LaVamp


	lavamage Male Submissive, 19	LavaMama Female Dominant, 60, KehenaBeach, Hawaii

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	About LaVamp Will only respond if I find you interesting and attractive, I have a type! In order for me to ascertain whether or not you are attractive to me, I need some recent facial pictures. I will not consider anyone without facial photographs. Let's save some time here boys...no losers or weirdo's need trouble me, too many crazies on this site so I tend to ignore and delete any mail from men who are not to my liking. A male being submissive is never enough to warrant my attentions, sub males are 10 a penny after all. Let's get real here, it takes a lot more for a D/s relationship to work than just the bdsm and sexual components, just as any successful vanilla relationship can not be based on sex alone. For those whose need for submission is only ever expressed or satiated with sexual acts, kinks or fetish......move along now, nothing here for you to see. I am interested in a male submissive life partner who has his submission deep within him, in his blood, his heart and his soul. His cravings will be far deeper and not so superficial, his need to submit comes from his core and is his very essence as man. He is defined by his need to serve and to please, these desires are his driving force and motivation rather than the selfish needs of the more common "do me" sub that one encounters here. Understanding that giving for the pleasure of giving whilst expecting nothing in return is the mark of a true submissive, and the type I want to engage with, those who have a psychological need to be owned and controlled by a Mistress. He will only feel warm, alive and contented within the confines of a female led relationship. About Me.....Incredibly feminine, soft, fragrant, curvy....love silk, satin, velvet, lace....a sensual Domina, which translates to NO butch fetish attire like rubber, latex, leather. Unless your addiction is for the most feminine of Dommes, you won't suit me. About My Type.....Outwardly vanilla, first clue to that is the way he chooses to represent himself here. Masculine alpha male, educated, polished, cultured, dignified, refined. A smooth man, comfortable and poised, charming and relaxed, an excellent communicator. A big ask for this site, I know....but worth a try. I need to relate to the vanilla aspects of a man before any D/s compatibility can be explored.. I need to find him appealing, handsome to me. I need to find him fascinating, he must impress and interest me in all manner of ways, as a man who is deserving of my company and affections.

If you write to me with a view to me considering you, then YOU MUST attach vanilla pictures to your messages, I won't reply otherwise, simple as that.
If you write seeking my attentions, then you have to allow me to see what you look like, in order for me to take your application for consideration seriously. I do believe that attraction is important on several levels, and chemistry plays an enormous part, before I get into all the various levels and laws of attraction, first step is that you must appeal to me physically.
And boys, I don't appreciate pictures that are x rated, pictures that show an anus or genitals are abhorrent to me, and only succeed in repelling me.

Due to the lunacy on this site, I am compelled to delete a lot of messages unread.
I tend to be more selective and discerning than most. My Initial screening criteria is this.... an inoffensive name choice coupled with a profile that meets with my approval, if you pass that filter then I expect and accept respectful applicants only.

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