lilladycherry

I figured it might be a good idea to add some other things i enjoy:

a brilliant mind, a creative player and imaginative lover. (everything to do with it), a collar, two wrist cuffs, two ankle cuffs and a smile (everything to do with it), a voice that calms, comforts and reassures (everything to do with it), aftercare (everything to do with it), being a 100% cuddle slut (everything to do with it), being hugged by strong safe arms (receiving), being more complex than an anonymous list of fetishes could show, causing people to have to actually converse with me, finding out if they like *me* and not just what gets me off. (everything to do with it), being serious about the nitty gritty but as silly as possible about the rest (everything to do with it), collar and lead/leash (everything to do with it), comforting others (everything to do with it), cuddling and conversation (until way too late) (everything to do with it), cuddling in a warm bed on a cold day (everything to do with it), d/s (everything to do with it), dancing because you feel the music, not necessarily because you took lessons or have someone to dance with (everything to do with it), erotic photography (everything to do with it), friends who enrich my life and make me smile (everything to do with it), full contact body hug and a night sleep in the arms of someone who cares for me (everything to do with it), having hope, no matter what (everything to do with it), honest, drama-free people with integrity (everything to do with it), intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humour and mutual satisfaction (everything to do with it), laughter to the point of tears (everything to do with it), learning and testing my limits (everything to do with it), learning new things about myself (everything to do with it), men that will remove spiders from my shower while i scream uncontrollably (everything to do with it), men who can make me laugh (everything to do with it), men who mean what they say and follow through, mutual respect, trust and communication. (everything to do with it), not being abandoned (everything to do with it), people who have their shit together (everything to do with it), people with positive energy (everything to do with it), poking sick fucks with sharp sticks., proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation (everything to do with it), rock-paper-scissors-lizard-spock (everything to do with it), rolling down grassy hills (everything to do with it), sitting in front of a roaring fire while sipping red wine and listening to music (everything to do with it), snuggling (everything to do with it), strong man hands (everything to do with it), strong, confident submissives and slaves who know they are not worthless, unworthy, trash, worms, or any of that other stroke fodder nonsense (everything to do with it), the glorious realisation that the brain is our largest and most exhilarating sexual organ (everything to do with it), watching a man shave his face, watching out for friends (everything to do with it), zero fucktard policy (everything to do with it).

I saw this question posted somewhere else, and had to respond to it.

"Take me, i am Yours... What do these words mean to you?"

My response is:

To me, it means I Love You.
It means, I Trust You.

I trust You will not break my heart, for it is fragile.
I trust You will respect my mind, for it is strong.
I trust You will protect my body, for it is Yours
I trust You will see my soul, for I have bared it for You.

I don't know about anybody else, but if I see this in someone's profile, I have to question their concept of "TRUST" and open communication.

I'm married. Discretion is expected and assured. Perhaps you are bored in your relationship and would like to have a little fun?

To have someone give You control of their mind and body.
To be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them.
To have someone willing to suffer for You.
To have someone show their strength in submitting for You.
What other gift in this world could possibly equate that?
And, more importantly, what makes You worthy to receive this?

The mind is the most powerful organ we have.When this is engaged, the body will follow.
Can You engage my mind?
Can You do this in such a way my body will naturally follow suit?
Can You bring forth all that i have to offer?
Can You bring forth all that i am capable of being?

I identify predominantly as a submissive with slave-like qualities. This, to me, means that when i am involved in a dynamic there are certain parts of me, or personality traits that express themselves in a more slave nature. If it will bring pleasure/happiness/contentment to my Dominant, i will do my very best to follow through on the request regardless of my thought on the matter.

The titles and definitions of submissive or slave, are all well and good, but, as we grow we meet different people, open ourselves up, and evolve. It's very possible that for the right Man this submissive could very well become His 'slave'.

We evolve, we change, and things change with people. There is no "caste system" in BDSM. Sometimes, I think we get way too wrapped up in titles and just need to "be".