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lilithssucumbus - Dominatrix

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I want you to be first:

Respectful, and Clever enough to use your waist full time to:

Read (!!!!) my profile before sending me messages .

I am A Portuguese Fin-Dom, Like no other.


I am a Goddess of exquisite tastes. I will rape your wallet and leave you
begging to send Me more tributes and gifts.

I have zero compassion for nasty Money Masochism and Financial $adism, A Match Made Online.

little cums squirters like you, you are completely worthless except to be My little cash piggy and My complete and total slave.

All that you are you will give up once I own you.

Your whole life will be
devoted to acquiring for me all of my desires, whims, even things I know not yet that I want….

Cum-tax—paying money in return for being allowed to climax (alone).
CPA—certified pay pig abusers

Pay pig—Money masochist
Human ATM—Money masochist

Intelligence, Beauty, sex appeal, a sense of taste and knowledge ARE required

I Am a Pro Profiler and have Coaching skills and Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP).

Full Mental Domination , Brainwashing, coercive persuasion, mind abuse / Control, or thought reform.

Teasing and denial on line / cam sessions

Mentoring By Tatrix

Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.












 Dominant Female



 5' 2"

 101 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Women

Switch Men

Friends Only

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Journal Entries:
4/7/2011 3:21:56 PM

I am NOT here to make money, I'm here to talk to people. BUT If you are going to request services from me understand that it will not be free.

3/30/2011 6:29:33 PM

Hey little piggie...I WILL take your wallet, I WILL drain you dry..., you will spoil
ME and you will get trained to be My perfect human ATM.





Money masochism, (also known as money slavery) describes the practice of a man giving money or gifts to a woman he has never met (or is never likely to meet), without receiving anything in return. The women run this service as an online business and advertise as Mistresses. The men do it as an act of unsolicited worship and devotion or while role-playing what is known as voluntary duress—pretending to be coerced to gift or tribute the Mistress.



A variety of terms are used to describe this type of relationship, including money slavery, financial servitude, cash fetish, financial domination, financial rape, wallet raping or extreme spoiling.

The women who offer these services refer to themselves as a Money Mistress, Money Dome, (using the female form of dominant in the BDSM sense), FinDome or Money Collector.





The money masochist (who is almost universally a man), is referred to by a variety of terms, including money slave, human ATM, pay-pig, paybot, pay piggie, servant, cashpet, sissie, cash cow and Loser (generally with a capital L, the only capital letter ever used in relation to a money slave).

The practice of money masochism has its roots in a dominance and submission dynamic. Dominance and submission in an erotic sense is characterized by a consensual exchange of power so that one partner dominates the other either physically or psychologically.



These exchanges of money or goods involve no sex or physical interaction;

instead the men willingly exchange cash and gifts for the opportunity to be psychologically humiliated in ways mandated by their own erotic requirements.

While the humiliation is generally governed for the size of the tribute or gift, that communication is mostly limited and will vary according to the Mistresses.





Attention from the Mistress always involves humiliation,
which while it takes various forms depending on the people involved, commonly includes the money slaves being told to perform degrading tasks, being verbally castigated, having derogatory posts made about them on her website, being constantly harangued for more money, being told to wear women’s panties or clothing, not being allowed to climax; or some other humiliating task or activity that the Mistress knows the slave craves.

It is common for most slaves to get the Mistress’s permission to climax, which involves paying her for the privilege of granting it. While the relationships always operate in a strictly one way dynamic, and a money slave is unable to ask anything in return, the professional Mistresses ensure they tailor ‘a program’ around the needs of the slave, ensuring the slave’s needs are met and he remains a worthwhile and paying client.







Money Mistresses also provide a blackmail domination service.

How this works is that the man voluntarily fills out an application form with his name, address, employer details, the phone number of his wife or girlfriend and discrediting information of his choosing, which he then submits it to the Mistress.

The money slave is then required to pay the mistress to avoid having this information revealed publicly.

Disturbing as this sounds, the blackmail is generally always negotiated to run for a specific time, with a buy out clause at the end.



As described previously, this practice falls into the world of BDSM, with the Internet providing an opportunity for another manifestation of masochism that was not really possible before the World Wide Web.

Research actually shows that most self-identified masochists are well educated, well adjusted and sexually creative individuals who generally enjoy a level of wealth and status.



