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lilflame

Friends:
MasterArtistryslavewloveAxissweeldos
AndrewMorgan
MasterMcDreamy
hosedrager
A little about me:

I have been on here for a while and in the past I've had my photo up, but took it down because of the type of profession I'm in. It would just make things awkward if I ran into anyone I work with, or any current or potential clients! So, that is why the photos I have up are small and a little blurry. I have no problem sharing my photos with someone after the initial email or two and seeing your photos as well.
I'm looking for two things. I doubt I'll get both in one person, but it's worth a shot! First, I'm relationship-oriented and ultimately want a long-term loving romantic relationship with someone in which it could possibly progress to marriage and babies. I sincerely hope that this person shares many of my kinky interests!! Second, in the meantime, I'm open to trying something new to me. I'm curious about a Daddy/little girl relationship. As far as what that'd be like, I'm still open to exploring. In this case, my age range can be extended up, but it would have to be understood that it wouldn't be long-long-term. If you fit into either of these two categories, I'd love to hear from you! :) If you're still reading, the following is just basic housekeeping stuff that over time on this site I've had to add to make things easier:

I prefer to keep all my CM contacts here on CM rather than private email. Why have an account here if you don't use it, right?

I am very open to having friends of ALL ages, gender, locations, and orientations in the lifestyle, but as far as dating goes, please be within 10 years of my own age (30), live in the Bay Area, and be single. I'm not interested in dating a married man.

I am not a slave. I'm a sexual submissive. Feisty... but submissive. :)

As far as interests go, they are listed in my profile. I have been involved in the bdsm lifestyle for about 10 years now and consider myself fairly experienced. However, I continue to learn new things about myself and the lifestyle and what I want from it.

If you've read this far, you may be thinking either "what a bitch" OR "good for you, standing up for yourself!" .... or possibly even "such a feisty little girl needs a (fill in the blank with your choice of punishment)" HAHA. Hope to hear from you :)


1/18/2012 4:56:20 PM
Happy birthday to me!
12/31/2011 2:00:14 PM
Looking back on this year, I've had a lot of ups and downs, but sadly, a lot more downs. I am, however, thankful for the little up bumps I was blessed with. It is in my nature to always make do with what I have, make a bad situation a better one, find something good in the bad, and enjoy the little things no matter how little. It's been rough and this year has really beat me down. I don't know how much I have left in me. So, with that said, I'm hoping for a really different and positive new year. I hope for love, new friends, weight loss, good health, prosperity, finishing my intern hours and passing the board exams. I wish you all a better year and hope your wishes come true and you meet your goals.
12/24/2011 6:27:42 PM
Merry Christmas everyone!
11/28/2011 12:26:43 AM

Thank you to all of you who have emailed me with suggestions and information about local groups! :)

Also, I want to apologize to those of you that I have not responded to. In the last few months I've been plagued with technological problem after problem. No internet on my home computer...laptop died...phone is a bit harder to really type up an email on....

So, I'm sorry for that!

One more thing, please do not be offended if I don't respond to you and you are either more than 7 or 8 years older than me (especially over 10 years older), or you don't live in the Bay Area, or you are married, looking for a slave, etc.... UNLESS you understand that our interaction will not go beyond friendship.  I mean nothing bad.... it's just that I'm being realistic. Thank you for understanding! :)

8/18/2011 9:08:56 PM

It's really too bad for those of you "good guys" out there, when someone claims to be one, but isn't. They ruin it for all of us. 

8/9/2011 10:34:57 AM

Are there any Meetup or other social type groups in the Bay Area for kinksters and/or subbies to get together and just socialize? I think it'd be great to have fellow lifestyler friends with whom we can share stories, information, learn stuff, socialize, host parties, etc. Is anyone interested? 

7/20/2011 4:19:41 AM

Back from some time away from this site...updated the profile a little. yay :)

5/8/2010 4:14:30 PM
I graduated today with my Master's Degree! Woo Hoo!
7/19/2009 10:37:42 PM
thinkin' about shutting this profile down...
3/10/2009 10:04:19 AM
For those of you who have written me emails recently and I have not responded-- I'm very sorry. I recently broke my wrist on my dominant hand and the cast doesn't allow me much freedom to type. If you email again, I may be able to write back a short note.
Thanks for understanding!
SavannahSmiles
 
 Age: 26
 Bromsgrove, United Kingdom