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Male Dominant, 35, Sydney
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Male Dominant, 48, Winston-Salem, North Carolina
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Male Dominant, 21, SJ Campos
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About leandar
I am 40 years old and while I have had a flare for some kinky things, though honestly it's more on the sensual side, as I can be quite a good romantic when she who is getting it deserves such affection.
Let me be frank and honest with you. I am/have ADHD and Asperger's. What does this mean? This means I will forget. I will be absent minded. I will struggle with things like social cues and sarcasm. I confess I absolutely suck at picking up on hints! If you don't like something I'm doing, tell me! Yes, it will horrify me to know I have offended someone, but I would still rather know and be able to fix it than know nothing about it!
You know, I have spent most of my life looking out for others and putting myself aside, doing things for everybody else and essentially ending up for all my efforts with... an empty house...
Not this time. After years of always looking out for others, it's time to put emphasis on me now and take care of myself. It is time to try some new things and stretch the limits, if not completely smash them to bits!
For some deeply personal and spiritual reasons, I have changed my alignment from sub back to unsure. What does that mean, you say? Well Cochise, unsure means unsure! I thought I was supposed to be a sub, but there are other thoughts and feelings inside of me that are in total conflict with that, not to mention other personal beliefs! So, I am going to wait and see before I decide what I am, truly. I consider this a deep, personal journey inside myself and I invite those closest to me to come along for the ride. If you do, fantastic! If you don't, shrug
While I hate the term, I find that the term ''finding myself'' is apt for what it is that I must do. I cannot be what it is that I must if I am not absolutely certain of it myself. It is also not fair to the people that I am around, taking the time to work with me and train me and I will not dishonor them anymore and especially moreso, I will no longer dishonor myself nor those closest to me by acting the fool. I do love doing things for people, at the same time, I know how the Bible commands the men to be the leaders of the household and to love and respect your wife as Christ loved the church and that it is my job to lead the house, not bend a knee and allow myself to be ruled.
That being said, I am still quite interested in learning many new things in and of the lifestyle so I am also looking for people to talk to, to make new friends, and let me not kid anyone, I also intend to find the lady of my dreams, whether she be a dominant, a switch, a sub or a slave, I really don't care! Just so long as she loves me with every bit of her being! Again, I must thank that darling BKS_lady, for agreeing to be my mentor. I will be a handful, as I think I have already proven, but I expect it'll be worth it when it's all said and done.
I do work full-time and I am also a full-time college student. I should have my associates degree next year and then I will start trying to find work using the degree. Then I will continue in school until I have my bachelor's degree. So yes, you will find that I can be construed as fairly smart. I am something of a fanatical reader, I read all the time. Apparently it's a lifelong trait. Reading is a great way to learn, but as I say, I learn best by doing! Yes, that way too! heh
I scored as Switch
Switch.........................................93%
Experimental..............................68%
Dominant...................................64%
Bondage....................................54%
Sadist........................................50%
Masochist..................................46%
Submissive................................39%
Vanilla.......................................29%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur................21%
Degradation..............................11%
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