I am a Goddess of exquisite tastes. I will rape your wallet and leave you
begging to send Me more tributes and gifts. I have zero compassion for nasty
Money Masochism and Financial $adism, A Match Made Online.

little cumsquirters like you, you are completely worthless except to be My little cash piggy and My complete and total slave.




3/23/2011 6:15:08 PM

Creative minds in all kinds of areas, from science to poetry, and mathematics to humor, may have traits associated with psychosis. Such traits may allow the unusual and sometimes bizarre thought processes associated with mental illness to fuel creativity. The theory is based on the idea that there is no clear dividing line between the healthy and the mentally ill.



It's now increasingly being argued that there are survival advantages to others forms of illness, too, because of the links between the traits associated with them and creativity.



The stereotypical images of mad scientists working alone and preferring foaming beakers to friends, abound in literature, and reflect a popular perception of the aloof, detached and obsessive genius. But the idea goes back even further. 2000 years ago in Rome, the philosopher Seneca was obviously already on the case when he wrote:


"There is no great genius without a tincture of madness."


The stigma around mental illness persists partly because people just don't talk about it.

2/21/2011 11:44:10 AM

Try playing with this fire, you might enjoy the burn.

2/17/2011 9:06:53 PM

So as I’m free to speak My mind ( at least as I heard till now) I come to put some of my conclusions about sociology studies in this particular community.






Really soon I recalled nothing changed.

BDSM is a consensual lifestyle choice – yes.

BDSM includes a wide spectrum of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. – Yes.

Typically participants who are active – applying the activity or exercising control over others – are known as tops or dominants. – Yes.

Since the 1980s these basic principles have been condensed into the motto "Safe, sane and consensual" – yes.

It is necessary to be able to identify each person's psychological squicks or "freakouts" in advance in order to avoid them. – Yes.

The term "Discipline" describes the Psychological restraining, with the use of rules and punishment to control overt behavior. - Yes.

"Dominance and submission" (also known as D&s, Ds or D/s) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of control of one individual over another in an erotic or lifestyle context. It explores the more mental aspect of BDSM. YES.

Often, "slave contracts" are set out in writing to record the formal consent of the parties to the power exchange, stating their common vision of the relationship dynamic. The purpose of this kind of agreement is primarily to encourage discussion and negotiation in advance, and then to document that understanding for the benefit of all parties. – YES.

In general as compared to conventional relationships, BDSM participants go to great lengths to negotiate the important aspects of their relationships in advance, and to take great care in learning about and following safe practices. – YES.

A professional dominatrix or professional dominant, often referred to within the culture as a "pro-domme", offers services encompassing the range of bondage, discipline, and dominance in exchange for money. Such professional services might not include sexual intercourse, and may and may not include masturbation or ejaculation of semen by other means. –Yes

- It is common among dominatrices to separate themselves from prostitutes, though there are plenty of prostitutes who also work as professional dominatrices. – NOT PROSTITUTES.

Misunderstandings may arise from general lack of knowledge concerning sexuality and sexual practices as well as misconceptions on how one are personal life and public persona can vary greatly. YES.

The term dominatrix is sometimes used to describe a professional dominant (or "pro-domme") that is paid to engage in BDSM with a submissive. An appointment or role-play is referred to as a "session". –YES


In the contemporary era of technological connectivity, sessions may also be conducted remotely by phone, email or online chat.-YES

Professional dominatrix does not offer sexual intercourse as part of their service to clients. –YES

Professional dominatrix may take pride or differentiation in their psychological insight into their client's "needs" and fetishes.-yes

To differentiate women who identify as a Dominatrix but do not offer paid services, non-professional dominants may be restyle" Dominatrix or Mistress. It should also be noted that some professional Dominatrices are also lifestyle Dominatrices, which means that they are paid for sessions by submissive clients, as well as incorporating power exchange within their own private lives and relationships. –YES.

So yeah, as Findom and a Domme who provides fetish services, I expect payment for my time and attention.

I used to be that skeptical myself a couple of years ago when I would only get calls and emails from so called "financial slaves" who were in fact just time wasting wankers trying to step out of the crowd that way.

I have met hundreds of submissive men over the last years and can say that the real financial and gift slaves are a tiny minority yet exist and should be respected.

I'm of the opinion that the fetish of money slavery is not really about giving tributes, sacrificing or being used, I believe that the vast majority of money slaves get off on the idea of stringing women along, promising them money and then withholding it.

