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About Lilinae
Hummm what to say...
I have been called an Alpha sub personality, and let me explain to those that do not know exactly what I mean by that. It meas a few things, and I'll just bullet point them, if you have questions, feel free to ask.
1). I an not submissive 24/7
2). I know what I am after, and have the back bone to walk away if you are not it.
3). I have a brain and a name. I get real offended when it is not used unless it is play time.
4). I WILL NOT be Topped via Email, chat or any other way, that just makes me laugh, because really how do you know i am doing what you say.
5). If a Dom trys to top me in the first message, I will turn into a rabid Kitten and claw their eyes out (fair warning, it has happened, and i think i melted their eyeballs with my response.)
6). you have to take the time to earn my trust before play can even hope to happen.
7). I am capable of assisting the Top/Dom in their play with others.
8) I know the difference between in scene and out, and do keep them separate.
All that being said maybe i should get into the nitty gritty about me. I live life to the fullest, and feel that the day is hallow and wasted if i have not learned or done something new. I am a gamer, a geek, and all a round goof. People have termed me as old fashioned, because i like to dress modestly, like someone out of a Harpers Bazarr for the turn of the century (give or take a decade either way) I would personally love to find a Dome into the Victorian lifestyle, though admittedly, I would not be comfortable in any role other than the Lady of the house.
I would like to find multiple Tops/Dom. MAINLY FOR FRIENDS and random hanging out. I tend to not get on well with many other Sub types unless they are under my care. That bevy of tops/Dom/Domme that i hang out with would ideally produce close friendships, and a possible Dom for me. if not, friendship can be more important.
What do I mean by the other subs being under my care? Good question, Le'me 'spaline...no take to long le'me sum up. (50 cool points if you get that)
Basically it means that I have been entrusted to making sure they are ok, and are behaving in a manner that would bring a positive reputation to their Dom/me. It also means that i make sure that they are coming to no harm, from their tops, Dom/mes or random people in the vanilla world. Yes I am a care giver, and tend to take on the mother role for my friends, you don't like it, look else where I am not changing.
Ok,,, I think i have rambled on long enough.
If you have made it this far, and have any questions, please do me the honor of asking. I will respond in kind to the tone i receive. If you would like to get to know me, or just get a handle on the mindset of an Alpha sub, i welcome all with open arms.
In life there are no strangers, only friends we have not yet met.
Please note that if there is no picture attached to your profile, I will not send any unless I receive the same.
Also note that if your profile is not filled out or five words, that dose not give me much to work with...Just sayin
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So I am sitting here taking a break form sewing my fingers to the bone getting ready for yet another wonderful function, this time the Edwardian Ball in SF...and I got to thinking about what it really means to me to be an Alpha sub, and I realized that what i posses and what i hold to be true is not in the strictest kink sense of the word a sub...
let me 'splain...What you have here, sitting at the other side of the computer form you is more a submissive lady. Like the ladies of old...where they knew their place was at home taking care of the family and the home...sure i do like the kink side of things other wise why would I be here hummm? but to me being called a sub dose a disservice to the other subs out there, and to myself. I am not one to be "dominated" but rather look for one that is dominate in the older definition. A gentleman that knows what it means to be a man and take care of his other half. one that knows the simple things that mean so much, like opening doors for ladies...one that is not afraid to make decisions.
In short a man that no longer exists. I may be wrong in that, but at least here I have yet to meet one.
Anywho, enough rambling, time to get back to sewing.
Best wishes for a day filled with tea and cookies. |
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