lilcoastalsky

Wow! After being registered on here for less than 24 hours, I've already had just as many messages...and from the content of them, I see I need to add a few things here now.

Please READ the profile info before messaging!

I'm just here to reconnect with a few friends, chat with like minded folks, and learn more. If I happen to meet decent folks, then friendships will be a plus. Not actively seeking a relationship, especially on here. Have yet to find many genuine people hanging out on sites like this online.

*Again, I am NOT actively seeking a relationship on this site. I'm not interested in advertising myself on this "meat market." So, for those that need it spelled out more directly, NO, I am not interested in becoming part of your household 24/7. I chat with Mirc and therefore will rarely even visit this site, so if you message me, don't expect an immediate answer. Real life is way more important to me. I do not have time to waste sitting around online here to answer a couple dozen messages asking things that are already shared in my profile, or to reiterate that I'm NOT interested in moving in with you, etc.

*My picture is not posted on here for many reasons. The most important being the need for discretion due to the nature of my job. No, I am not going to tell perfect strangers what I do for work, so don't ask. IF you are someone I feel is genuine and there is need to share personal info or photos (meeting in person or pursuing some type of relationship, which again, I am NOT seeking right now), then I will share info needed at that right time. I am real, and have many Dominant and submissive real life friends that could vouch for me, but I also have common sense...something that unfortunately seems to be lacking greatly in our society today.

*Intelligence, just as much as common sense, is important to me. If you send messages that make no sense or are so full of mistakes that it's hard to read, that shows you may not have much of either of the above...or that you have no pride in yourself and are too lazy to make an effort to do your best. I will not waste my time answering.

*If you are not in control of your own life, how can you expect to be in control of someone else's life???? I've seen many, who call themselves Dom/Dommes, that appear to have a need to be in control of another because they are not in control of their own life. Not interested in becoming part of their train wreck.