I strongly believe that the sexual thrill in the vast majority of so-called money slaves is rooted in the misogyny of this patriarchal and capitalistic society whereby men use their "power", in this case money, over women to regain the control they don't have with their inferior penises. I think the majority of men who identify themselves as money slaves sit at home and promise money and tributes to women and they are really jerking off over the knowledge that these women are planning on paying bills, child care, or even just getting that pedicure to make they feel special and waiting on money that will never come.

Financial Domination, well the term in itself is going to raise an eye brow.

I know it did for me the first time I heard about it.

But I reserved judgment until I observed more.

FinDommes are not the only ones requiring a tribute… For heaven’s sake this is someone’s time, energy, preparation etc., There are so many fake, time wasting wankers out there for ANY Domme not just Pro's or FinDomme's.

I too love to receive gifts and gratuities. Some are willing to show their gratitude others are not. Also a tribute is a gesture of submissiveness -the sub is acknowledging their inferiority to the Domme and that they need to reward the Domme for allowing the sub her attention.

So….after all this stated…you come into a community…where you think there’s no prejudice… And there isn’t. We are not judged for our appearance or looks but for you fetish, or choice, our right to speak, without being kicked or banned for those who do not agree.

There’s no respect as you all claim it. It’s a fake.

You don’t like it, you ban people.

We are not entitled to a strong different choice.

And the funniest…Its all Woman’s supremacy…but most women here, stand each other thru friendship only. Tired woman, old, married, with kids, crappy life…comes in to be Queens all day, as they’re slaves to raising children or husband or crappy job for a living.

Since when Looks don’t matter? Shallow thought I say...because we aren’t all human lol… So women discriminate women.

Unless you think exactly like them. As a fat camp. So I do live since I was a little girl. I did it all. Real life (still do), online, video, all. So…after a Degree on Coaching and Pnl I come here with open spirit, because I realized the Mind is sexier than body…and the Ignorance bans Me lol.

2/7/2011 4:48:03 PM

Cedermntnman is now My slave.

Owned and collared By is Goddess, Finally.



So Ladies...Its is taken.

2/7/2011 8:36:10 AM

Once trust is established, I am open to the possibility of 24/7  and/or TPE, (this does not mean I would expect you to be Mistress mode constantly, unless of course you are). Or just as happy to let the energy, chemistry and dynamics of the relationship determine the level of intensity. I'm experienced and do know that 24/7 Mistress-mode isn't always realistic. Either way you can depend on deference, fierce loyalty and absolute trustworthiness. 

2/6/2011 4:30:26 PM

Hello Pay Pig, Human ATM, Cash Cow, Pathetic, looser, worm



Oh where oh where could by perfect slave be?




I was born to be worshiped, served, spoiled... I am the Queen bee of financial domination. I not only have the beauty of a mythical goddess but I possess the natural ability to make a man fall under my spell and stay there, addicted and yearning for my attention. I am far gearter than you, you are benith Me and deserve to be used and abused.


Financial domination is not only an incredibly sexually intense fetish but a way of life. Become my money slave, financial slave, as money slavery is all you are fit for.

Power, control and money go hand in hand together.

All money slaves experience an incomparable sexual gratification, and a vast emotional surge from the act of giving to their Goddess.

Financial domination gives a slave fulfilment seldom found in other fetishes. Fulfilment and pleasure working for their Goddess who is far greater than themselves.


The truth is....Maybe there aren't true valuable slaves with traditional slavery these days...


2/4/2011 12:25:03 PM

If you're against homophobia, as I am, read this!!



I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.
I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.
I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.
We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.
I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.
I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.
I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.
I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.
We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.
I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.
I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.
I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.
I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.
I am the man who died when the paramedics stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.
I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I did not have to always deal with society hating me.
I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.
I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.
I am the person who is afraid of telling his loving Christian parents he loves another male.
Re-post this if you believe homophobia is wrong. Please do your part to end it


2/1/2011 6:31:51 AM

Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, The round pegs in the square holes, the ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules, and they have no respect for the status quo.

You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them.

Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, I see genius. Because the ones who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do!!!!!!! How glorious it is - and also how painful - to be an exception...

2/1/2011 6:30:31 AM

I'm not going to apologize for it, cause the truth is I'd do it again.

" Patterns are inherent in human nature and all natural forms. Our repetitve patterns of thoughts, habits, attitudes and behaviours are quite apparent to others, yet we generally do not see our games and how they affect the results we really want. "

Hindsight, or our ability to see our past clearly, is a learning function that, when damaged ... renders us unable to look at the past to guide ourselves through the present and into the future. Without this ability, we cannot learn from our mistakes. We cannot clean up the wreckage of our actions. We are locked into a cycle of repeating the same thing over and over again, expecting different results....

