In order to be "in" with the in crowd, I'm changing my profile....
PLEASE, "Doms" in Africa, send me money, I want to come to your country.
Instead, how about this:
For dom you are makng I am travel to your wonderful land but money is high. Thank you.
There! That ought to do it.
Hello, everyone.
I'm married. Been here, done that...(and that and that and that, and some of THAT, too). I get alot of "crap" from people because I'm outspoken and goofy (and incredibly irreverent and love to tease). Some people say that isn't "submissive behavior". Nuts, to that. I say.
Answers to some FAQ:
1. Yes, my husband knows about my weirder "activities". My marriage is successful, stable and fulfilling, but drat, he isn't dominant. He can no more "turn on" the dominance than I can "turn off" the submissiveness....I wish it were that easy.
2. Yes, I know, 24/7 isn't an option, so sorry. Some might even say collaring isn't an option, but I say where there's a will, there's a way and I've had a couple of really successful relationships.
3. Yes, sex is "okay". (Well, when you're by yourself, it's only "okay", but with partner(s), it should be great!)
4. No, I won't post a picture but I have 'em.
5. I'm cute. I'm smart. I don't smoke. I only drink socially. I don't care to "play" casually, but on the flipside of that, I don't want to be a dominant's "end-all-and-be-all", either. A prospective partner's personality is REALLY important--MUCH more important than a list of toys or what they do or don't do, etc.
6. As to "What have you done, not done"....I won't answer those questions until I know YOU. Long, long ago (in a galaxy far away) I had another profile here where all I got was horndog mail from people (?) who wanted pictures and long drawn out descriptions of activities. I got fed up, vowing I'd never find "my" partner. I still don't believe I WILL find him, but hope springs eternal. I will say I'm adventurous with reasonable (I think) limits.
7. With all the scam stuff going on, please don't be offended if your email is deleted unread if you don't have a profile or if your profile seems to be written in a language other than English.
8. If you wrote to me for a day and talked about “owning” me and then disappeared, I probably haven’t given you a second thought...and I certainly won’t be giving you a second chance, either.
It's time to get out the soap box.
I can't pretend that every person I've ever spoken to on Collarme has elicited fireworks. Let's face it, some people are duds--and some are downright stupid.So what about that magical moment when you've connected? Your breath catches, your pulse races, there's electricity in the air. You plan in steps...talk on the phone....maybe get a webcam...AND THEN...THE BOTTOM DROPS OUT. Each of the following things has happened to me, recently:
1. He's attentive, shows up for scheduled 'meetings' on time. He responds in a timely manner....AND THEN...less than a week after the initial 'I so want to dominate you', he doesn't show up at the time he asked YOU to be there. He's hiding from you online, or he's not speaking to you. He may have also blocked you, but you feel like too much a moron to bother to dig any deeper and find out.
2. He sends you an email out of the blue--with some sort of reference that doesn't even apply to you. You shrug it off and reply politely, anyway. Suddenly, you're having a conversation. You write back and forth. The letters get more and more in depth...he seems to like you even when the 'deal-breakers' come out in the open...AND THEN...for no reason you can surmise, your last letter was deleted unread and he's blocked you from sending any more. THIS is after an 'apology' he's issued for some sort of imagined slight.
3. He approaches you and strikes up a conversation. He's enjoyable to talk to. You talk to him for a couple of weeks, pick up a phone, really connect...AND THEN...he goes on vacation and you NEVER hear from him again. No messages, your emails are unread and you think he's DEAD somewhere and have no idea what (if anything) to do about it.
In short...if you're one of the above types (or, in fact, any one of a NUMBER of equally-disturbed types who do similar things) please, do not waste my time. I'm busy. I have a life. Some day, I will have the dominant who wants me to make his life sweeter, but until that day comes, I don't want to use my intelligence to be a 'filler' for you. So let's do everybody a favor and if you just want some online playtime, say so up front. Thanks. Also, Sometimes, it's a pain being over-educated.I've recently gotten mail about my use of the word 'past time' as opposed to 'pastime'. The writer says it's 'ironic' that I have issues with the word 'dominate' but do not know how to spell 'pastime'. Since I'm all for nipping these little snipes in the bud, I will post my response, here:Fact is, the etymology of the word comes from passe-temps, a French expression that translates 'pass time.' In English, pastime was once pass-time and also past-time. The use of which has fallen out of favor to be sure, but which is correct. Usage includes, but is not limited to, a madrigal by Henry III 'Past Time in Good Company' (which, I believe, was memorialized in music by Jethro Tull). The spelling of 'Past time' here, of course, is a translation from 'Passetyme'--but either way, the 'new' spelling is 'Past Time', sans hyphen. Of course, if this is not enough of an argument for you, I will be happy to drag out the etymology books, put away the philosophy of language texts that have overtaken my office--and while we're about it, we'll also discuss your misuse of the word 'ironic'.
I don't remember when the current crop of cartoons replaced Warner Bros, but I don't like it.
I always wondered what was planted in order to get 'seedless' varieties of things.
Contrary to what you might think, you CAN do 'too much' Pilates.
I do crossword puzzles--in ink.
I also do complex equations and statistical analysis in ink.
I am not afraid of weapons.
You can use antibacterial gel in fireplay.
Isolation is a good thing.
Punishment is bad.
You should always finish what you sta
The above was a joke. Humor is important. If you don't have a sense of humor, please don't use mine to make up for it, you won't like it.
I run 'hot' and 'cold' when it comes to 'the search'. I don't spend huge amounts of time on the net. In a usual 18 hour day, 15 of those hours are very, VERY full, by my choice. Let's just say I'm 'accomplished'. Hi, everyone-- I have to get on the soap box: I'm a girl and sex is EASY. Put me in a room with 100 men. Of those men, at least half will be in a relationship. Most of those will have a social stigma that inhibits them from recreational sex with someone other than their partner. Of those 100 men, perhaps as many as 10 percent may be gay. A few might even be asexual. I tell you, as gently as possible, that given a few minutes with any of these 100 men, that at least 95 percent of them will want to fuck me. I don't mean to be a braggart, but am only going by past history. You, as a prospective dominant who wishes to pursue me, need to know one thing: I am not intimidated nor impressed by sex. I enjoy it, but I've already worked out my taboos. So, that being said, if you can't offer me something more, you're not only wasting my time, but your own.
