like I did.?This was my fatal mistake and believe me it will never happen again. ?

I needed someone who could straighten me out and get me back on track, Lord knows I can't seem to do it myself. I am?NOT in a position to relocate or wish to have a Black Dom. I am not racist or anything, it's just a personal preference of mine.



How does one overcome a fear of something that they desire so badly?

The desire that I seek so badly is anal yet I'm scared to death of it. I was....well....basically dry fucked up my ass by my first husband back when I was 18. I was sleeping and he just shoved it in no lube or anything. I've also been sexually asalted and forced to do anal... again w/no lube. These were extremely unpleasant situation for me and I have done anal a couple of times over the years from someone who was gentle and I absolutely loved it. Now a awesome Dom wants to train me anally and I don't know if I'm ready for that or not. I've been told by my Mistress that he has skills....let me put it that way. If there is anyone out there that can give me some advice on how to handle this situation. I know I will love it when I can get past that fear of it but I don't know how, I want to be ready for him and my Mistress when we explore that topic. Thanks for reading and offering your advice, it is much appreciated. Take care

lilsassysub


I am searching for any sub or slave boys for my Mistress. She desires them to be obedient, hard working, trustworthy etc. No fakers or phony wannabees.

Prefer someone who is white age 18- 45.

Don't be immature or full of yourself so to speak.

If you want the ultimate experience with a Domme then you need to give my Mistress a chance. If you hurt her then you will have me to answer too. That isn't a good thing.

Being a handy man/ contractor of various things is a plus.

Let me know, you could be a lucky one who gets to play with me and my Mistress but only if you are worthy of it.

Don't keep us waiting......
Wow well now that was interesting, met someone with a Prince Albert (cock pierced), ya nice, felt good too, thought he was going to split me it two but it was awesome.

THANK YOU MISTRESS FOR LETTING ME PLAY
My new opinion on bondage

Ok I admit at first the whole idea of bondage scared me and plucked my curiosity string at the same time. I was so nervous about it I didn't want to try it but part of me was like do it, do it , do it you'll like it, trust me. Well I honestly have to say I don't like it.....I love it, it's OMG so wonderful and if you know someone who knows how to do bondage well and make it look hot and sexy at the same time then you got it made. My Mistress's got that covered. I've had a few experiences with rope bondage and I loved all of them. So trust me when I say I'm learning not to push something totally aside just because I'm afraid of it, with the right training and help you can overcome those little fears and challenges. Thanks for reading.

Well I have had my first official pain training session. I have my favorite things that i like to get hit with, floggers are OMG awesome. My favorite is one called "Blue". I get nice and excited when I get that. I also like the spatula w/holes. Don't know why but I do. I almost came with that one, but of course I didn't because I didn't have permission. :)

Now there were lots of things used on me and most of them I liked except, Knotty, I don't care for Knotty....at least right now maybe when I build up more of a tollerance but that will be a while. I would like to thank my Mistress for the training and everyone else involved...you know who you are. :)
WOW, I am amazed at this person I met the other night with my soon to be Mistress. I was so nervous I thought I was going to be sick but everything was fine and it was awesome.

I would like to offer some advice for anyone seeking an active Male Dom, KinkyCple4U is a nice yet firm Dom
. He is an excellent teacher and is very tender and nice but if you misbehave or step out of line he will be firm and straighten you out quick. If I was considering a Male Dom I would definitely consider KinkyCple4U. All I will say is that he has magic fingers and I had a puddle to mop up when he was done. OMG WOW!. Don't be nervous he's harmless and an excellent Dom.? You won't be sorry I promise.
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