The truth is....we are all bleeding masoquists...

1/26/2011 3:04:49 PM

No darling, not yet...



Since I remember I've been a Dom.

I always told my parents when I was a Little Girl, I would rule the World.

Men at My Feet. People would become My pawns threw life.


Why is it that putting a tie around a man's neck is sometimes even sexier than taking it off?


My Mother used to say " Power Girls are lonely " was hard to imagine that anyone so beautiful as Me could be lonely.


I had a thought, maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring You down, and sometimes, like now, they get You so high...The trick Is to use men as your drug and fest.


Money is power, sex is power, therefore, getting money for sex is simply an exchange of power. Women have the right to use every means at their disposal to achieve power.


Here. Swear. Swear on Chanel!


Hello, 911. I'm on fire!


men, they may have You on your knees, but You've got them by the balls.











1/11/2011 3:20:04 PM

BDSM & Financial

" Along this week I have read a lot of profiles of several Mistress requesting a financial slave and “financial slaves” requesting to submit to me. So I thought it would be a good idea share my idea about Money Vs Bdsm.  
I have to say that I’m not totally against money value to be mixed with the session, after all a Mistress should have totally power over her slave/sub if she is in will to take care all over his life aspect but, the question is: until which point?  
In my perspective a Mistress should never request to be paid to take care of her property. I have to give right to people who call those Mistress by other names. Nerveless a slave should always show appreciation on the dedication of his Mistress/Master. I’m not against gifts specially if the slave is enough bright to see what are his Mistress needs and whish that makes her happy.  
A Mistress due to her proud should never accept money or anything that would lead the slave into a position of power. She can accept lill presents that shows her slave attention, dedication and love but not something that would demonstrate that she is not able to survive without him. – this should be verified in the other way.  
In conclusion, since money is an object of power, both as Mistress and slave have to be conscience on how they use it. A Slave should only offer to proof his loyalty and a Mistress should never accept exchange but only gender as generosity not as a need."



Article posted By Tatrix




12/30/2010 10:58:59 AM

Mind games....



" WAIT UNTIL YOUR FATHER GETS HOME!" The child cowers, he or she is feeling scared. The thoughts in the child's head grows. He runs to his mother. Mommy don't tell on me please don't! The mother stares, in anger, at the child. "WAIT UNTIL YOUR FATHER COMES HOME!" Once more the child begs his mother, don't tell on me please, I won't do it again... honest. Mom is very angry now and says, " If you don't stop bothering me, it will be worse for you". Wait until your father hears what you did". The child goes away and ponders his fate. The waiting will be worse than the punishment.

11/22/2010 6:47:22 PM




Nate: " I just feel like all I do, all day long, is just manage myself, try to fuckin' connect with people. But it's like, no matter how much energy you pour into getting to the station on time, or getting on the right train, there's still no fuckin' guarantee that anybody's gonna be there for you to pick you up when you get there...."


Billy : " okay, I'm sick of feeling like I am living every moment inside a giant Xeroxed fucking cotton ball."


Nate: " Love isn't something you feel, it's something you do. If the person you're with doesn't want it, do yourself a favor and save it for someone who does."



Nate: " Stop listening to the static. 

Claire: What the fuck does that mean? 

Nate: Nothing. It just means that everything in the world is like this transmission, making its way across the dark. But everything – death, life, everything – it's all completely suffused with static. [makes static sounds] You know? But if you listen to the static too much, it fucks you up."


" You can't take a picture of this. It's already gone."



From your Goddess Lilith

11/22/2010 6:43:21 PM



"Mrs. Snyder explained to me that when fate comes into play, choice sometimes goes out the window. Maybe Romeo and Juliet were fated to be together, but just for a while, and then their time passed. If they could have known that beforehand, maybe it all would have been okay. I told Mrs. Snyder that when I was grown up, I'd take fate into my own hands. I wouldn't let some guy drag me down. Mrs. Snyder said that I'd be lucky if I ever had that kind of passion with someone, and if I did, we'd be together forever. Even now, I believe that for the most part, love is about choices. It's about putting down the poison and the dagger and making your own happy ending... most of the time. And sometimes, despite all your best intentions, fate wins anyway."



From Your Mistress Lilith

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