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Female Dominant, 28, gulfport, Mississippi
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Female Submissive, 45, Melb
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Male Dominant, 50, glasgow
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About librarygrll
Please note: after fielding various questions and responses on this site: I am polyamrous. I am seeking someone who is also polyamorous. My mode of polyamory is very conservative, more like polyfidelity.
ALSO: I am not willing to relocate, or to engage in a long distance relationship. This means I need to meet people who live within about 90 minutes drive of me. if you live farther away.... dating/relationship is not possible.. so I dont have the time or energy to engage in a corrpondence. Sorry.
If this fits you, please read on.......
I have been happily married to my (submissive) husband for 20 years. We subscribe to the polyfidelity model of intentional family. What this means is a group that is committed, connected, concerned about each other, and there is full information exchange within the group. I am seeking a Dominant partner. I broke up with my Sir of 5 years 1 1/2 years ago and I am ready to embark on a new D/s relationship. I prefer a small, closed group.
I do not 'play' with various partners, but rather would be interested in forming a long term, committed relationship. I do not participate in "don't ask don't' tell" networks, "friends with benefits", or those who date and 'play' around sexually with various friends. In fact I dislike the use of the word 'play' in this context because I view sexual intimacy as more of a sacred exchange in a long term relationship, rather than something fun to do on Saturday night. I value commitment over novelty. I am happy to talk more about this, but my desire is to form sexual unions with those with whom I share commitment, love and a desire for longterm relationship.
This man I am seeking could be single or partnered, the important thing is that you share my values and we can find that out through getting to know each other. I am open a man who would have Dominant energy, whether they be Dom, Switch, or Service Tops.
I would love to chat and develop friendships with men who are seeking a serious connection. |
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Well, I am opening a new chapter in my life. After 4 years wearing the collar of my Sir, he has released me ( after we figured out I am not a good fit for his growing family).
I have learned that I am not a good fit for a 24/7 D/s or M/s relationship. I need to be able to have conversations outside of the bedroom as equals. Inside a negotiated scene, I very much crave being a submissive and finding someplace safe to do that. And finding someone who is motivated to explore that with me. |
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It seems really hard to keep a dialogue going most of the time. Maybe it's too abstract, words typed on a screen, makes it hard to seem real.
Still, in olden times...before phones..... when people sent letters across oceans it was the only way they could stay connected..... people had to wait weeks to hear from someone. We are so spoiled now. |
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How many needles
Can you find in a haystack?
Find something solid.
Looking for shiny
Is not the answer: Feeling
for your heart's desire.
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Edit.... chop and clip. OK, LOL, well that didn't work well. |
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OMG there are a lot of people here who either CAN'T read, or are not motivated to read when presented with all the luscious pictures. Either way, literate is at the top of my list... soo......... |
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I didn't realize there was a journal feature here on this site.
I will try making a note here.
I have noticed quite a few Dominants sending me nice emails, but they do not bother reading my profile and see that they need to contact my Sir first. This saddens me, because I am not able to respond to their nice note, since they did not follow protocol. OTOH, I guess it does make a nice filtering device for eliminating those who can't read even the first paragraph of my profile. But it is disappointing.
I would like to meet folks here. I hear alot of Doms complaining there are no real subs on this site. I am real. My Sir is real, and our poly household is real. I am hoping those who are interested in meeting others who are actually real, would be respectful and follow the stated protocol.
I also saw a Dom who wrote on his profile that Collarme is not a site for finding true love. HE IS WRONG! I found my Sir here on this site, amazing as that might be. We found each other 4 years ago here on this site, so I know you should never limit your idea of where you might find someone who is a wonderful fit.
Best of luck to you all in your journey. |
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