Hi... I am searching for someone who understands women and their needs. I need to feel sexy and appreciated. I also need to be dominated sexually. Some guys take that to mean telling me when and where I can go, who I can or can't visit or be friends with. What I can eat or wear. At least for myself, I have to feel 100% safe with the person, in order for me to surrender myself sexually. The same is true for the Dominant. The have to know that I won't scream at them afterwards and threaten police action. I want to surrender. I need to surrender. I also need the independence and freedom to do what I need to do for myself. This may not sound submissive to you, then you aren't looking for me. If you understand what I am saying then lets talk and see where that takes us.