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Switch Couple, 25, State College, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 33, Madrid
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Female Submissive, 25
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About Liandrin
*shyly peeks around corner*
Hullo *waves*, I'm Lia. I suppose I should break down a few things about myself in a nice, neat fashion (I'm annoyingly fastidious that way) so that you get the right idea about me:
1. I'm not currently looking for a partner - Dom or sub.
2. I'm 'nilla with subbie tendencies in the bedroom (i.e. bedroom sub who sometimes tops from the bottom, if my partner so desires).
3. I'm a self-described Huguenot quirky.
4. I'm stubborn but quick to apologise, if I am in the wrong.
5. I'm a borderline otaku (i.e. fancy term for geek, with particular regards to anime, manga, comics and gaming).
6. I'm a firm believer in keeping in shape; however, I prefer the outdoors as opposed to camping out in the gym. I really do not relate with gym jockeys (sorry lads).
7. I'm creative... or at least I try to be. I like to write and draw and perform, even if only to an audience of one.
8. I have a sense of humour. Of course humour is as relative as it is subjective, so what I find funny may not be what makes you laugh. But I do have the ability to laugh at myself and that counts for something, right?
9. I enjoy intelligent conversations but I'm not looking to get into a row with a self-described pundit. No need to try to impress me. Just be yourself, unless you happen to be a braggard. If that's the case, then just move along. n_n
10. Beware gingers. I am slightly evil and more than willing to speak my mind, albeit I always try to voice my opinions and objections with the utmost decorum. <3
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Why - why do some people have to try to convince me that THEIR lifestyle is the best for ME? And why is it when I politely tell them it's not for me I'm all of the sudden wrong and not open? Or I'm hostile.
Yeah, well, I can become pretty pissed when you keep telling me what I'm thinking or that I'm wrong and not listening and to pay attention because you're insulting me is pearls of wisdom.
And you acting all smug because you've riled me up? Yeah. How would you react if I tried to turn you onto my lifestyle and claim you're wrong and ignorant for not thinking the EXACT same way I do? You'd throw a fucking wobbler, that's what. |
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Was asked if I was real today.
*looks at self*
Yup, certainly not a fictional character. I have real mass and everything. \o/ |
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Ah another asshat today.
This one believed himself to be a psychologist ('I have a background in psychology'), which means he has taken maybe two or three undergraduate courses (like introduction to Psych) and states that the reason I don't want to meet him is because of my paranoia of being raped and the fact that I am a sociopath. ^^
Lol! Figure THAT one out! |
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Another example of ignorance at its finest:
(left out name of the couple just to avoid them getting spammed with hate mail or whatnot)
'HI we just saw your ad and we were interested... we are also fairly new to the idea and originally set out to find a "slave" to serve us... we are quickly realizing it will be very time consuming to train a slave and are leaning toward more of a sub like yourself. We know we want to experiement with the lifestyle and think we would be better served to begin with more of a sub..
If you are interested in talking let us know.'
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My response:
'Read my profile and perhaps you wouldn't need to send this message. ^_^'
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Their reply:
'WE did read it and not sure what the issue it.. WE DID NOT SAY WE WANT YOU AS A SLAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are also tired of those on here who cant read!!!!'
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My response:
'I never said you called me a slave. Whoa mate. Settle down. My bio says I'm not 24/7 and I'm not a subbie. Relax and practice what you 'exclaim' (!!!!).'
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Their final reply before blocking me:
"Hmm... well that is interesting..LET ME QUOTE YOU!!! "I guess you could call me a nilla with subbie tendancies in the bedroom." .. and if I recall correctly our first mail to you stated we were looking for your type at this point. I have read every word of your profile and our stating we wanted your type was because we READ YOUR PROFILE!!!!
are you sub??? do you know??? You are what makes this site awful at times. You are confused... not sure why??? You are yet another we add to the blocked list. Its ashame we have to weed out all of you."
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So this is all my fault cause I stipulate that I'm not a 24/7 and I'm not a sub? I don't get it. My profile clearly indicates I am a switch and am not a 24/7. I'm also not looking to be some Dom couple's play toy. They say their new to all this, blah blah, rah rah, and yet they are telling me I am unsure of what I am. No, I am sure of who I am. They can't decide whether they want a slave or a sub so they email a switch! o_O Plus, nowhere in my profile does it say I'm seeking couples.
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I am NOT a slave -- repeat -- NOT a slave!!! |
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For those who actually read bios -- I am NOT a slave! I do not automatically become your subbie because you are a Dom. EARN my respect and submission! I am a switch and not 100% subbie. Also, I am vanilla and damn proud of it. I am interested in this world and want to know more of it because I feel a part of it. But if you're just looking for me to grovel at your feet and do whatever you want, MOVE along!
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~Lia |
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*blows kisses, giggles and scampers off*
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*runs back, breathless*
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Luck let a gentleman see just how nice a dame I can be. I know the way you've treated all those gals before me...Luck be a Lady tonight!
A lady doesn't leave her escort. It isn't fair. And it isn't nice!
A lady never flirts with strangers. She'd have a heart. She'd be nice.
A lady doesn't wander all over the room and then blow on some other guy's dice.
So why don't we keep this party polite.
Never get out of my site!
Stick with me baby, I'm the gal that you came in with!
Luck be a lady tonight!
(Julie London's verses in "Luck be a Lady" with Frank Sinatra) ^^ |
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I guess it's hard for some to wrap the concept around their head that I am NOT a slave nor will I ever be. And again, bullies need-not-apply. If you think you have control over me not even knowing who I am (or just seeing my profile and deciding that you will put me in my place right off with your 1st offensive and rude message), prevent me from blocking or reporting you then Oh Great Master! ^_~
~Lia ^^ |
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Well I am still new to this (3 days), but through several conversations with both doms and subs I have come to the conclusion that I am primarily a sub in bed with switching tendancies; however, I am a domme in every day life. Not that I try to control others, but I am a very strong and in control woman with regards to my lifestyle.
I hope that clears up some. I'm not here looking for bullies. 
~Lia |
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