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About Lea9
1 year ago I started my transition at becoming a woman, and I have been loving every minute of it, and for the first time in my life I am happy with who I am. Since then I have met a wonderful woman right here on craigslist and have been with her for over 6 months. I love her and she treats me like her girlfriend, but I still yearn to be with a guy and so I find myself once again coming back to craigslist in the hopes of finding just that. If I could find her on here, why cant I find an awesome guy too?
Now don't think I am cheating on her, I am not, I asked her before writing this if she didn't mind me looking for a boyfriend and she encouraged me. I bet you are saying "what she encouraged you?", well yes that's part of being polyamorous (not to be confused with paligimy), and honesty is another part of it as without honesty the relationship wil fail. Every person involved in the relationship must be honest with everyone else and not hold secrets or tell lies, and this will be expected of you as well. She has me as her primary partner, and another "gender queer" girlfriend as her secondary, and so I am here looking for my secondary, but not a one night stand or a so called FWB here on Craigslist. No a true FWB, a real friend who is there for the friend part first and the benefit part second. A person who wants to hangout together, do things together (fyi, I am somewhat tomboyish in my actions, so things like off roading interests me), or just lounge around and snuggle with.
I am kinky but not what you may think of as kinky, for me it is a lifestyle an "alternative lifestyle" as most call it. My family is enormous and they are all kinky, we may not be related in any way but to me and those in this lifestyle they are family. I see my them constantly, from going out to eat at a munch, or watching them get tied up and beaten while displayed naked in a room filled with people, or see them tying someone up and suspending them high off the ground with just rope. We are a kinky family, and while its not expected of you to be involved in it, you will be asked to be open to it and other kinks, as well as being non-discriminative against anyone for any reason. I am an educator in alternative lifestyles, I volunteer, staff, and host numerous events in town and all are kinky in some way, and I devote a lot of my time to volunteering for a non profit that educates other people in alternative lifestyles.
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Are you still here? Good, either you are curious about what I wrote or you actually may have a thing for me, I hope its the latter. And if it is the latter and you can abide by what I wrote, the please continue reading.
=^_^=
I tend to be a person of actions rather than words but occasionally, like this, I just explode with writing. I have a hard time describing myself, sure I can tell you what I look like, but as for who I am it can be extremely difficult, and I hope my writing can give you a sense of who I am.
I am the type of person that will do almost anything for a friend, like driving a 100+ miles because of a flat tire, or helping my them move from place to place, I would even bail them out of jail but with one hell of a scolding all because I care about them.
I am an explorer, I want to see new things, go places I have never been, and do things I have never done before. Like exploring a dark tunnel in a hillside, to taking a road trip across the state, or just finding new trails near my house.
I am curious, not curious like it killed the cat, but more like curiosity flattened the cat like a pancake, then scraped it off, wadded it up and threw a three point shot in the garbage can. Yeah that curious and by the way, I have nothing against cats, other than being allergic, in fact I am a cat myself, leopard to be exact (yeah I am a furry too, lol) and I even have 2 feline animal spirits?that follow me and intertwine in my life (Yep, I am pagan too, sort of).
I am a thinker, I have so many ideas that pop in and out of my head (like a continuously running motor with no outside power source), so many in fact I actually forget them as fast as I thought of it. Every now and then i try to write them down but usually fail, when I do get a chance to right them down, WOW, I go at it. From drawing an entire blueprint to scale by freehand for an outdoor deck, gazebo, and hot tub. To writing everything down via words only in complete and superfine detailed descriptions of how to make something.
I am a conversationalist with myself, no I am not crazy, well not as the law sees it. I will not only talk to myself, but I will ask myself questions, and then answer them, and may even carry on a conversation with myself. I am told this is a sign of great intelligence, in fact Einstein had the same traits as I do, but I doubt I will ever be as smart as him.
=^_^= So do I have your attention now? =^_^=
You are probably wondering what i do on an average day, well no day is average for me. I am on disability retirement and no, I am not some obese person behind a desk nor am I laid up in bed, to be honest i can be quite active, or somewhat lazy, it all depends on the weather, if its cold I am severely limited in my outdoor activities and spend most of the winter indoors watching anime and playing PS3 FPS games, and of course volunteering at events to keep active. When its warm or hot outside, I am very active and travel to the beach or around the area as much as possible. Or I stay at home and work on one of the many projects like landscaping, or remodeling something in my house. The downside is, the more active I am, the more recovery time i need due to my spinal fusion.
=^_^=
So now that you have made it this far, I will finally describe what I look like on the outside. I am currently 40 years old but look more like 25, hormones help a lot, my body hair is slowly thinning out and i shave my body about once a week, and try to remember to use my laser so it will all be gone. I have hazel eyes, and dark somewhat blackish straight hair down to just below my shoulders, but usually put it up in a pony tail with bangs in the front.?
Ok, now its your turn, age is not important to me but keep in mind the majority of my friends is 20-30 and I am not looking for anyone over 50, unless you have very similar interests as me. Please be thoughtful and honest in your response. When you respond please tell me about yourself, who you are, and what you are looking for. And keep in mind if you mention sex, except for past experiences, I will instantly delete your message without a seconds thought.
Please respond with more than just a short blurb, go into detail about who you are and what your like, or write something to give me some sense of who you are. If you can't be open and honest to me in your first email, how can you be that way with me later in time?
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=^_^= Mreow =^_^=
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I recently saw the most realistic Simpsons parody ever. It's totally live action and Marge is crazy hot, but i seriously almost crapped my pants when i saw Flanders. Its like they pulled him straight out of the cartoon and made him real... it was posted here The Simpsons Parody |
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Well, i lately i have been finding more and more Dom's to play with, and i realize i am a huge pain slut. I have played before with others but, Last night was an intense play night. More so than any of my other nights. There was lots of hot wax, bondage, and lots and lots of whipping, spanking, flogging, caning, and sheer delightful pain infliction.
I want it more, and more often...
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