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LaFem

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Female Switch, 34, lancashire
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LaFem - Female Submissive, Amherst, MA Massachusetts | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About LaFem

http://www.soulshaven.f2s.com/newchecklist/answers.php3?chosenUsername=LaFem
I AM IN COLLEGE SO DO NOT ASK ME TO LEAVE AND MOVE IN WITH YOU. THIS PLACE IS MY DREAM COME TRUE.


I discovered kink at a very young age and was involved with a very strong Master for about 4 years. The problem with the relationship, besides our awfully large distance, was the fact that he was violent on a level that I didn't want in a Master/Mistress. By that I mean he's currently in jail for attempted murder. I have since then been trying to find a Dom/me that can be as extreme as I need without bringing violence into our lives outside of O/our relationship.
I'm very into humiliation and degradation but I have yet to find a Dom that understands how to fulfill that. I'm very into experimenting and trying new things and I'm looking for a Dom/me that can help that.
I am a feminist. I see being a sub as a very powerful and liberating role. I will completely submit to my Dom/me (unless I'm feeling bratty) during O/our play but I will NOT let my power and freedom be compromised in everyday life.
I am often a brat. I like the fight. I like to piss of my Dom/me. But not to the extent that they would leave me. Just to get a more serious punishment.
I have a high tolerance for pain but I am looking to extend it even further and push my limits even farther.
Outside of my life in kink I am at college to study the adult entertainment industry and how to make it safer and more empowering for women. I also play violin and am a very avid member in the hardcore scene back home.
I'm very friendly and willing to meet people so just message me!!

When I'm not in Amherst for college I live in Philly so I'm looking for people to play with there as well.

ATTN: I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE OVER THE AGE OF 40. DO NOT EVEN BOTHER MESSAGING ME. DO NOT REQUEST MY FRIENDSHIP WITHOUT A DETAILED MESSAGE EXPLAINING YOUR INTEREST IN SPEAKING TO ME. DO NOT BOTHER IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PICTURE SHOWING YOUR FACE.
Apparently I have to do this again.
I am a female.
biologically and most of the time that is my gender identity. though I've been known to be a little fluid.
i dont even message girls so im not sure what my "motive" would be.
but keep accusing me. its finals week, i need laughs
if you see that ive read your message but i havent responded please dont send another message asking me why i havent responded or acting all butthurt about it.
i probably just didnt have time to think of a response or something actually intelligent to say.
sorry.
but it makes you seem desperate. and thats a turn off.

do not tell me that you think i am attractive but would be a lot more attractive with more hair. i did this because it makes me feel beautiful....don't tell me it makes me less. its not flattering.

this whole "i dont think youre of age or actually a girl so i guess you have to get on cam and show me your tits because that somehow apparently proves that you're over 18" scam is old. very old. i am not gonna get on cam and show you my tits to prove that im over 18.

for the love of christ im 18. im not underage. stop telling me i look like i am.

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