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Note Im not comfortable having a picture on my profile, but happy to send on request.


Vanilla me

I love music, cooking, reading, hikingcamping, being outdoors, spending time with friends, going to gigsraves etc. Im left-wing and take a pretty active interest in politics. I try to take a curious attitude to everything.


Non-Vanilla me

Im educated, outgoing, respectful and submissive.

First and foremost, I like to please. I like to be used to improve someones life. Obviously I have my kinks, but I dont like being indulged purely for my own benefit. If Im being told to do something and I know its because its one of my kinks, and that the Domme isnt really into it, then the whole dynamic seems false to me. Im interested in what I can do for you, not the other way round. Anyway...

Humiliationdegradation and the vast majority of what falls under those umbrellas is my main thing. Im especially into the more mental and psychological elements of humiliation. I like to be put in my place, so to speak, and I love being made to feel that it really is my place. Once that is established, even the tiniest act of submission can be potent. Without it, it can just feel like roleplay (fun, but not as fun).

All that said, through exploration and with one particularly wonderful person I played with, Ive learnt that the act of submitting itself, even in completely non-sexual ways, can be really fulfilling for me. I enjoy dedicating myself to improving someones life (even in the tiniest of ways), and to putting a smile on their face. I suppose this is all tied up in my love of worship, separate from (though not always necessarily disconnected from) my enjoyment of humiliation and degradation.

Im an obedient, natural submissive. I dont have any bratty tendencies at all.


Looking for

Id like to find a play partner, though I wouldnt rule out something more serious with the right person. I want to have good chemistry with this person, and hopefully a meaningful connection based on mutual respect and trust. The importance of this depends on the sort of play, but I know from what little experience I have that such a foundation allows for a much deeper and more powerful experience. I want someone who I can fully trust and become extremely vulnerable around. And I want that person to exploit, use, and most of all have fun with that vulnerability

Im certainly not opposed to NSA play sessions at all, but the above is my ideal.

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mastermaya
 
 Age: 49
 Central, Wisconsin