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	About lil1v Hi! I'm V.. If you'd like to get to know me as friends, please feel free to message me. I'm rather skittish. Ok lets make that really skittish. _________ Here is what I need/want in a man. I want him to be a combination of all the below: Best Friend/Lover/Companion: I need him to be a best friend who is there for me in good times and in bad times. Who is honest with me, trust worthy, loyal, and isn’t afraid to tell me things "like it is". Someone I can talk to.. communicate with.. share my dreams with.. my days with.. someone who is going to hold me up if I start to fall.. someone I can lean on. Someone I can laugh with, do things with.. whether it be sitting on the couch with TV and pizza or getting dressed up and going to the theatre. Going for walks and chatting, or hanging out with friends. Someone who challenges me and encourages me to be a better person, learn new things, try new things. Someone who believes in similar ideals/values. Someday, I'll want to get married, and that might mean kids. I’m not going to go down that road with someone who is going to teach my children the opposite of what I believe, or someone that will undermine the values that I want my children to possess. Someone who loves me for myself – Sees my flaws and loves me anyway – knowing that these are things that make me – ME. (but also someone who challenges me to improve on myself and overcome obstacles.) Be honest with me – even if it hurts – there is no point to any kind of friendship if you can’t believe what comes out of their mouth. Actions and words must lead to the same conclusion. Give me freedom – freedom to be myself – freedom to attain the goals that I set for myself – and even freedom to love him and freedom to express that love. Intimacy – not just emotional bonding, but also physical.. sharing our bodies, sexual loving. Caressing, holding, touching.. knowing each others body so well that we know a thousand ways to make them feel good. Not only just sexually.. but also knowing when they complain about their back hurting.. knowing the right spot to touch to make it go away.. or the right spot to caress to help them go to sleep.. Equal shares of sexual and platonic touch. ____ Major Turnons: Intelligence, the smarter you are and more educated the more attractive you'll probably be to me. I find geeks hot. ____ And yes... I want the impossible. I want the dream. I want a house, kids, and a husband who is at the very least dominant in the bedroom. I am sometimes wise as a 50 yr old, yet sometimes I am just a silly girl having fun. I need extra-special gentle care, as well as a stiff hand (possibly into domestic discipline, definitely into the occasional spanking or discipline role-play). I would say my dream Dom/sub relationship would be based in a DaddyDom dynamic, though I'm not fond of calling a guy Daddy.. cept maybe in the reference to him being the father of my children. I have a definite tendency tword "lil girl" behaviors which are natural to me. I also have a fair amount of spunk, smartass, brat in me. I am what I am. Be who you are, if we mesh, we mesh. I can also "switch" if needed/desired.. possibly. It would depend on our dynamic to make it work. *PLEASE READ* If you are looking for a slave/servant, or someone to fit into your poly household, I am not your girl. If you're looking to be anything but monogamous, I'm not your girl. If you desire to be 100% in the lifestyle, and love to go to play parties as a regular thing, if most of your close friends are in the lifestyle with you.. I'm probably not your girl. ___ "I don't know how to give less than all that I am, and I haven't figured out how not to get hurt by it." -v "without the power of the submissive there is no dominance.. only brutality.. that is the thing that makes the difference.. when the submissives power is not magnified and returned.. when it is just taken away.. that is abuse." - Anonymous Domme

Strange enough, but it seems like Collarme has improved with age. Last I was here, it was near impossible to find real actual people who treated you like a real actual person. Two real emails in less than 24 hours from what so far seems like decent folk. I am shocked, and relieved.

Sometimes we're the last to know, because as honest as we are with others we're not always honest with ourselves. I'm not ready for this yet, and have to clean up a bit in my life right now. There are two Doms that I've met here, which make me wish I was in a different place in my life. Maybe someday. Hope.

For whom it may concern, there is one special Dom that has caught my eye, and despite all my efforts otherwise, I can't stop thinking about him.

However, since he has made no effort to try to secure me or meet me, I will continue to talk with other interested parties to see if I can sway my heart elsewhere.

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