PaintedOne

My name is not slave. Neither is it girl, bitch, sub, whore, hoe, fatty, pig, cow, woman, or slut. General terms of endearment such as hun, darlin, sweetie, etc. are okay. I'm from the south, so those terms are normal for me.  But I do have a screen name you can use. Or you can forgo any form of address at all. I don't care. I'm not going to call you anything, so you are welcome to not call me anything. You are not, however, welcome to call me any of the derogatory or subordinating terms above.  I do not belong to you and I have not consented to any sort of dynamic with you, so therefore you are my equal. I will not pander to you because you happen to be dominant within your relationships. You are not dominant to me. I will not afford you anything beyond the common courtesy with which I treat everyone else. If that bothers you...well, frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn. 

Reading some of the profiles on here is absolutely hilarious. I'm not sure why people think "I need slave" is sufficient information to make someone interested in you. Or why men seem to think that pictures of naked women on their profile would make a woman want to speak to them.   

And why is it that nearly every female dominant uses abusive language in their bios? You are not a princess or a goddess. No one should pay you for your insipid little comments on a webcam. Also, calling someone a loser as your first introduction isn't really appealing. Maybe most guys are into that, but I feel bad for the ones who aren't and can't find a damned alternative to the "pay me, loser" types. 

I also love the "masters" who want a girl who "knows her place" and, by that, they mean they want a stranger to bow and scrape to them just because they happen to enjoy being the s in an M/s or D/s relationship.  Being submissive or a slave does not make one a sub or a slave to every person with "master" in their screen name. Courtesy may be a given, but respect is always earned. 

Also, to you idiots out there, calling a woman fat at any point in a message and assuming that will turn her on is epically stupid.