Watching "Secretary" (2002) with Maggie Gyllenhall. Good movie :)

     Whereas a Man is in possession of his woman, a woman does not posses anything. That is to say, she herself doesn't own any material possessions. Whatever was hers belongs to Him. Everything from her salary at work, or her earnings from a garage or bake sale, to the dollar bill she finds lying on the street belongs to Him. Anything she previously owned is to be surrendered unto Him, and anything acquired in the household during the duration of the relationship belongs to Him. After a Man acquires a woman, it follows that He should acquire everything that was once her own. As she becomes His, all she previously owned becomes His. An example of this implemented in context would be to consider a woman who, with His permission, invites friends over to His home (I don't say 'their' home because even though she lives there, she has no ownership of it) and serves them lunch without His permission, she is stealing from Him. This is true even in the instance that she doesn't live with Him and lives separately. The place where she resides still belongs to Him and she cant presume that she has the right to sell or give ownership of anything in the place she resides to anyone else without his consent. So she would need to have asked permission for that garage sale from earlier.

More of my opinions... a little more on possession. I always welcome feedback and even solicit it. What do you think? I'll come up with more examples or perhaps you have some specific examples of the ownership of a woman that you'd like to contribute?

Anyway it's lunch time now... that's all for now!!

This is what I think about ladies, and how we can be all over-the-top ready to service and submit our Man sexually, but not in and other area of our lives. I dont think that's how it should be.

In my every day life He has the right of possession. He has the authority to stop me seeing anyone he doesn't want me to see, whether another man or single girlfriends who might encourage me to take a walk on the wild side. He has the right to tell me to ask permission before going anywhere or seeing anyone. He has the right to meet or speak to people I see.

A friend of mine is in a relationship with a Man who requires her to be accessible via cell phone at any point in the day. He calls it her "leash."  He requires her to be contactable wherever she goes. He has the right to require that too. A Man has the right to require me to let him know where I am going. He has the right to tell me to ask permission to go where I want to go. He has the right to say no.

He has the right to tell me to dress modestly when I go out. If He wanted me to wear a chastity belt when I go out with the girls, I would.

He has the right to check on me as much as he likes. He has the right to ask me anything he likes, and to expect honest answers. I do not mind Him ‘interrogating’ me – as my Man, He has the right to do so any time He wants.

As it should be I think...

Someone just asked me if i think men and women are equal. Here's my opinion. It's just an opinion so don't bite my head off ;)

No. Men and women are separate and unequal. Westernized woman try really hard to go against what is biologically and evolutionarily our nature, but thats not how it should be. I think as a woman, any and every woman, we should be submissive and respectful not only to our husband, but we should honor and defer to our father and brothers no matter what age they are, to all of our male relatives and to men we dont know. We should be docile, obedient, amendable and domesticated. Because that's just the natural order of things and that's our duty. Thats how I think of it anyway.

I think it's safe to say that there is a distinct difference between a D/s relationship and an M/s relationship. I'm not looking for a Master, i'm looking for my Dominant.  The two terms although sometimes interchangeable as a way of addressing a man, are definitely not synonymous. I know my role as a submissive just as I know I dont submit to the first guy that claims to be a "Master" and starts ordering me around in the first email hahaha. Like any other relationship between a man and a woman, D/s is a two way street. And submission is a conscious decision that I make.

 Because let's face it, I dont know you and you don't know me and we're two ordinary people (hopefully) who have never said two words to eachother. I go to school and work in a coffee shop, maybe you work in an office or a construction site or a chemistry lab, or at Walgreens or whatever! So let's bypass the bull and get to know eachother as people. Unless of course, you just intend to have an online relationship, and never want to actually meet, in that case...go ahead and call me "little one." 

That's what i always think anyway, what are your thoughts?

Today is my first day in CollarMe, but another day in the seemingly endless search for a partner. It's been a few months since I've started searching but I'm not weary of it yet....don't think I'll ever be!