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lilac2000 Female Submissive, 40, Preston	lilacmist Female Submissive, 30, Englewood, Colorado	LilacPromise Female Submissive, 40, UK

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	About lilacs I'm not looking - and only keeping the profile active for the chance of meeting other like-minded people... I'm happily wearing the collar and engagement ring of a wonderful man who I match up well with on a D/s and vanilla level. We are semi-involved in the Indianapolis BDSM scene and are both members of IMAS - I am a member of KISS. Our time to commit to local groups is limited due to some significant scheduling issues but come August when I'm done with graduate school things might calm down a little! As I said, I'm still open to finding like-minded friends - also feel free to look me up on , but I tend to just accept friends who I also know in real life. :)

Ah how I realize that times have indeed changed since the last time I've updated here...

I've kept my profile active on this page only to have access to the message boards (of which I mostly lurk on) but I'm being serious when I say I'm not looking for somone. Because I've been living a wonderfully fulfilling dynamic of friendship combined with Dominance and submission for a number of months now. While others should feel free to message me if they are interested in friendship, please know that's all I'm here looking for.

Safe and good luck in love and life to all.

Do you know what's very sad? Not only getting a form letter email, but getting two of them from the same person - one right after another. Do you know what's even more sad? When your profile clearly states that you are not looking. Do you know what else is sad? When your profile *also* indicates that you are looking for friends only and this person is trying to recruit you as a submissive.

That's just very sad and makes me cry. :-P Better luck with your form emails elsewhere, buddy...

An interesting concept was brought up to me. There is a slight difference between being motivated primarily by the need to submit vs. the need to be dominated. Both are perfectly valid and I think that most who identify on the "s" side of D/s have aspects of both within them, but I wonder if this is a core reason why expectations in a longer-term relationship don't end up working out. An interesting thought.

It seems like so often once my life starts to settle down just a little bit, something else hits me square between the eyes... Never a dull moment? Or something? Take care everyone... those wonderful friends and new and interesting people who I have been in longer-term contact with and have my outside email address: please feel free to contact me there. However, I'm going to be taking a break from the site while I get my life pulled back together again.

As kind as the multiple random emailed offers I seem to have gotten lately of "liberation" I can assure you (whoever you are out there planning to liberate me) that ... thanks much, but I don't think of myself as being trapped by not currently being owned or collared. Sure, I'm not exactly totally fulfilled in a relationship sense. But trapped and in need of liberation? Nope -- kthxbye. I can live my life as a single submissive if that's what my life has planned for me, I would just prefer to share it since I think I have some special things to offer. I don't really need someone to "set me free," thanks. I've already done that for myself on more than one occation - but again - thanks for the offer.

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