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Male Submissive, 22, Liverpool
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Male Dominant, 53, Manchester
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About lapitup
Time for an update.
Seems like the best way to cut through some of this is to say what it is I DON'T WANT.
Financial domination may be for some people, but it's something that's a complete and total turnoff to me. Kudos to those who get off on that kind of things, it's just not for me. If you are a prodomme, please don't waste my time or your time. It's simply not going to happen. No, I'm not a cheapskate - to the contrary. I have absolutely no problem taking care of each and every bill if there's complete trust, respect and understanding. That comes with time, not an initial handout.
Ok, now that I've got that out of the way. A little about me. I'm an in shape, professional 42 year old male. I'm a typical red blooded American. I like my sports, my beer, and women. Even though it may seem to be an oxymoron, I'm basically a responsible frat boy. I'm tough to completely crack, but I'm personable, outgoing, spontaneous and adventurous.
I tend to have sub tendencies, but I'm not overboard with it. I lean towards the sensual side of the game. Not that I'm necessarily against a little pain - it's not what I'm looking for. I don't want to be beaten, have my balls crushed or strangulated. I'm not into the goth/vampire/renaissance type things either. I guess I'm basically normal life vanilla with a kinky streak that needs to be brought out by a sensual woman.
What I'm looking for: A sexually confident, open-minded woman, preferably under 40, height/weight proportional. I can't see myself with somebody that identifies as a full blown sub. It just wouldn't work since I have those tendencies too. Don't mind switching it up, but I like variety. Not knowing what paths are going to be traveled is exciting to me. Intelligence, confidence and self-reliance is critical.
I'm certainly not against flings or bootie call relationships. I've spent much more of my years in those types of relationships than traditional relationships. However, in an ideal world, I would meet someone where we could build a serious relationship. One that leads to a traditional/vanilla exterior with a kinky love-life to be explore and expanded upon by both people. |
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