LESLIESRETREAT

some of us out there, do not take this power on both ends seriously.  It upsets me to know that there are some that put their own desires ahead of their own children.  This lifestyle was not created so that the selfcentered could live out their fantasy and desires from their childhood, it was created to enhance what you already have.   to all those bipolar subs, if you are not medicated, do not contact me.   

Introspectively, I know and admit to my weakness's.  I use my Dominance to as a means for correctiveness.   Seeking excellence in life is the underling goal for me.   

This leads me to my tenaciousness to learn and, understand why people come here.  My beliefs are mine and by no means or intentions to imply they are truth.  

I believe, the title of sub and slave are synonymous.  Those who consider themselves subs are actually part time slaves or better yet, slave wannabes.

There are more male slaves than female slaves.  Why ?  Over the centuries, Woman have (although very slowly, I might add)  evolved into a role of being equal to men.   Should a Woman consider herself to be a slave, it would seek such havoc onto society.  Not to mention,  having to diminish, what took centuries to accomplish.  The path that lead us to the 21s Century, were lead by the Woman of great Strength and devotion , Woman like, Susan B. Anthony, Gloria Stienman and so many others. 

Men on the other hand, do not share this past with us.  They are free, without guilt, to be who they Need to be.   It is their inner sole that seeks to be released.  It is our inner soles who find one another in life.  Sometimes, we don't recognize it at first, but if you are with someone for a length of time, you eventually find it.

In the 17th and 18th century, Women were the property of Men.   Young girls were often married by the age of 13 or 14 and if women weren’t married by the age of 25, it was socially humiliating. Marriage was mostly for economic benefits, not romantic situations. Widows were also pressured to get married as soon as possible.. This was a tactic to keep Woman suppressed.  Women were considered legally dead once they were married under common law. Once married, they legally became one with their husbands. Married women had no control of their earnings, inheritance, property, and also could not appear in court as a witness nor vote. Their husbands, therefore, were responsible for all aspects of their wife including discipline. They owned their wives and as owners do with their pets, they collared them.

Husbands could legally beat their wives. If a woman ran away from the husband, she was considered a thief because she was stealing the clothes she was wearing and and they belonged to him.   If a man murdered his wife, he would be hung.  If a woman murdered her husband, she would be burned alive. 

 Regular beatings were given to their wives to remind them, of who was in control.    A beating or an act of humiliation, degradation will make her completely vulnerable, at which time she accepts her husband as being her owner and turns over complete control to him.  

The process the woman used to accept this, is one in which is used today with subs/slaves.  During their beating, in order to not feel the pain, or have to accept turning over control to another, their minds would leave their bodies and enter into their inner soles./ inner self,  a place where they can escape the beating or the  pressures of life.  This place brings joy, peace, relaxation, happiness.  BDSM refers to this place as "sub space."  Others outside the life style use mediation for the same purpose.

The practice of controlling your wife, thru beatings, still exists today and is encouraged, as with the Muslin's.

It wasn't until the 70s that US Enforcers, no longer turned their cheek to a man beating his wife.

Our government today, still practices this type of behavior,  with our wars:  We humiliate and defeat our enemies into submission.

More to come later

They say  The Female Sub, by nature, are lazy human beings, insecure, shy. HOW can this be?  Does their laziness derive from their past.  Did daddy tell their little girls, Don't worry honey  I will take care of everything for you.