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Fetish Synopsis: 37 year old male in San Jose interested in D/s, service, maid, crossdressing, latex, chastity, and puppy/pet play. In an open relationship. Part of a leather family and participant in public leather scene. Not an extreme masochist. DD-free.
Now that’s over with, let me say that while I am certainly looking for someone who shares my particular fetishes, it is submission itself I seek. I am naturally in service, not just to my partners, but to my friends, community, and, if I could, to the world. I understand the difference between a laundry list of fetishes and topping from the bottom; I am not seeking to control a relationship, but to give up control.
I have a partner who is my submissive, (though as often happens I am as much in service to her as she is to me). We have an open relationship, and she is fully informed. I have a life which includes her and her 4 year old daughter, and the demands of that life limit my practical ability to be a full time submissive. I am looking instead for a relationship that would involve periodic service, and perhaps play if desired. I love sensuous intimacy, but sex is not something I seek. I am happy simply cleaning, simply being of service.
Outside of kink I enjoy art, the outdoors, writing, gardening, thrift shops, philosophical discussions of obscure subjects, cats (though I am allergic to some), and children. I am a detail-oriented problem solver, but find release in the quiet solitude and intense, spiritual, almost sexual focus of my creative self. My subspace shares many of those qualities.
I could write much more, but prefer to keep this brief. If you are intrigued, send me a wink and I‘ll tell you more. Or you could write me.
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